why do women loose the sex drive? she couldnt careless if she has sex or not she goes 2 months without it.
this started around 5 years ago we used to have sex every other day and anywhere yes anywhere.
but over this time its got less n less
so thank god for this place
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I think your best bet is to ask Olivia... she's the resident sexpert... the rest of us can only give our opinions
It could be something mental or hormonal or something else entirely...
Maybe a moderator could move this thread over to that section... and she, Olivia, is probably going to need a little more info
Good Luck
It could be something mental or hormonal or something else entirely...
Maybe a moderator could move this thread over to that section... and she, Olivia, is probably going to need a little more info
Good Luck
Alpha Blonde
It could be due:
- boredom of having the same sex partner for more than 5 years, or boredom with the kind of sex you are having in general
- loss of sexual attraction to you
- if she had kids she might be in "mothering" mode and putting her sexy girl side on the backburner
- she might be having an affair
- hormonal issue
- she might be upset/stressed about something and not in the mood
- she might have gained weight and feels less sexually attractive than she used to and is therefore feeling inhibited or less sexual
- traumatic/emotional event may have caused her to lose her sex drive
- boredom of having the same sex partner for more than 5 years, or boredom with the kind of sex you are having in general
- loss of sexual attraction to you
- if she had kids she might be in "mothering" mode and putting her sexy girl side on the backburner
- she might be having an affair
- hormonal issue
- she might be upset/stressed about something and not in the mood
- she might have gained weight and feels less sexually attractive than she used to and is therefore feeling inhibited or less sexual
- traumatic/emotional event may have caused her to lose her sex drive
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How old is she? I see you are 38. I know when I hit 35 my sex drive exploded, I couldnt get enough and still cant. For a woman in her mid 30's(Im assuming) who sounded like she loved sex to cool off like that just isnt normal. Have you spoken to her about it? Could she be bored? Does she masturbate? Maybe she has some type of medical issue.
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It's been my experience that hormones or lack there of and having children are usually major contributing factors
Bunny12
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Quote by VickieLynn1
Actually its not just women that lose drive. Its both and alot of it is bored of same ol' thing. More variety will most deffinetly keep interest hot. And both species should nurture trust.
I would suggest staying within our same species. Otherwise that's a bit too drastic variety.
No matter how much the other species trusts you.I think you might have meant genders. At least I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
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I've been married almost five years, I've got three kids, and I may not fuck all as much as I used to, but I still love to have my husband make me feel like a woman.
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Reasons I had lost my sex drive:
Problem #1 Low self esteem, if she doesn't think she looks good and is embarrassed to be looked at or touched it will seriously lower her sex drive.
Solution: Do everything you can to make her feel attractive and not only when you want sex. All the time!!! (really all guys should do this anyway). Actually I think lush really helped with this too.
Problem #2 Not climaxing often enough, if she isn't getting off every time it will lower her sex drive. If you had blue balls every couple times you wouldn't want to very often either.
Solution: There are lots of things out there to help with this even products you apply to enhance sensation. If she is doing all right getting off alone, assist her in masturbating and see what works. Having her use your hands or putting your hands over hers works well. The best solution if this is the case is to have her climax before you have sex then you can be sure she will enjoy the sex to the fullest. You could always buy or use some toys.
Problem #3 Hormones and/or anger. Women are very hormonal, if they are high or low it can be a problem. Even if they are in normal limits some women are very sensitive. When I am pissed off I have almost no interest in sex. Figuring out why is the hard part.
Solution: Have her get her hormones checked. Unfortunately for me that didn't help. Through trial and error, knowing I am very sensitive to progesterone levels, using birth controls and progesterone cream. I have found that I need a little more progesterone than most. When my progesterone is low for me I get angered very easily and I am also generally sensitive and grouchy. I can use the cream for a few days to get it back up and be my normal self agian. I am definitely not the norm in this issue, but you get the idea that you can try things and talk to a doc about it.
Problem #1 Low self esteem, if she doesn't think she looks good and is embarrassed to be looked at or touched it will seriously lower her sex drive.
Solution: Do everything you can to make her feel attractive and not only when you want sex. All the time!!! (really all guys should do this anyway). Actually I think lush really helped with this too.
Problem #2 Not climaxing often enough, if she isn't getting off every time it will lower her sex drive. If you had blue balls every couple times you wouldn't want to very often either.
Solution: There are lots of things out there to help with this even products you apply to enhance sensation. If she is doing all right getting off alone, assist her in masturbating and see what works. Having her use your hands or putting your hands over hers works well. The best solution if this is the case is to have her climax before you have sex then you can be sure she will enjoy the sex to the fullest. You could always buy or use some toys.
Problem #3 Hormones and/or anger. Women are very hormonal, if they are high or low it can be a problem. Even if they are in normal limits some women are very sensitive. When I am pissed off I have almost no interest in sex. Figuring out why is the hard part.
Solution: Have her get her hormones checked. Unfortunately for me that didn't help. Through trial and error, knowing I am very sensitive to progesterone levels, using birth controls and progesterone cream. I have found that I need a little more progesterone than most. When my progesterone is low for me I get angered very easily and I am also generally sensitive and grouchy. I can use the cream for a few days to get it back up and be my normal self agian. I am definitely not the norm in this issue, but you get the idea that you can try things and talk to a doc about it.