Sometimes love hits unexpectedly. Sometimes it hits when you know it shouldn’t, and you must abstain. Sometimes you try all you can to abstain, but one moment of desire and weakness shifts everything. Then after that moment of weakness, you pick up the pieces and move forward.
I was excited to meet you for the first time. I knew my feelings for you were strong already, but I was able to contain them after all these years already – this would be no different. I was levelheaded and strong. I knew I could control my desires and the flame that burned stronger every time I talked to you. You were a wonderful friend and confidant, and I would not compromise that friendship. Our lives were very much separate, and we would never be able to make a relationship work due to living so far from each other and neither of us being willing to uproot ourselves. As much as I wanted you, I knew it could never happen.
You were my pen pal for many years, living overseas from me, and you happened to be charting through my territory to visit the US for the first time. Your last stop was to see me before going back home. “I’m saving the best for last,” you wrote to me, and I remember smiling at my screen.
While I waited for you at the coffee shop, I remember my legs nervously shaking beneath the table, and my head shooting upward to look at the entrance whenever I heard the jingle of the bell. When it was not you walking in, I’d look back down at my phone to see if you messaged me for help locating the shop. I remember the last jingle my mind registered. I looked up, and my breath hitched when I finally saw you walking in—eyes already set on me with a slight smirk on your face.
I slowly rose and took a small step toward you as you took several long strides. Your hug enveloped me, and I remember you smelling like cinnamon. I felt like crying from the overwhelming surge of emotion of finally being able to touch you.
The time went by quickly. We sat and enjoyed our coffee and pastries. Your laugh was like music to my ears, and every time you smiled, I felt my heart beat faster. You were so intimately close, our knees would touch, you would put your hand on my shoulder, you would move your seat closer. I couldn’t get enough of you.
After the shop, you invited me to your hotel room to give me a gift that you had brought me from your hometown. This was where I knew I had to maintain my strength and abstain, abstain, abstain. You made my head buzz, and the desire was making me delirious.
Your room was tidy, and the bed was freshly made from housekeeping. Or did you make it yourself? I will never know. You handed me but a simple gift, the fridge magnet that had your country’s name on it that I had been asking you to get me for years, but you insisted you wanted to personally hand it to me one day. The day had finally arrived.
The sun was setting outside, and you said we could relax in the room and keep chatting before you’d take me back home. I agreed, and I sat on the armchair next to the bed you sprawled yourself out on. You were on your back staring at the ceiling chatting with me when I noticed your eyes drooping and your responses becoming softer and softer. Soon, your breathing became rhythmic, and I saw you had fallen asleep.
I sat back in the chair for a few moments, listening to your breathing and wondering what my next move would be. I decided to turn off the lamp above you and make my way home for the night. We had until the next evening before you had to leave to go back to your country, and you needed the proper rest for it.