I was just getting back to the condo after work on Friday when I saw my neighbor from the running group, as I now thought of him. I hadn’t thought about his invitation at all during the week, but he held the elevator for me and we talked as we went up. I felt like I had to agree to go, but really, I had nothing else planned, and wasn’t I supposed to be doing things differently?
He looked different to me today, although that might have been my horniness talking. He was wearing no ring and he’d gotten his hair trimmed during the week. A little bit of chest hair was peeking out under his shirt and he moved comfortably. We said we’d meet in the lobby at eight in the morning and go from there. I watched his ass recede down the hall and thought to myself that I needed to get MY ass in gear about a trainer.
I’d been putting off signing the papers to proceed with the divorce but figured I might as well get it off my plate, as I didn’t have anything else going on. I thought about going out, but that seemed like a waste of time, at least for now. I changed, did some mobility exercises, read through the papers as I waited for my food to be delivered. I dragged myself to bed, thoroughly depressed from the divorce papers, and the upcoming expense, even if I still thought she was being reasonable.
I slept poorly and made it to the lobby a little late. My neighbor was waiting. He was good enough to not comment on how lousy I looked. He lifted his eyebrow as if to ask if I was okay. I nodded and we left.
It took a few minutes to get to the trail, but the fresh air felt good, and meeting other guys took me out of my funk, at least temporarily. There were six of us. The leader of the group was a guy who seemed to be a little older than me but who moved like a natural athlete. His running tank showed off his arms and shoulders. We started on an easy pace and the conversation flowed as I was introduced to the other runners. My neighbor and I started talking more until we got to the first hill.
This is where the leader showed himself to be a leader. I was clearly struggling up this (not-so-steep) grade but he slowed the pace, encouraged everyone to hydrate, and made sure I wasn’t left behind. After the crest the leader (Robert) ran with me for a little while, talking about my experience and what I did. It wasn’t until later I realized he’d told me little about him.
We finished the eight-mile loop and did our cool down at the trailhead. Robert came up to me again and said he hoped he’d see me next week, I nodded, assuring him he would, and thanking him for his pacing. My neighbor (Philip) asked if I wanted to grab something to drink, so we stopped on the way back to the condos. I found out what he did, that he was single but “kind of” seeing someone, and his running.