Do any of your friends or family know you write erotica

I have been gone for a long stint. Had a difficult time in recovery while travel to AUS. Finally back in my feet and thinking of a story that happened when on tour with Jethro Tull. Between the music and the sex it was a pretty exciting time.

Nope. And I'm not telling. It's my simple pleasure.

I’m very new here but I have co-written erotic stories with my husband for several years. Now make no mistake we are not professional writers but oh my goodness it’s so much fun.

It’s even better if we can find a place to share our stories with others. Sure it’s annoying when someone like my old grumpy English teacher picks the story apart but usually that made okay by the ones who over look the grammar mistakes and enjoy the sex part of the story.

Other than my husband none of my family or friends know. My husband did share our secret with his cousin. That’s been interesting!

This is an easy place to share whether it's fact or fiction. Most members are open and friendly but you can run into some judgment now and then.

My sister and her hubby and my son know. Hahaha! My 26-yr-old son found out by accident a few years ago and teases me mercilessly. He and my sister have even judged writing challenges I sponsor on here for me. Haha!

My roommate knows, and a boyfriend knows - I sometimes bounce ideas off them. But none of those ideas can be found in the stories I've put on Lush - except maybe my latest microfiction about the girl giving her bf a quick, satisfying and nerve-soothing bj in his car just before meeting his parents. That one is true and bf will recognize it if he figures out how & where to search. Actually - the same,scenario has happened with me a few times just prior to meeting various boyfriend parents. Lol.

I'm transparent with my girlfriend and a close friend, but I definitely would never share any erotic writings with family members. When it comes to sexuality, my family generally follows a 'don't ask, don't tell' policy.

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My roommate knows, and a boyfriend knows - I sometimes bounce ideas off them. But none of those ideas can be found in the stories I've put on Lush - except maybe my latest microfiction about the girl giving her bf a quick, satisfying and nerve-soothing bj in his car just before meeting his parents. That one is true and bf will recognize it if he figures out how & where to search. Actually - the same,scenario has happened with me a few times just prior to meeting various boyfriend parents. Lol.

Haha, you say it's for "nerve-soothing", I think you're teasing him - I bet you give him some signals when your'e with his parents about what you just did - like lick your lips or push your tongue against your cheek, don't you?

No one knows other than my friends here on Lush. In my real life, sex just isn't discussed.

I've told some of my friends, but I haven't shared my writing with them. They're cool with it and think that it's kind of funny, because I come across as such a straight laced guy.

They would drop dead.

No one knows. My family and friends would be absolutely shocked.

I once wrote a story for my wife. It was about a sex dream that I had where she called me Daddy. She thought it was so hot that she started using it in the bedroom. It opened doors to role play, but she'd never accept that most of my stories are Fantasy, which is why I hope no one else in the family finds out.

I did tell one friend that I was writing online, but I didn't tell him which website or what kind of writing. He didn't believe me when I told him how many views and followers I had. I said that I was doing it for myself and didn't want anyone to know. He laughed, "Dear Penthouse?" He wasn't far off.

Only a select few of my friends know that I write erotica. I've been reading romance novels since the age of fourteen, thanks to my mom bringing home books from a company where she used to work. If she knew what I wrote, she'd have a heart attack.

I lent an acquaintance one of my books; his biggest insult was saying that he thought it was porn. I always think my writing is explicit erotica, nothing else. I asked him what the most exciting moment he had had with a woman was. He was pleased to tell how good he was and how excited he made her. I asked, ’Did she orgasm?’ He shrugged his shoulders.

Yup, my family that knows thinks it’s hilarious. My twin’s hubby makes life awkward for us all by offering up story ideas. 😳

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Yup, my family that knows thinks it’s hilarious. My twin’s hubby makes life awkward for us all by offering up story ideas. 😳

You're a prolific writer! It would be helpful to get story ideas from family when writing as much as you do. 😊

My dad found one of my stories. I was mortified as it was about a Female Nazi prison camp where male prisoners were put through horrific acts.

He only had one thing to say when he spoke to me alone in his bedroom.

"You have been spending way too long in the bathroom, haven't you?"

I almost burst out laughing. It took the mist right out of his steamy gaze at me.

"The bathroom? Oh how delicious! So then he doesn't know." I thought gleefully.

It made me wonder why on earth he thought I would be jerking off sitting on a cold toilet seat when I could spend long hours under my warm bedsheets dreaming of all the delicious fantasies I had about being dominated by beautiful Women!

I was therefore encouraged onward, knowing that he had no idea what or where I was engaging in my potent new fantasies.

My wife does. She is the only one who knows I write erotica. My main female character is based on her (with certain dramatic embellishments of course) . Also, the main male character is not totally based on me outwardly but the inner thoughts and feelings most definitely are. However, I can't bring myself to let her read them. I have submitted @ 11 stories so far and are constantly working on new ones. After the first three or four just had the two main characters and nobody else I have expanded my roster and counting the story I am writing now, three more additional female characters have been added.

My husband and I write Erotic Stories together. When I have an idea I share it with him and then we each start writing rough drafts, then compare our notes and come up with a cooperative plan.

But no one else in our family knows about our writings. We want to keep it that way so every story is password protected. If our kid's or grandkids knew what we desired or thought about regarding sexual behavior or fantasies they would probably try to have us committed! 😂

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I’m very new here but I have co-written erotic stories with my husband for several years. Now make no mistake we are not professional writers but oh my goodness it’s so much fun.

It’s even better if we can find a place to share our stories with others. Sure it’s annoying when someone like my old grumpy English teacher picks the story apart but usually that made okay by the ones who over look the grammar mistakes and enjoy the sex part of the story.

Other than my husband none of my family or friends know. My husband did share our secret with his cousin. That’s been interesting!

I have had comments correcting my spelling, with misspelled words. LOL

I used to keep it a secret, mainly for professional reasons. But then I married a well known writer here and that let the cat out of the bag in my personal life.

Since I retired, I have no reason for pseudo-names so I dropped Milik_the _Red for my first and middle names. This might not have been good advertising on the site, I was pretty well known here once upon a time but now that I can live honestly in my personal and (lack of) my professional life about my craft, I'm happy to do the same here.

This is why I stopped using avatars and put my own picture up

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I used to keep it a secret, mainly for professional reasons. But then I married a well known writer here and that let the cat out of the bag in my personal life.

Since I retired, I have no reason for pseudo-names so I dropped Milik_the _Red for my first and middle names. This might not have been good advertising on the site, I was pretty well known here once upon a time but now that I can live honestly in my personal and (lack of) my professional life about my craft, I'm happy to do the same here.

This is why I stopped using avatars and put my own picture up

Good for you David. I wish I had the guts to do that.

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Good for you David. I wish I had the guts to do that.

My wife is gone. My parents as well. No uncles or aunts and no kids either. I never had any. Ihave no one left to hide from

My wife knows that, years ago before we met, I wrote and posted a few stories on various websites. She doesn't know where, which stories, or even the name they are under, though.

My current revisiting of erotica writing was her idea.

Nope! No one in my personal life has any idea. In fact, I wouldn’t be surprised if they thought I was afraid of sex. I’ve never shown an interest in it, but I keep a lot to myself in general anyway.

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I lent an acquaintance one of my books; his biggest insult was saying that he thought it was porn. I always think my writing is explicit erotica, nothing else. I asked him what the most exciting moment he had had with a woman was. He was pleased to tell how good he was and how excited he made her. I asked, ’Did she orgasm?’ He shrugged his shoulders.

What a loser!

No, none of my friends or family know I write erotica. When I started about twenty years ago, I asked my wife to read what I had written. She didn't care for it, so I haven't had her read anything since.

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My family have no idea and I started writing erotica at sixteen. My mother is a prude though and has quite literally chased men away from me when I got older and first started clubbing. She would be absolutely shocked if she knew what I wrote about. My husband knows about my writing and has read a few pages though. He's told a couple of friends but he hasn't shown anyone what I've written though.

He may have shown some of your work and hasnt told told you

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No, none of my friends or family know I write erotica. When I started about twenty years ago, I asked my wife to read what I had written. She didn't care for it, so I haven't had her read anything since.

I'm pretty sure if I showed my wife some of my stories, she'd have the exact same reaction. So I've never bothered to let her read any erotica I've written.