Do any women like watching a penis erection grow? Or pumping? or inflating? Can we post images and videos?
I did some searching and could only find the occasional comment on erections. Or the usual thread about penis size preference for sex. I am married and don't really care about size preferences for sex, plenty of comments on that all over the internet. Though I do understand how the size can be good or bad, etc.
I can't stop men from commenting, but really want the women's comments due to my wife lack of interest. My wife loves my sex and size but she has zero interest in my fantasies outside of directly having sex or playing directly with my penis such as oral, etc. But she doesn't want to use a dildo. Only acceptable device for her is a vibrating magic wand and showerhead.
So I am wondering if that is extremely common and if so, I still want to know if there are any women that get turned on by some of the things I want to talk about below.
I will have to look at the rules closer to see what I can link, etc.
Overview: I am perfectly accepting of my body and penis size. I have purchased some huge dildo's as a way to play fantasy with her, but she has no interest. And when she let me use them on her, she seems to not enjoy it at all and can't seem to orgasim with them. As a guy, the feeling of my penis expanding is so amazing. And so my fantasies often revolve around that. I am also into huge boobs, but that is a different conversation. I am very straight and do not watch any male/male porn, but I do enjoy watching solo male or male/female where they show the erection process and a very large penis. I imagine that it is me. A way to role play. I really want my wife to see it with me as a role playing method, but she won't watch it. I have tried to explore just the ideas with her, but she just doesn't seem to be into any of it.
So the main overview is that I like to fantasize about my penis being/getting huge. Regardless of the intercourse aspect. And wonder if any women enjoy that as well. And the different methods below.
1. Natural erection. Do you like to watch it grow? Hands free? Handjobs? All of it? Seems so much porn skips the growing. Do you like hands-free cumming?
2. Pumping in a tube. I love the way it feels and watching it grow beyond it's natural size! This one video of pumping to fill a 9 inch tube is erotic to me. Watching it expand past each line with each pump is fun both with my own but especially a huge one that I imagine is my own.
3. Inflation with n2o gas. This is bizzare I know. But it is out there and some of them are fun to watch. I have also felt this and the feeling is amazing. But other than looking at it and the way it feels, it is worthless for playing with as it has no firmness to it like an actual balloon. But the scrotum and shaft grow fast and huge! It's an incredible feeling and amazing for mental fantasy! Though I have never seen it done with a 8+ inch penis. Scrotum saline inflation is more common but doesn't excite me personally.
4. realistic dildo or strapons. I bought a 9" and 12" realistic to play with the wife. I like to pretend it is mine. Put it in my pants, underwear, etc. And pretend. Then pull it out and try to be sexual with her using it, but doesn't interest her. I like to rub it like it was my own and put it in a tube and pretend I am filling a wide 9" tube. So forget the 12", she practically won't let me take it out of the box. Sadly the 12" one is distorted and doesn't look natural and the width is just insanely stupid. I wish it was more like the width of the 9 and long like the 12".
5. CGI/3D rendered. Some pretty amazing fantasy penis growth that is very realistically rendered. So there is a lot of creative expression here. And often showing the growing. Though mostly futa girls with a penis. The male-only fantasy renders are usually on the realitic side of 6 to 8 inches. Would like to see bigger on the male-only stuff. The amount of cum from renders is usually very high, which is fun to me since it makes me think of how it feels when I cum and so I wish I could cum way more too.
I have talked to my wife about these 5 things and none interest her. Not even to talk about and certainly not to experience. Though she has seem me pump my penis and even inflate my penis. But mostly because I am in the same bed, not because she wants me to do it. I am happy that she enjoys our sex life and I love to give and recieve oral. But I would love to share these fantasies with her and have her enjoy them.
Is that odd? Do any women enjoy any of these 5 things? I don't do the pump and inflation to myself often, but it feels really good. I do like to see videos of others doing it with as big a penis as possible because it works the fantasy for me.
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Do any women like watching a penis erection grow? Or pumping? or inflating?
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Rainbow Warrior
It's rare for me to find them flaccid, but for round two or three, I like to get them up again with my mouth and feel them swell while i suck them.
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It's rare for me to find them flaccid, but for round two or three, I like to get them up again with my mouth and feel them swell while i suck them.
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Convict
If someone was heading towards me with a 12" dildo I'm pretty sure they wouldn't be getting it out of the box. Ever stopped to wonder what that might feel like for a woman? I've never heard of a woman who could take 12 " let alone want to lol. Ive no doubt she's not interested.
not everyone enjoys everything other people do. if she looks like she's not enjoying herself when you're shoving a huge dildo inside her then she's probably not enjoying it. It doesn't mean there's something wrong with her, she's not interested in that type of play. No means no and she's unlikely to change her mind.
Sure i like watching a penis getting bigger and harder if I'm the one whose making it like that. It feels good to know you excite someone. Personally I have no desire to watch someone stroking a dildo and pretending it's real. I want the real deal.
not everyone enjoys everything other people do. if she looks like she's not enjoying herself when you're shoving a huge dildo inside her then she's probably not enjoying it. It doesn't mean there's something wrong with her, she's not interested in that type of play. No means no and she's unlikely to change her mind.
Sure i like watching a penis getting bigger and harder if I'm the one whose making it like that. It feels good to know you excite someone. Personally I have no desire to watch someone stroking a dildo and pretending it's real. I want the real deal.
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3. Inflation with n2o gas. This is bizzare I know. But it is out there and some of them are fun to watch. I have also felt this and the feeling is amazing. But other than looking at it and the way it feels, it is worthless for playing with as it has no firmness to it like an actual balloon. But the scrotum and shaft grow fast and huge! It's an incredible feeling and amazing for mental fantasy! Though I have never seen it done with a 8+ inch penis. Scrotum saline inflation is more common but doesn't excite me personally.
To each their own, but this one scares me a little. Inflated!? Let inhale a little of that N2O first and I might be a little more amenable, but I doubt it.
She's into the wand and the showerhead, right? Between her and those two things, you could have a lot of fun.
Cheeky Chick
If he is my man and we are having sex, I enjoy watching him get hard, making him and exploring him. I don't like watching and or helping men I don't know. Also, most women like average size cock, not baseball bat sized.
Her Royal Spriteness
i'd be into blowing up your penis. *gets out the dynamite*
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Cryptic Vigilante
I thoroughly enjoy inflating my dick with helium myself.
I love making him hard, love feeling him grow in my mouth, love to feel it grow as he rubs against me and any other way...but I would not be into anything other then the natural means of getting an erection. I don't need anything more then what he already has to offer me. I don't need a super inflated rendition of what I already love and enjoy.
Let me say that she has never used the 12" and only twice tried the 9" briefly. At no time have I ever tried to force her to do or participate in anything. I offer and sometimes she has participated. But I can tell when she is really into it and when she is not really into it. And I adjust my offerings. I am not into having her do things that she doesn't enjoy. But some exploration has occured and I understand more about what she likes, loves, hates, and is neutral with. After all of the exploration, I decided to see what others think. And I am finding out the general thoughts are that most men and women are not into many of these things. Especially the women. Not into it. And now I know. Some funny comments here though. lol.
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Let me say that she has never used the 12" and only twice tried the 9" briefly. At no time have I ever tried to force her to do or participate in anything. I offer and sometimes she has participated. But I can tell when she is really into it and when she is not really into it. And I adjust my offerings. I am not into having her do things that she doesn't enjoy. But some exploration has occured and I understand more about what she likes, loves, hates, and is neutral with. After all of the exploration, I decided to see what others think. And I am finding out the general thoughts are that most men and women are not into many of these things. Especially the women. Not into it. And now I know. Some funny comments here though. lol.
If you haven't realized already, men are usually a lot more obsessed about dicks than women are. You'd have a pretty hard time finding a single woman on Lush who has a gallery solely dedicated to cocks on her profile (a legit woman at least), while those are fairly common on guys' profiles. The reality isn't that women do not enjoy dicks or their sizes, but rather that they're unlikely to develop a proper 'obsession' about them like some men would.
Take my girlfriend for example, who could be considered to have a slight 'big cock' fantasy. Her very first boyfriend was well-endowed (7-something-inches with a proportionate girth), so in her mind the idea of what a cock should look/feel like is rather skewed in favor of big cocks. To her, being stuffed by a relatively large penis/dildo provides a unique fulfillment that smaller ones can't quite achieve, both physical and psychological. I assume that it simply takes her back to her early conceptions of sex; call it a weird home-sweet-home phenomenon I guess, haha.
With all that said, she can still enjoy sex plenty enough with an average-sized man (like me). And more importantly for the purpose of this discussion, her 'fantasy' surprisingly has rather low limits. As an example, she has never bought a dildo that's bigger than 7-something-inches. We even have a thick cum-spurting dildo that's around 8-inches long, and the thickness starts to be a little too uncomfortable for her at this size; we still use it for its cum-spurting capabilities, but she has practically never masturbated with it all by herself.
So yes, I'm sure plenty of women love big cocks. However 9-12 inches isn't big, that's fucking enormous. And ultimately, it's unlikely that many women would see much of a point in all the specific and peculiar practices presented in your original post either.
The Linebacker
I would think any sensible woman would not want to put some inflatable full of gas into their pussy, knowing that if it sprung a leak they could end up in the emergency room.
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Isn't helping them grow part of the fun, especially for rounds 2 through 10? Lol.