...some may say that it's easier for women since they can just give their body, whereas a male has to get an reaction first.
A female friend of mine says that she has to 'de-spunk' her partner every night because he wants sex everyday. She says that most nights she's not in the mood but she lies underneath naked while he despunks himself.
She feels that it's important to do this in order to keep their relationship on a steady footing.
Can you ladies relate to this scenario, please share...
That's when he gets a hand job instead. The other way just won't work.
Absolutely. In 44 years of marriage we both did, probably several thousands of times. We didn't talk about it, we just did what the other needed right then. Sometimes it was "Not Right Now" and that was always respected too. When we first got together we talked about that and our deal was never say no unles it was serious. No pain, physical or emotional.
Yes. But soon I end up getting in the mood
What she said. Sometimes you just have to get started to get started.
No, because I've never not been in the mood.
My guys know how to GET me in the mood, even if I'm not already. So does my girlfriend!
There are times when I have not been in the mood. Tired, emotionally shot for one reason or another, not feeling well, etc. Some days you just explain and it is good night. Other times I might give a blow job or as I used to say "Let him borrow my body." Some of those times it was just his release. Many times I would end up getting into it and have a few orgasms.
It's there job to get me in the mood
Yes I have....Too many times to remember...working, coming home to children, cooking supper, cleaning the house and then going to bed tired and expected to have sex...Yes I have done it just to please him...I have no regrets however...
Yes...But always enjoyed it
Not often that I am not in the mood but I have to confess yes it has happened but usually glad I did afterwards.
yes but most time I am in the mood
Yes, not even just my partner sometimes I want to hook up and lose the mood a bit but I feel you have kind of crossed a line so you go along. Not sure he gets as much from it but no one has complained.
kinda sorta. i may have not been in the mood to start, but after foreplay that all changed.
As a guy, I am not into "obligation sex." If my partner isn't into it, include me out. It seems too close to marital .
If I can't get her hot enough to want sex with her active participation and enjoyment, then either I am doing something wrong, she really isn't in the mood, or we're not a real couple.
Obligation sex is depressing
Hmm, that's a tough one. Seems like I'm always in the mood, but maybe my partners have always put me in the mood.
Few time mostly with hubby....Very rarely iam not in the mood..lol
I'm mostly in the mood but when I'm having my period I just give him head
I've done it a few times, yes. Wasn't exactly enjoyable but it wasn't awful either. The loving connection is always there and that makes it wonderful.
And as imagination bodies forth
The forms of things unknown, the poet’s pen
Turns them to shapes and gives to airy nothing
A local habitation and a name.
– William Shakespeare (from A Midsummer Night’s Dream) Haha he always gets his way. Like, I'm begging to go to sleep and he'll keep rubbing that dick against my labia until it accidentally slips inside... to his credit, he's got the decency to make breakfast the next morning (usually!)
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