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Is it acceptable to you, for guys to use sex toys?

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trinket
Convict
Society seems to accept that women use various toys for masturbation, but when it comes to guys and toys it seems that it’s frowned upon by society. Personally I don’t have s problem with it

Ladies, if you found out your SO or someone you just started dating, used a fleshlight, would that creep you Out?

Or even in general do you think it’s creepy or is it ok for a guy to use one?
sprite
Her Royal Spriteness
be a hypocrite if it bothered me, considering my love for toys. i'd not only be cool with it, but be into incorperating it into play time with him if he wanted.

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Smoocher
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Thanks ... you have increased my level of understanding of sex toys. I guess the more deluxe models also ejaculate at the appropriate time
noll
"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
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Society seems to accept that women use various toys for masturbation, but when it comes to guys and toys it seems that it’s frowned upon by society.


Is it?


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here it is in a Nutshell,
Women By nature are submissive, and vulnerable, which makes it possible/capable for women to allow a man to stick his penis inside her, or even desire it (an intrusion into her body) Most men will not get a colonoscopy to save their life (myself included) . ill die rather then have a hose stuck up my ass!! Not joking ....I do not know anyone who has had one or would admit it even though its a medical procedure..we are not open to body intrusion. Fact. LOL Another is having a baby, men would and could not, understand having something growing inside them. mentally our first incarnation would be to cut it out!!
So men and women have different psychological capabilities. Vulnerability is Not generally built in to men, especially depending on conditions. and in this case, vulnerability is the deciding factor,

Most men would consider sticking your penis into a fleshlight a sign of defeat? How? Relegating our self to "having to " use a fleshligt to get off instead of having /or finding a partner, it is analogous to losing a competition to another man, "why cant i have what he has"? Men are generally competitive by nature the opposite of vulnerable, few men could and would allow themselves to own a fleshlight as what it represents. mentally.
why is it different than jacking off? In that case you are taking care of a necessity Temporarily. Buying a fleshlight is indulging or giving in/losing, in certain context, other men would say you are a wussy /loser if they knew, so Psychologically Most would not own one even in secret. Which is analogous to owning a moped MOST men would never own one. its a Harley or bullet bike or nothing,
...vulnerability.... Now if my partner found she wanted to incorporate it somehow into sex, that is a whole different story...personally id rather purchase her a new vibe, because it would make no sense to own one as couples sex toy Hiding your cock in a plastic sleeve ? Or hiding it in her pussy ,mouth, or ass, no brainer!
trinket
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I have to agree that if I had him next to me I’d be pretty ticked off if he stuck his Willy in a fleshlight. I can see your point, I can imagine the whole “loser” scenario (afraid people will think you’re a loser)would be a bit hard to take. Personally I think there’s a lot more guys out there with one than we might think.