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Ehm, no. You caused confusion by mixing up the different contexts. I merely responded confused ("I may hope...").
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hmm - interesting that daddy would weird people out but being called 'baby', 'little slut' or 'sexy girl' (etc etc) doesn't bother many women in the same way.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
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I could get into a very long deep discussion about this , but I will save my breath ,because I see WE as baby girl/littles have already been judge by PEOPLE that obviously have never experienced a Daddy/Baby girl relationship. All I will say is until you do. Dont call us names and or judge something you know NOTHING about!
Thank you. Ditto.
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Quote by ejg3
calling someone daddy is a term of respect ..a daddy in the d/s world refers to a caregiving loyal teacher nurturing protecting .. teaching respect and loyalty and obedience .. not everything about is of a sexual nature .. so if it is your thing good ..if not good too ..
So true; some people have to turn everything into a sexual perversion.
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People who live in glass houses AND that it's no different than putting down LESBIANS and BI's or male HOMOSEXUALS.. There is difference between saying "That's not my thing" and a put down.
Hit the nail on the head!
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Putting the question in context and for many who don't know this, Daddy isn't just something you start calling your boyfriend during sex. It is a term given from a submissive to a dominant as a sign of respect and maybe even reverence. It is a part of a lifestyle and a relationship that is typically clearly defined and not just a term endearment as some of you seem to think. (Although within the relarionship it could feel like an endearing way to address your Dom).
Once it is put into context my answer would be that in the right relationship, Daddy works. And using it is typically agreed upon by both parties way before sex is involved.
Thank you, yes.
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I honestly don't see the big deal in it. I have in the past with a few men I've been with. Online and in person relationships. It doesn't happen in every relationship I'm in either. It all depends on how he makes me feel. I have a submissive side in me, but it doesn't come out to play for everyone I date. It just lingers there until she wants to come out. She's rather shy. It has nothing to do with biological daddy issues. I do not think of my father in any sense when I'm being sexual with a man I care and trust. That is just gross. I call him daddy because he protects me, he takes care of me and he loves me.
I certainly wouldn't suggest moaning it out the first time you have sex with a guy. You might want to talk to him about it. Some men might not be down for it at all. From what I've seen, most don't care. Though some do lie about it and say it's okay, only to find out later they didn't like it. It's their dumb-ass fault for lying.
So yeah, just learn how to communicate with your lover. If you can fuck em', you can talk to em'. Simple as that.
Ditto ditto, fuckin ditto! Thank you.
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Sorry for my past half dozen replies to some other replies, just wanted to express my gratitude/agreements with those posters.
So to make a jot-notey reply here of my own, let's sum it up..
*Don't judge/criticize/shame/put down anyone who's into it just cause you aren't (sound like a broken record I know). I would never put down someone else's kinks just cause I'm not into them, as long as you're not hurting anyone.
*Calling a man Daddy during sex or whatever time in the relationship doesn't necessarily mean a girl has 'Daddy issues'. Please lol, how cliche.
*It doesn't mean it's connected to her father in any way shape or form. Like some others have said, it's a label for some partners... whether that be a Dom (in my case), a mentor, guider, protector, etc...who may also be your sexual partner.
*It most certainly doesn't mean either party is of the -variety. 2 legal age consenting adults? Not .
*I've had a 'Daddy Dom' for almost a decade. With the exception of the first few weeks of the relationship, I have always & only ever called him Daddy. That's just how it is, what feels natural to us, etc. It would actually feel outta place for me to call him by his real name. So yeah...vanilla isn't really for me lol. Daddy is a term of an endearment, a sign of respect, an extra label for his dominance, and a sexy label overall that we like (sexy meaning because we connect it to his dominance).
I don't care what other people think about it...I'll do what works for me, you do what works for you.
PS: I do agree that this is the kinda thing that should be talked about beforehand...not something to spring on someone in the middle of sex (ie: the girl calling him Daddy or him calling himself Daddy or telling her to call him Daddy, mid-coitus).
So to make a jot-notey reply here of my own, let's sum it up..
*Don't judge/criticize/shame/put down anyone who's into it just cause you aren't (sound like a broken record I know). I would never put down someone else's kinks just cause I'm not into them, as long as you're not hurting anyone.
*Calling a man Daddy during sex or whatever time in the relationship doesn't necessarily mean a girl has 'Daddy issues'. Please lol, how cliche.
*It doesn't mean it's connected to her father in any way shape or form. Like some others have said, it's a label for some partners... whether that be a Dom (in my case), a mentor, guider, protector, etc...who may also be your sexual partner.
*It most certainly doesn't mean either party is of the -variety. 2 legal age consenting adults? Not .
*I've had a 'Daddy Dom' for almost a decade. With the exception of the first few weeks of the relationship, I have always & only ever called him Daddy. That's just how it is, what feels natural to us, etc. It would actually feel outta place for me to call him by his real name. So yeah...vanilla isn't really for me lol. Daddy is a term of an endearment, a sign of respect, an extra label for his dominance, and a sexy label overall that we like (sexy meaning because we connect it to his dominance).
I don't care what other people think about it...I'll do what works for me, you do what works for you.
PS: I do agree that this is the kinda thing that should be talked about beforehand...not something to spring on someone in the middle of sex (ie: the girl calling him Daddy or him calling himself Daddy or telling her to call him Daddy, mid-coitus).
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Ehm, no. You caused confusion by mixing up the different contexts. I merely responded confused ("I may hope...").
Go discuss it with clum and let me know what the two of you decide. (Hint: according to what he posted to me on another thread where I DID quote ALL that the site's "quote" button would allow me too, he disagrees with you.)
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Go discuss it with clum and let me know what the two of you decide. (Hint: according to what he posted to me on another thread where I DID quote ALL that the site's "quote" button would allow me too, he disagrees with you.)
No need. You already said I could have it my way
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Are 'mommy' and 'baby/little boy' a thing as well in the Dom/sub scene?
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Are 'mommy' and 'baby/little boy' a thing as well in the Dom/sub scene?
You tell me are any of the derogatory terms used for gays as justifiable as this needless nonsense? But, IF there are individuals who CHOSE to play such roles in a relationship, as it's THEIR relationship, would it matter?
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What a sadly predictable thread. Someone posts something about a particular kink, some people give their own honest opinion on it and then a load of people jump on those opinions and start screaming "DON'T JUDGE ME! YOUR OPINIONS ARE WRONG! YOU'RE NOT IN THE LIFESTYLE YOU WOULDN'T UNDERSTAND!"
Of course YOU know it's nothing to do with but can you, with 100% certainty, know that your partner thinks the same. That's when, for me, it's starts to get creepy.
Comparing your kink to sexuality, is a flawed argument. Actual paedophiles try to use the same argument to defend their kink.
No one likes to be told they're weird and creepy but just because you don't see something as weird doesn't mean it's not. For me, family play - no matter how innocent - belongs in the same subset as scat, knife play, fantasy, asphyxiation and similar. Yes, consenting adults should be allowed to practice these if they so wish (within reason) - but I will defend my right to judge people who like that (often literal) shit as freaks and/or perverts.
"It makes me feel loved and special when he crimps one off on my tits!"
I could expand, go through the psychological dangers of infantilising sex and dehumanisation (don't even get me started on pet play) but I can't be arsed.
Of course YOU know it's nothing to do with but can you, with 100% certainty, know that your partner thinks the same. That's when, for me, it's starts to get creepy.
Comparing your kink to sexuality, is a flawed argument. Actual paedophiles try to use the same argument to defend their kink.
No one likes to be told they're weird and creepy but just because you don't see something as weird doesn't mean it's not. For me, family play - no matter how innocent - belongs in the same subset as scat, knife play, fantasy, asphyxiation and similar. Yes, consenting adults should be allowed to practice these if they so wish (within reason) - but I will defend my right to judge people who like that (often literal) shit as freaks and/or perverts.
"It makes me feel loved and special when he crimps one off on my tits!"
I could expand, go through the psychological dangers of infantilising sex and dehumanisation (don't even get me started on pet play) but I can't be arsed.
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What a sadly predictable thread. Someone posts something about a particular kink, some people give their own honest opinion on it and then a load of people jump on those opinions and start screaming "DON'T JUDGE ME! YOUR OPINIONS ARE WRONG! YOU'RE NOT IN THE LIFESTYLE YOU WOULDN'T UNDERSTAND!"
Of course YOU know it's nothing to do with but can you, with 100% certainty, know that your partner thinks the same. That's when, for me, it's starts to get creepy.
Comparing your kink to sexuality, is a flawed argument. Actual paedophiles try to use the same argument to defend their kink.
No one likes to be told they're weird and creepy but just because you don't see something as weird doesn't mean it's not. For me, family play - no matter how innocent - belongs in the same subset as scat, knife play, fantasy, asphyxiation and similar. Yes, consenting adults should be allowed to practice these if they so wish (within reason) - but I will defend my right to judge people who like that (often literal) shit as freaks and/or perverts.
"It makes me feel loved and special when he crimps one off on my tits!"
I could expand, go through the psychological dangers of infantilising sex and dehumanisation (don't even get me started on pet play) but I can't be arsed.
Hilarious, since when are put downs and mud slinging "honest opinions"? Go tell this to the gays and lesbians after you finish telling them what twisted perverts you see them as being. Then, you can move on to those who are "into" feet or latex or... But hey, your spanking thing... why... there's nothing wrong with that, right? You have a right to FEEL whatever you please and do or NOT DO whatever you please. BUT, when you start chucking rocks you really need to make sure YOUR glass house is rock proof.
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Hilarious, since when are put downs and mud slinging "honest opinions"? Go tell this to the gays and lesbians after you finish telling them what twisted perverts you see them as being. Then, you can move on to those who are "into" feet or latex or... But hey, your spanking thing... why... there's nothing wrong with that, right? You have a right to FEEL whatever you please and do or NOT DO whatever you please. BUT, when you start chucking rocks you really need to make sure YOUR glass house is rock proof.
Spanking is weird. People are well within their rights to think it's fucking gross - and if they want to do that, fine. I wouldn't bleat about them judging anyone who does like it. I've never hidden the fact that my name and avatar are merely there to attract attention - and it works brilliantly.
Feet, latex... pantie sniffing... all signs of some kind of arrested sexual development... perversions. Things that, ostensibly, should not provide sexual gratification.
As I said, comparing kink to sexuality is a flawed argument. Being gay or lesbian or bi or straight is about what you are fundamentally; kinks are just a subset of those.
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Spanking is weird. People are well within their rights to think it's fucking gross - and if they want to do that, fine. I wouldn't bleat about them judging anyone who does like it. I've never hidden the fact that my name and avatar are merely there to attract attention - and it works brilliantly.
Feet, latex... pantie sniffing... all signs of some kind of arrested sexual development... perversions. Things that, ostensibly, should not provide sexual gratification.
As I said, comparing kink to sexuality is a flawed argument. Being gay or lesbian or bi or straight is about what you are fundamentally; kinks are just a subset of those.
Shaking my head, there is little point in even trying to discuss tolerance or understanding that you don't GET to decide anything for OTHERS... only for ... YOURSELF; with you, so I'll stop wasting both your time and mine. Enjoy living in your "I'm the ONLY "normal" person" world, it's going to get very lonely here in Lush, as the rest of us all have our own forms of kink that we enjoy.
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it's going to get very lonely here in Lush, as the rest of us all have our own forms of kink that we enjoy.
For the record, I was applauding your powerbottom kink and your bravery in discussing it. I feel that might have been lost in translation.
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For the record, I was applauding your powerbottom kink and your bravery in discussing it. I feel that might have been lost in translation.
I've told you before TROLL when I want shit from you I'll squeeze the pimple on your shoulders. More needless uncalled for attacks and insults... such a pathetic little thing you are. It must be SOO sad to have no other way of getting a boner. Too bad it's costing the site members.
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Are 'mommy' and 'baby/little boy' a thing as well in the Dom/sub scene?
I go round and round with this. I think the answer is no but it seems a matter of opinion which=no real answer
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Oh, Sorry I thought this was ask the GALS.....my bad
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*pulls up a chair besides you, shares my popcorn* yeah, funny how that works.
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So after all of the personal attacks in the thread, I think there something needs to be pointed out.
All the attacks have actually lead to the OP deleting her account. She took the time to develop quite the profile and uploaded over 100 pictures. Now she's gone because of all of the mud slinging in her thread.
Great job everyone.
Wow. That is unfortunate. I certainly didn't mean any harm by my reply. I do hope she comes back.
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Hilarious, since when are put downs and mud slinging "honest opinions"? Go tell this to the gays and lesbians after you finish telling them what twisted perverts you see them as being. Then, you can move on to those who are "into" feet or latex or... But hey, your spanking thing... why... there's nothing wrong with that, right? You have a right to FEEL whatever you please and do or NOT DO whatever you please. BUT, when you start chucking rocks you really need to make sure YOUR glass house is rock proof.
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You tell me are any of the derogatory terms used for gays as justifiable as this needless nonsense? But, IF there are individuals who CHOSE to play such roles in a relationship, as it's THEIR relationship, would it matter?
Not sure how this response has anything to do with my question.
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I still think the Captain Kangaroo comment is funny. If you don't, that's fine. I won't lack of humor shame you.
Seriously, I think some of you overestimate how much anyone cares about what you like to call your partners. I really am sorry the OP left though!
Seriously, I think some of you overestimate how much anyone cares about what you like to call your partners. I really am sorry the OP left though!
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I noticed days ago that the OP had deleted her account. I even mentioned it to someone and they thought it was sad as well. I mean, we're supposed to be all adults here and all the mudslinging probably scared that girl off for good. She probably thinks we're a bunch of fools. I almost can't blame her.