I wish I had been more adventurous before I got married. My wife hates the fact I'm in to shemales, CDs sissys etc.... I've never been with one and wish I had now. Or even to be a sissy turns me on so much. I'm not gay and don't find men attractive but I'm so curious. Thing is tho I'm really faithful to my wife and will never cheat. A fantasy I will never get to fulfill I guess ?

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I also see that the op is rather defensive about it. It seems to me he wants to find the 'quick way to fix her' so any suggestions that it might not simply be only her are going to be considered unhelpful. I can see why the wife isn't that interested in talking.

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This maybe something completely different to what she is feeling, but I was in a very similar position to this when I was younger, with my first boyfriend. Although I wanted to, I never gave him oral and I didn't want him to do it to me. I had zero confidence and I was scared because of my lack of experience and what he might say/think if I tried, this extended to having such little confidence I couldn't let him see me naked. I've grown up a little bit since then and I can voice myself, and can see more clearly now.

I'm just putting this thought forward because of certain similarities, for example, I couldn't talk about sex - I was too embarrassed. I'm sorry that I can't really give you any advice because I had to change myself, it wasn't about the other person, but good luck!

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and when I try and go down on her she freaks out about the hers I could be getting of off her?

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I actually have the same problem, although my Doctor continues to insist that it's not a real problem and I'm just being paranoid. I'm actually going back to therapy because of it and the strain it puts on my relationships.

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Wow, I'll admit I'd never heard of it. Have you seen a specialist about it? It seems it's often psychological which would entail therapy or counselling.