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Women ~have you eaten pussy & enjoyed it. how can I convince my wife to eat pussy & enjoy it

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i am curious as to how women got to try eating pussy & liking it. how can i convince my wife to lick a pussy?

Have a FMF threesome. Have the other F lick you wife's pussy. Maybe that will convince her to respond in kind.

Yes, I have gone down on a woman. My husband wanted to try a FMF threesome, so I asked a friend if she would be interested. She went down on me first, and I felt obligated. Turned out, I like it.

Both girls have to be very bi for MFF to work

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Yes, I have gone down on a woman. My husband wanted to try a FMF threesome, so I asked a friend if she would be interested. She went down on me first, and I felt obligated. Turned out, I like it.

im am so very glad you tried it & liked it, that is just so beautiful i wish my wife would do it

I love eating pussy but how you can convince her to truy it is a different matter

I feel convincing is for selling products. Approach it differently. Tell her your desires. Whisper into her ear how you enjoy and love eating her pussy, how good it tastes. Finger her and put your fingers in her mouth, ask her if she enjoys the taste. After a while when you've done that multiple times start whispering how you want her to taste a pussy, how you want her to experience licking those juices off a girl and how you want to watch it.

If you 'convince' her, she might not enjoy it- just like a sales person sold you something and you regret the purchase later. She needs to want it to enjoy it. Make her want it.

The situation needs to be such that she absolutely feels free to try it for herself. That is different for each person. Your best recourse is to give her opportunity after opportunity after opportunity.

Happened when I was in middle school. A girl friend was having a sleepover at my house when her folks were away on a business trip. She was my age but had "done some stuff" and told me about some of it when we were alone in my room. It went from comparing boobs to comparing labia, then she spread hers and slid her finger around in it and then tasted her finger. I wss curious - asked how it tasted. She said I could do myself or taste her finger. I tried her finger and thought it was ok. She asked to taste me - I said ok - but she got right down and used her tongue. I loved it. Then I did her. Loved it. We got together a few times over the next year in middle school, but I had "discovered " cocks in the meantime and found them to be much.more fun, and they came with a nice reward. In co!!ege, I was involved in a couple of mfm threesomes freshman year and of course lived them. Then along came a girl who was interested in one of the guys I was fucking . she,and I were friends and we agreed to have some fun with him together. It was during the fun that I started to get turned on seeing him enter her pussy and I got involved. When he withdrew from her I one time I took him.into.my mouth and the taste of her vagina brought back some sweet memories from middle school. I spent a few minutes earing her out while he was doing me doggy style, then we traded and she ate me. It was absolutely wonderful.

If you think your wife is the least bit curious to try something new and fun, let her know that lots of women have done it and don't regret it. In my case, I enjoy the tenderness of a females female interaction with a small select few girls I know, but still consider myself to be a raging heterosexual girl. I also am a huge fans of giving guy friends blowjobs and enjoy swallowing cum - in an fmf threesome, I always enjoy drinking the cum that flows out of my friends vagina, as it has been given a nice,additional taste . but that just kinky me.

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Happened when I was in middle school. A girl friend was having a sleepover at my house when her folks were away on a business trip. She was my age but had "done some stuff" and told me about some of it when we were alone in my room. It went from comparing boobs to comparing labia, then she spread hers and slid her finger around in it and then tasted her finger. I wss curious - asked how it tasted. She said I could do myself or taste her finger. I tried her finger and thought it was ok. She asked to taste me - I said ok - but she got right down and used her tongue. I loved it. Then I did her. Loved it. We got together a few times over the next year in middle school, but I had "discovered " cocks in the meantime and found them to be much.more fun, and they came with a nice reward. In co!!ege, I was involved in a couple of mfm threesomes freshman year and of course lived them. Then along came a girl who was interested in one of the guys I was fucking . she,and I were friends and we agreed to have some fun with him together. It was during the fun that I started to get turned on seeing him enter her pussy and I got involved. When he withdrew from her I one time I took him.into.my mouth and the taste of her vagina brought back some sweet memories from middle school. I spent a few minutes earing her out while he was doing me doggy style, then we traded and she ate me. It was absolutely wonderful.

If you think your wife is the least bit curious to try something new and fun, let her know that lots of women have done it and don't regret it. In my case, I enjoy the tenderness of a females female interaction with a small select few girls I know, but still consider myself to be a raging heterosexual girl. I also am a huge fans of giving guy friends blowjobs and enjoy swallowing cum - in an fmf threesome, I always enjoy drinking the cum that flows out of my friends vagina, as it has been given a nice,additional taste . but that just kinky me.

Erin Dcup 34 thanks so very much for your totally sensual sexual experiences. My wife has cut out our sex so much i started have gay fantasies cuz i know gay guys like sucking dick so i know i will get a blowjob & love it. My wife wont supposedly let a woman touch her in any way shape or form. Our sex life is dead after 35 years of marriage.

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Erin Dcup 34 thanks so very much for your totally sensual sexual experiences. My wife has cut out our sex so much i started have gay fantasies cuz i know gay guys like sucking dick so i know i will get a blowjob & love it. My wife wont supposedly let a woman touch her in any way shape or form. Our sex life is dead after 35 years of marriage.

Man, I know what you're going through with a sexless marriage. We've been together over 50 years and we haven't had sex in 20 years. It really sucks (or doesn't I guess).

I feel for you frontierguy, but marriages usually need to have a really strong sex base in order to successfully bring in other people, or talk about this big of a new adventure. If she hasn't already expressed an interest in going down on a woman - or if, as you've hinted, is actively turned off by the idea - I very much doubt there's any chance of "convincing" her.

Given what you've said here and on other forum posts, I'm sorry to say your choices are probably (1) go without sex, or (2) safely and discreetly pursue it outside the marriage. As Dan Savage would put it, (2) isn't without risk - somebody could recognize you at the gay club you've mentioned. But I think he also considers ensuring each other's sexual happiness to be an essential component of a relationship, and if your wife is unwilling to help with that, you might feel justified going elsewhere. I personally know of a few guys here on Lush whose married sex lives have gone cold, but being here on Lush helps them keep their sanity while they stick with (1), and gives them a safe space to talk about whether to go for (2).

Option (3), DTMFA, which Dan sometimes advises, is pretty extreme, and I wouldn't necessarily advise it. It's fine for young people without kids, but for us older folks that's pretty difficult socially, financially and emotionally after building a life together.

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Man, I know what you're going through with a sexless marriage. We've been together over 50 years and we haven't had sex in 20 years. It really sucks (or doesn't I guess).

Darkroot50 so sorry you are going thru this too. i despise it so very much. If I can still get it up i wanna do it. you are so very right when you say it sucks but not literally.

For about 30 years. Eating pussy is all about enjoying giving another woman intense pleasure. If your wife is only into receiving pleasure but not giving it, you've got an up-hill battle.

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Darkroot50 so sorry you are going thru this too. i despise it so very much. If I can still get it up i wanna do it. you are so very right when you say it sucks but not literally.

It has been a difficult 20 years or so. I wish I'd figured out some other options way back when.

I don’t think “convincing” a woman to go down on another woman is something that can be done. Not being a woman it is a bit presumptuous to think I would know the answer but I would think that for another woman to do anything she has to have been curious and then act when the opportunity arises.