Quote by SereneProdigy
I'm not sure if there's really one predominant reason for men to seek an experience like this.

Humiliation might have something to do with it (if the couple actually enjoy these types of interactions), then there's a form of novelty that can be exciting in and of itself, or adding a participant that's more potent and/or a bit younger in the case of an older couple.

It's never been something that crossed my mind when I was in a relationship (I'm still young though), however when I reflect about it I can actually see some potential appeal in it for me. Personally though, what would excite me the most would be to observe my girl getting fucked from a remote 3rd person perspective, without any participation from my part. Oddly enough, even though you may have experimented in many ways with your partner, watching her having sex objectively from a certain distance is something that would be quite unusual and refreshing; it would almost feel 'weird', in a lot of ways.

I don't really believe it would be something 'humiliating' for me though, or at least the other guy would have to be quite a fucking mighty stallion to really make me feel bad. There might be some form of 'jealousy' involved, but more in a fun 'how dare you, you little slut!' kind of way, where seeing my girl with another man would make me feel quite a bit helpless. I guess it also feels forbidden and slutty, and so the subsequent fuck between me and my partner would most certainly be obscene and thrilling, where I'd try to punish her by being even more forceful than this other guy was. Funnily enough, it would likely make me feel proud about myself, where I'd just go 'see bitch, you're way better off with me!'.

It can also be fun for the girl I believe, getting fucked by an alternative man to experience something different, especially in the case of a long-term relationship that's been going on for many years. Plus, she gets to offer me a show and be pounded by two males in a row, and would likely feel completely drained afterward.

Dammit, here I am, actually convincing my own self to attempt it. Crap, I'm a bad influence even for myself.