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Ever been with a nice guy or someone that was just taking it too slow? Did you ever have to just sigh and say, "Do you want to see my pussy?" or "Do you want to see me naked?"
NOLAHotGal
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Yes I have. Usually I don't have to ask anything. I just begin to kiss more passionately. This usually works and soon he has his hands on my tits. From that point it is not very long until thing begin to move in the right direction toward mutual orgasmic bliss.

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Edit: I thought you were a woman asking and I was like: You've never seduced a man before.

These days, I think most girls don't mind taking the lead and taking him to town if necessary. If I want him and the real desire is there, I have no problem with seducing him.
She
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Wow, those are not things I would say. I think many women are enthused about taking the lead, while others like to have it taken. I know few humans who can't take the lead if necessary, but it is also a lot of stress for some people. When it is too stressful, I suggest just saying something upfront about your interest, but not so abrupt as 'do you want to see me naked?'.
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Wow, those are not things I would say. I think many women are enthused about taking the lead, while others like to have it taken. I know few humans who can't take the lead if necessary, but it is also a lot of stress for some people. When it is too stressful, I suggest just saying something upfront about your interest, but not so abrupt as 'do you want to see me naked?'.


Agreed. I’d deffo stick with “do you want to see my pussy”. That there is a life changing statement.
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Agreed. I’d deffo stick with “do you want to see my pussy”. That there is a life changing statement.


I know. What would someone even say to that?
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Beffer
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I'm not into alpha males at all, so I often have to take the lead. But subtly. "Do you want to see my pussy?" is laughably unsubtle. There's an art to seduction, and a different path to the bedroom for different people and different personalities. Boys are always easier to seduce, of course, so the challenge is usually enticing another girl to my bed.
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I am confused, I thought Seduction was a synonym for woman.
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Because of my looks, most of those shy type guys are slow to approach me, if at all. When I was in high school, there was a shy guy i was attracted to, and at a party we both happened to be at, I got him dancing with me. I was grinding him with my curvy butt and he finally got the message. I sucked him off in another room and omg he had a long, curvy cock. When he came, he was spewing cum all over the place! ;)
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Previously posted but I'll take charge when we're at at show...we have limited time before favorite band comes on stage.
I don't deal with shy men/women but if we want to fuck then I'll lead but not use the OP lines.
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I actually had those lines spoken to me but the girls were both very horny and a bit tipsy each time. The first one I was all over her after she asked that but the second one I talked her down, took her home but eventually married.?
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I'm not into alpha males at all, so I often have to take the lead. But subtly. "Do you want to see my pussy?" is laughably unsubtle. There's an art to seduction, and a different path to the bedroom for different people and different personalities. Boys are always easier to seduce, of course, so the challenge is usually enticing another girl to my bed.


Yeah ... I wanna see your pussy, but it keeps running away and hiding
Meggsy
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I don't have that problem now but when I was younger I did find a few in the slow lane. If baring a tit didn't work, I would take his cock out and stroke it for him. That puts the pedal to the metal very quickly. It never fails.
Never ask - always take the lead. Having to ask him if he wants to see my pussy - he is not the guy I want to be with in bed.
Beth - I never have had that problem with girls - Girls rock.
Sirene_Jaune
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Currently facing it now with my husband. I get home from work strip off and put on a dressing gown, leaving it open. I have walked around nude, dropping hints. I even have asked for sex. His response "How about you try and wake my cock up, instead of asking."

Like what the fuck, I miss him grabbing me, talking dirty to me. Growl in my ear, as he is nipping my shoulder or neck. His passionate side has gone into hibernation. Now it is just best to go to bed.

Currently I have been following people on to mentally get off. My hand or shower head has became my lovers.