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Do you really need a man in your life and why?
A man as opposed to a woman? Or do you mean relationship VS non-relationship?
I'm straight which means I've never had the interest to be with a woman on a serious level.
And I've spent small amounts of my time being single and really did not like it. I don't like being isolated and alone. What to do? Nothing. What to talk about? Nothing. Where to go? No where . . . I don't do single. I'd rather have a shitty relationship than be single.
I reread that last statement just to be sure it was true . . . and it is. Evidently, looking at my life choices, i would rather have a shitty fucking marriage than be single. (which might explain a few things at the moment)
I'm straight which means I've never had the interest to be with a woman on a serious level.
And I've spent small amounts of my time being single and really did not like it. I don't like being isolated and alone. What to do? Nothing. What to talk about? Nothing. Where to go? No where . . . I don't do single. I'd rather have a shitty relationship than be single.
I reread that last statement just to be sure it was true . . . and it is. Evidently, looking at my life choices, i would rather have a shitty fucking marriage than be single. (which might explain a few things at the moment)
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Quote by Metilda
A man as opposed to a woman? Or do you mean relationship VS non-relationship?
I'm straight which means I've never had the interest to be with a woman on a serious level.
And I've spent small amounts of my time being single and really did not like it. I don't like being isolated and alone. What to do? Nothing. What to talk about? Nothing. Where to go? No where . . . I don't do single. I'd rather have a shitty relationship than be single.
I reread that last statement just to be sure it was true . . . and it is. Evidently, looking at my life choices, i would rather have a shitty fucking marriage than be single. (which might explain a few things at the moment)
Having been there, I can unequivocally state that a bad partner is NOT better than no partner. As for you ladies out there, a good set of batteries is way better than a bad man.
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Not being in a relationship doesn't bother me at all. I'm not afraid to be alone. I have friends i can ask if I want to go out somewhere. I'm much happier alone than in a bad relationship.
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No, not at all. I was married 15 years before we split up, it had just become boring and dull. Now, I enjoy the single life. Nobody but myself to worry about, Nobody I have to please, I can eat whatever I feel like for meals, or if I want to spend an evening on the computer, or watching tv or a dvd, I can do, if I feel like company (or sex) I have friends I can call who will come round if they are free, some male, some female. For simple sexual relief, I have a few toys that do the job.
I have occasional nights out with certain friends, a meal, maybe theatre, or maybe a night out with a few old girlfriends. Sometimes a friend comes for an evening meal, and maybe we end up in bed.
I admit, I do sometimes get lonely in the middle of the night, but I had that during marriage as well. At least nowadays, I know that if I am not happy, it ia all down to me, not someone else making me unhappy.
I have occasional nights out with certain friends, a meal, maybe theatre, or maybe a night out with a few old girlfriends. Sometimes a friend comes for an evening meal, and maybe we end up in bed.
I admit, I do sometimes get lonely in the middle of the night, but I had that during marriage as well. At least nowadays, I know that if I am not happy, it ia all down to me, not someone else making me unhappy.
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No. Why? Because if you need a relationship to be happy that is a good indicator that you need time alone.
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I seem to need a man in my bed, at least! I've been in more love relationships with women than with men, but they're always tumultuous and end too soon (mostly my fault). I get along better with men as far as companionship, but I just don't fall in love with men as deeply and as passionately as I do with women. But I love to fuck guys! :-) I don't suppose I NEED a man in my life, but they gravitate to me like flies, and I always seem to have a few around me at all times.
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No, not at all. I was married 15 years before we split up, it had just become boring and dull. Now, I enjoy the single life. Nobody but myself to worry about, Nobody I have to please, I can eat whatever I feel like for meals, or if I want to spend an evening on the computer, or watching tv or a dvd, I can do, if I feel like company (or sex) I have friends I can call who will come round if they are free, some male, some female. For simple sexual relief, I have a few toys that do the job.
I have occasional nights out with certain friends, a meal, maybe theatre, or maybe a night out with a few old girlfriends. Sometimes a friend comes for an evening meal, and maybe we end up in bed.
I admit, I do sometimes get lonely in the middle of the night, but I had that during marriage as well. At least nowadays, I know that if I am not happy, it ia all down to me, not someone else making me unhappy.
I have been married a long time and I think you can have all the positive things of a relationship without giving up your choice and freedom to choose.
That does not including getting pregnant by some other guy and it does not allow me to let my weight go from 123 to 160 lbs. either. I was totally opposed to marriage, but I would not want to be single again under any conditions. My guy is a way a few days a month which helps to create urgency..
I think we all need "a person." For me, my person has pretty much always been my man of that time. I've tried to make girlfriends and foster those relationships to drop my apparent tendency to be co-dependeny but it just doesn't happen. I think it really depends on who you have in your life and what those relationships are like...
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Having been there, I can unequivocally state that a bad partner is NOT better than no partner. As for you ladies out there, a good set of batteries is way better than a bad man.
I'm pretty certain that being a single mother would pretty much guarantee I don't ever have time or privacy for any sort of love -self or otherwise.
it's difficult enough being married but at least I don't have to shoulder everything on my own.
