Sunshine. A word that lives in my brain in ambiguity. A word that conjures up images of warmth and sometimes hot. A word that sends images of softness, of love, and sometimes ... pain.
The Sunshine that runs through my brain today is one of pain. Sunshine is a woman I met in the Colorado mountains on a trip I took to be alone but through unforeseen circumstances, met her and fell deeply in love.
She was on a break from her husband - something they do, she said, at times, to refresh their marriage.
Though she captured my heart, the love only flowed one way. We spent a couple of weeks together talking, laughing, and making love.
You may think it strange that I say making love but they have an open relationship and after the first day I was in love.
It all came to an end one day when it was time for her to return to her husband. It hurt, as I watched her ride away but she had left me a small token of her affection in a note she left with her email. She wrote on the paper that should I ever be lonely, she would be there for me.
After another week in the mountains, I made it home and got back into my old life of work, hanging out with the guys on occasion and just living - barely.
Sunshine never left my mind. She was always there - her beauty, her sexiness, the personality that just fit me like a glove. All that she was, consumed me. I knew there would never be a day without her in my mind, but she was married, and I had to get on with my life.
Several months after returning home, some buddies call me to say there was a party coming up in a couple of weeks and wanted me to join them. I needed some fun in my life as it seemed all I did was dwell on a past that I had no business being a part of, so I told them I would be there.
When it came time for the party, I couldn't force myself to go. I was still yearning for my Sunshine. I decided - "fuck it," I was going to get drunk and drown her memory. The thought of her was pulling me apart and I felt I needed to hide in booze. Not a great idea but at this point I no longer cared.
About two blocks from my house was a little neighborhood bar named - "Curly's Hang Time" and that's where it all started.
I had been a six-pack into the night when I saw this gorgeous woman walk in. I didn't want a woman - at least not any woman but Sunshine - but there was something about this lady that was different.
She walked in like it was her place and had every right to be there. It seemed like everyone knew her - but me.
She looked my way but I just turned my head back into my beer.
"Don't start anything," I kept telling myself. You don't need to get hurt again, but there was something ... I didn't know what it was, but something, about her that said, get to know her.
She had taken a table near the back and ordered up a drink and was checking out the room when I glanced back. As I did, our eyes met, and I smiled but returned again to my beer. I knew I couldn't stay here without getting caught up in more trouble, so I drained my beer and got up to leave.
As I stood up from my stool to leave, I turned and bumped into her standing behind me. I grabbed her to keep her from falling and pulled her in close. The smell and the softness of her blew the beer clouds away. I stood there staring at this prize of a lady when she asked if I was ever going to let her go.
My eyes blinked away my gaze and when I realized what I was doing, I started apologizing profusely. I told her that I was just leaving and I didn't see her standing next to me.
She said, "Obviously."
As I started to leave, she said that the least I could do was buy her a drink for almost knocking her over. I was really hesitant but told her, ok, and she led me to her booth. I had the bartender bring our drinks to the table, and when he left, we started talking.
She told me her name was Joan and that she doesn't usually go out as she is more of an introvert and didn't like being around a lot of people. She said today was different because her boyfriend had left her for another woman and she wanted to get drunk. I told her I was in the same brain mode and that maybe we could do it together.
She laughed and we said SALUTE! and downed our drinks.
We spent the night laughing and crying over our lives until it came time for, "LAST CALL."
We finished our drinks and headed for the door but both of us were pretty well smashed by this time. As we stood outside I could see she was in worse shape than I so I asked if I could call her a cab.
She said she didn't want a cab but what she wanted was for me to take her home with me. I was a little worried about bringing someone home that wasn't quite right and then having to face the consequences in the morning. Somehow I let her talk me into it and in reality I didn't want to leave her in this condition to be at the mercy of someone else.
We stumbled a couple of blocks to my house and after getting inside she quickly passed out. I carried her up to the spare bedroom and covered her up - clothes and all - under a blanket. I walked out of the bedroom, closed the door, and headed to my room to sleep.
The next day, I arose thinking the house had fallen on my head. I got up and went to the kitchen and started the coffee and downed a hand full of aspirin.
I was on my second cub when Joan came into the kitchen. Without saying a word I slipped her a cup of coffee and the pill container.
She nodded her thanks and took them. She asked how she got here and then a little sheepish asked if anything happened last night. I assured her that nothing happened and she didn't need to worry. I could see the relief on her face.
I topped off her coffee and as we drank, I explained what had happened and how she got there.
I soon had breakfast going and we talked more as we ate. She said she was so sorry and hoped that she didn't put me out.
I assured her it was not a problem as it happens about once a week and looked to see if she saw that I was kidding. I guess she got the joke as she was smiling.
After about an hour and a half, she got up and said she had to get home so I walked her to the door. I gave her my number and told her that if she ever needed someone to talk to, I would be there for her. I watched her walk down the street toward her car thinking that was probably the last I would see of her.
A week went by and another weekend was about here when I received a text from Joan. She said that she was thinking of me and wanted to thank me for taking care of her and if I would like, to give me a home-cooked meal.
I wrote her back and told her as long as it didn't include getting drunk, she was on.
She gave me her address and said if I could make it to her house by 6 on Saturday, she would have dinner ready.
I texted her back and told her it was a date.
Saturday came and I picked up some flowers and a bottle of wine and drove to her house.
I was having conflicting feelings like I was somehow cheating but I knew I had to find a release and get on with my life. I didn't want to die on a dead-end road so I put a smile on my face and continued to drive.
Joan met me at the door dressed in a full-length dress and with light makeup. She was absolutely beautiful.
To me it's always about personality and Joan had it all. She was beautiful, personable, and exciting.
I handed her the flowers and wine and got the biggest smile and to my enjoyment, a kiss on my cheek.
She led me into her home and sat me on the couch facing the fireplace and said she would be right back.
I looked around and saw that she looked to have a pretty good life. A nice house and a nice car. On the fireplace were what looked like family pictures. She struck me as someone that was able to take care of herself - a self-sufficient woman.
She brought me a glass of wine and sat with me.
We talk about our lives but mostly our recent lives. She said she had been going out with this guy for two years and then just last week, out of nowhere, he dropped her. I could see her eyes tearing up, so I laid my hand on hers and changed the subject.
I asked about the pictures on the mantel and she said they were family pictures but they all lived on the other side of the country. She was the oldest of three - the other two being brothers.
After a while, she said dinner was ready, so we retired to the dining room and sat down at the table.
She refilled my glass, then poured more for herself.
I got up and asked if I could help and she asked me to bring in the plates of food while she got the napkins and water glasses out.