But seriously, Unwillingly (even capitalized), reluctantly, accidentally, or even oops, any of the other words added to cheating are just there to help justify the action. I was cheated upon and I remember to well how it felt. I would never put someone in that spot. Not someone I was in a relationship with. I do admire the honesty of those that said yes or that it was willingly not un ... If the partner knows and doesn't seem to care is it cheating? There are a lot more "open" marriages these days.
I couldn't cheat because of how it would make ME feel, let alone my partner, because I remember that pain. If it is part of your life and both are agreeable, other partners can really light a relationship up and rekindle the passion, but if it is not then you are deliberately telling the other person that they didn't matter and I can't be that guy. The only way I can see that it even MIGHT be unwilling would be if the person that cheated has some type of compulsive disorder that they have no control over. IF that is the case, then don't get into a committed relationship and you can be unwilling ever day......
and trinket, come on, don't be that way, **puff puff, pass pass**
Sprite I am so glad to hear you say that. I was worried that the hypnotism didn't take. You are such a good girl, just keep telling everyone it was a "spaceship". I was getting worried you were starting to remember, and needed more 'shrooms ........
ciao