One of the things I learned while traveling is how important it is to find a café or bar I liked and keep going there day after day and gradually you become known. Fortunately, I was able to get a small room in the home of a kind, elderly woman who took me in with the understanding I would eventually pay her once I got a job. But then I found out I would have to prove I had several hundred dollars in order to be allowed to stay in Denmark and be eligible for working papers. Catch-22. I couldn’t do that because all I had was a dollar, and there I was stuck, not sure what I would do.
What I did, however, might appear foolish. I went to a really fancy restaurant and had a delicious steak dinner with a glass of wine. In those days, food was very inexpensive. I figured if I’m going to be broke, I might as well go out with a bang and not a whimper. So I had my delicious dinner, and then faced the harsh reality I was completely broke.
Every morning, my kind landlady brought me coffee, toast and jam. I had a little desk and I wrote every morning and evening, but during the day would go to the café I enjoyed and, gradually got to know a lot of other travelers and had many stimulating conversations. I was never without a cup of coffee or something to eat because of the generosity of so many people. Even the waitresses got to know me and often dropped me a half a sandwich or something tasty.
Many times, however, I was cold and hungry and would go to the café to see if anyone I knew was there. When there wasn’t a familiar face, I would stand, look around and see someone finishing a meal but leave food on their plate. When they put on their coat and hat and left, I would go to the vacated table and finish what was left before the busboy or waitress cleared the table. Sometimes I’d find a few French fries, a crust of bread, a remnant of a salad, or a bone with a little meat left. It was awkward, but I would do it as casually and as inconspicuously as possible, hoping no one would notice.
Usually no one paid any attention, except one night, I noticed a young blonde woman sitting at a nearby table, watching me with a smile on her lips. Our eyes met as I was putting a piece of bread with a little gravy into my mouth. I was caught, red handed, as they say. Rather than try to hide what I was doing, I smiled, shrugged my shoulders and was surprised when she left her table with her cup of coffee and joined me.
“I hope you don’t mind if I join you.” She smiled then looked down at the now empty plate. I was struck by her deep blue eyes, but couldn’t help notice her grapefruit sized breasts in the tight sweater and the way her long straight blonde hair fell well below her shoulders.
“No, I don’t mind, though I admit, it’s not the best way to meet someone.”
“Well, I liked watching you eat. l never saw anyone do what you did.”
“It’s not my favorite thing to do, but I was hungry and broke.” I couldn’t keep my eyes off of her smiling blue eyes and her breasts straining her sweater.
“So you’ve done this before,” she said, an amused look on her face.
“Yes, it’s surprising what people leave. I could have gone for a few more French fries though.”
She laughed and reached across the table to shake my hand. “I’m Birgit.”
“Peter,” I responded, taking her hand, “Glad to meet you. Are you Danish?”
“Yes, I grew up on a dairy farm not far from here. I go to the university.”
“Oh yes, the university, I have eaten there. A student I know gave me some meal tickets. I lucked out because it was all you can eat, but my month of tickets expired.”
“You did luck out.” She sat back and looked at me, her eyebrows scrunched as if puzzled. “I’m curious. You look interesting. I can see you’re American, but why are you here? Why are you broke? Don’t Americans have a lot of money?”
“Some do, but most people struggle to get by. You probably know America from Hollywood movies. It’s not really like that.”
“I love American movies and also your music,” she said. “I’m a musician, but I play the cello. My music is very different from rock and roll, but I love Elvis and Buddy Holly and actually sometimes, play along with the records I have.”
“You play rock and roll on your cello?”
“Yes, I like letting go and just get into the rhythm, its fun, but very different than the music I play with the string quartet I’m in, or the university orchestra.”
She glanced down at the book I had placed on the table while I was sneaking the food. “Nietzsche,” she said, nodding. “I’ve heard of him.”
I glanced down at the Portable Nietzsche, a book I had picked up on one of the docks somewhere. Often, in many of the ports, men had tables with books that I was able to trade for a pair of socks or underwear. I ended up with a suitcase full of books and very little clothes.
“Yes, I was just reading his Birth of Tragedy. I opened to the page I had been reading earlier but rather than read it I said, “It’s really interesting. He says truth is whatever is life-affirming and that anything that denies or impedes growth is false.”
“That’s interesting. I didn’t expect to be getting a philosophy lesson when I saw you sneaking food, but I like that.”
“Well, I didn’t expect to be caught and have you join me, so we’re even.” I sat back and looked at her across from me. I can’t believe how beautiful and sexy she is.
“So, what’s your story,” she asked, leaning forward. She spoke perfect English, but I could detect her accent and found it appealing.
“I’ll tell you mine, if you tell me yours. You seem like an interesting person, coming over after catching me eating someone else's food and you play rock and roll on your cello.”
“Okay, but let me buy you a meal and we can chat,” she said. “You look like a hungry man,” she added, somewhat coyly and I sensed something was going on between us. Is she teasing me? I couldn’t stop looking at her deep blue eyes, the way they sparkled and though I tried, I couldn’t help glancing at the way her breasts strained her tight sweater. I can't believe this is happening.
“Thank you, I am a hungry man.” I knew she saw where I was looking and noticed her slight smile as if she didn’t mind. Does she live nearby? Maybe she’ll invite me to her place.
Birgit called the waitress over while I glanced up at the blackboard listing the food. I knew I wanted more French fries and a hot roast beef sandwich with gravy, while Birgit ordered a Greek salad with feta cheese.
“Thank you for treating me. I don’t remember the last time I had roast beef.”
“I haven’t had roast beef in years. I’m a vegetarian.”
“Really, that’s interesting. I tried being a vegetarian but didn’t make it. I like a good steak once in a while.”
“I grew up on a farm and we ate meat, but when I was a teen decided I didn’t like the idea of eating an animal.”
“I understand, but maybe you can answer a question.”
“What,” she asked, sipping her coffee, looking at me over the rim of her mug.
“Well, I know that people who eat only vegetables are called vegetarians, but I can’t figure out why cannibals, who eat humans, are not called humanitarians.”
She almost spit the coffee out of her mouth, laughing. “Good question.” She picked up a napkin to wipe her lips.
When our food came, I thanked her again and we both began eating, talking and our conversation flowed. I told her why I dropped out of college, got the job on the freighter and wanted to experience harsh reality and one day I would write about it.
She asked me my plans, how long I planned to be in Copenhagen. I told her I wasn’t sure. My brother was getting married in two months and soon I was going to go down to Hamburg to see if I could hop a freighter back home but didn’t have any money.
“Oh, so you will be leaving soon.” She sat back in her chair and narrowed her eyes and I could tell she was thinking about what I had said.
Both of us were silent, but gazed into each other’s eyes. Why is she looking at me? What’s she thinking? Damn, she’s pretty. I wish I wasn’t so fucking shy. Will she invite me to her place?
She started telling me about growing up on the farm, how she loved taking care of the chickens and they grew most of their own food, how she went to a small local school, then to the university where not only the tuition is paid, but she is given a small apartment and a stipend, so she doesn’t need to work.
“Wow, that’s so cool. I didn’t know that. That’s not the way it is in the states, but it should be.”
“Well, we pay high taxes but then everyone benefits,” she said. “No medical bills, financial help if you are injured, free college and a lot more.”
“Sounds like a win, win situation. I like that.”
Then she told me how she just broke up with a man she thought she would marry and how he broke her heart. I listened and nodded then acknowledged how hard that must have been. She was quiet for a few moments, as if swallowing the pain, then smiled at me.
“It was,” she said. “But that was then and this is now. Now, I just want to live in the present and have fun.” She leaned forward and smiled. “I want fun.”
Her smile when she said she wanted fun made me wonder if that meant have a fling. What does she mean by fun?
After eating, we continued talking for over two hours, sharing thoughts and feelings, opening up and saying things to each other that strangers usually don’t share. We talked about relationships, what we loved, what we disliked, our passions, our longings, out dreams. Somehow, our conversation became intimate, touching each other’s hearts. Sometimes we laughed, sometimes we were quiet thinking about what we were saying. I was fascinated by her and could tell we were enjoying each other and before long we were the only ones left in the café.