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Does it turn you on if a man is forceful with you in the bedroom?

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Quote by MsObsession3
It definitely turns me on when he's being forceful by pulling my hair and spanking me as he mounts me from behind deeply and completely. When he forces me against the wall and holds my hands above my head with one hand and plunges his cock deep inside me. It turns me on when he forcefully bends me over the sink and has his way with me, or he gently places the side of my face and my naked body against my cold stainless steel fridge and forces my thighs apart while he stoops down and pleasures me with his tongue and thumbs. Turns me on when he pulls me down on his lap and impales me on his stiff cock. It turns me on for him to stand behind me while I'm standing outside on the deck, and he forcefully bends me over the railing, lift my dress and enter me swiftly and deeply. Guess it really does turn me on for a man to be forceful not only in the bedroom but outside the bedroom too!!!


My kind of girl! LIke seeing that word "gently" in your reply, too. Dominance can get painful which may be desirable...
Mmm very hot...but nothing too crazy or demeaning.
nothing better. especially if its rough sex as well
sometimes it is the best
yes.. I love it.. but not to the point of pain.. I'm not a fan of chains, gag balls and whips ...I love to be man handled... submit to his passion that would lead to my orgasm..
Oh hell yes lol I get so turned on by having a guy who takes what he wants by force
I love dominance in the bedroom...but not to go over the line into brutality. Approach and tone of voice is very important.
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OH YES, I love a man that knows what he wants and how to get it.
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I love it, too! A little rougher than what you described, though. Like, I'm not super into hardcore BDSM but I like it to hurt a little bit and I like to be dominated completely.
I would love it if my husband would be like that but he wants to be dominated.
This is a huge turn on for me. Nothing gets me going faster than a man telling me what to do and making me do it. It gives me a huge rush and I love having him taking me just how he wants to.
OMG yes, as long as I trust him & know he respects me & will stop when I ask him to like if its hurting.
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Yea I agree, it is definitely hot unless he gets too rough. But biting, pulling hair, grabbing, and trying to fist is really nice sometimes.
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Very much so! It probably gets me off harder than anything else!
Rough sex is the best sex. When a man shows his dominant side during sex, to me is a huge turn on. I love when the man I'm with pushes me, pins me down, slaps, and chokes me; other things as well. But u have to be with the right partner. If your not, the experience with forceful sex might not be great. But it's deff something everyone should try in my opinion. But once u do try it, you might not go back. the adrenaline rush and crazy butterfly feeling from it is addicting.
Hot definitely ... It just turns me on thinking about it ... It seems so much more sexier ....
Hell yeah, and I'll leave it at that.
Anything you think is sweet, I'm a little more than that.
Of course... I always have. I like when they know how and what to do.
I do not like shy men. I like a man to know what he wants... (I also like to be taken), but that does not go to the other extremme ofmean someone who is so into themself that they have no concern for me or my well being and do not care about my feelings or anything... if that makes sense. I would not want to be with someone like that in the first place, It's not the pain I am into, it is the primal. ... GREAT.
Yes it does, you must have the right partner to be able to explore all avenues. Get the partner right and rough sex is mind blowing.
OMG yes!!! Biggest turn on. Hold my arms above my head, push me against the wall, everything!
If I know the man, like him and his style, and he's not "beating me up".. then, yeah, I like a wild ride.
defiantly, i like to be taken
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Mmm!! I thoroughly enjoy a show of strength, strength of mind, strength of body and strength of...sex. I'm pretty bratty, so it will take the combined effort. Throwing me over your shoulder with promises just isn't going to do it, neither is just pulling my hair. It helps though, but bring your A game mentally too. A real man knows when to stop too. You have to show me you can handle this body, control it. And, I'm by no means weak.
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I do yes it can be incredibly arousing but not to the point of pain, arms pinned hair pulled ect can be hot.

However my ex husband was abusive, so my lovers have to be cautious with me and gouge what my reaction will be when doing so. Although in general its always worked out well, there have been a few occasions where its triggered a bad memory and instead of enjoying it its frightened me and I got upset...on these few occasions the the men in question have stopped immediately and comforted me and then have made love to me gently to sooth me.
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I do yes it can be incredibly arousing but not to the point of pain, arms pinned hair pulled ect can be hot.

However my ex husband was abusive, so my lovers have to be cautious with me and gouge what my reaction will be when doing so. Although in general its always worked out well, there have been a few occasions where its triggered a bad memory and instead of enjoying it its frightened me and I got upset...on these few occasions the the men in question have stopped immediately and comforted me and then have made love to me gently to sooth me.



Yes, there is a hard line between having your sex heightened by domination or a little rough physical play and abuse. A man has to be in tune to what the woman needs. My first husband was abusive as well. So, I've been there and experienced those moments. A girl just shouldn't hand herself to just anyone. Kiera, it seems that you have made some good choices.rNNrlgQGqWYHE5qq I can't stress enough that a good man will be in tune with your body as well as his, and he will know when to stop and when to sooth.
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Yes!! For sure Some guys think I'm so petite and tiny that it's like I'll break or something. I don't want a guy to treat me like a little flower ALL the time....or a princess.....sometimes you want him to take control and just want you like he can't stop....it's HOT for sure!!




This is MY problem too! Some guys act so awed to be in bed with me that they're afraid to do anything that might offend or hurt me. I may be petite, but unless you're clumsy (one guy broke my rib once in bed!), I want you to SHOW me how much you want me! Sex with guys is an animal-thrill for me, and I want it to be a wild ride!