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I am bi and a crossdresser but I do not think it is very common. I occasionally sign on to some other gay or bisexual sites and often I feel rejected because they are not looking for a person like me. It is really hard to find someone who loves a bisexual crossdresser -Believe I have tried and tried
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I am bi and a crossdresser but I do not think it is very common. I occasionally sign on to some other gay or bisexual sites and often I feel rejected because they are not looking for a person like me. It is really hard to find someone who loves a bisexual crossdresser -Believe I have tried and tried
I have found there are many in the chat rooms here!!
OK, I'll settle this little dispute. I'm bi. I don't crossdress , in fact I've never considered it. I love to eat pussy and I could only fall in love with a women. But when it comes to sex I will do it with certain guys. I have a wide range of women that I would have sex with. But very narrow range of men.
Some of you guys need to learn the difference between bi and gay.
If your wife or girl has sex with another girl and then wants to have sex with you, are you going to tell her no you are gay????
Some of you guys need to learn the difference between bi and gay.
If your wife or girl has sex with another girl and then wants to have sex with you, are you going to tell her no you are gay????
I consider myself to be straight, but very curious. I had one experience with another guy as a teenager over four decades ago. I have always liked the feel of nylons and have from time to time slipped some on to feel them up tight against my cock. I also like the feeling of women's panties for the same reasons and thus have worn my wife's or others that I have collected over the years. I very rarely wear these panties outside of the bedroom thus I would not consider that really crossdressing. I will continue to be curious and maybe if the right opportunity presented itself I might consider jacking off or sucking another guy. I will also continue to slip into a nice sexy panty from time to time, but not go much further in the crossdressing mode.
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That is an interesting question, that I would like to see the response, but I got another interesting question for bisexual men. How come you guys won't admit to being gay instead of saying that you are bisexual? You would think that if a man that loves cock and men so much, he would be gay instead of messing around with someone he does not like at all.
You can think that, but it doesn't make it true. I have had sex with both men and women with a strong preference for either, which means I am quite literally a bi-sexual.
As for the original topic, I personally have never been insterested in cross-dressing, but my ex was. He was a very feminine man and always said that he felt more attractive and more comfortable in a dress than in a suit. Frankly, men are trained to believe that women are more attractive, so if a man wants to attract another man and he can pull it off, his best chance is to dress like one. It also makes casual relationships with women easier, since there is a natural mental block women have when it comes to flirting with men that a cross-dresser can avoid.
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I have found there are many in the chat rooms here!!
I'm one of them.
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I love to look at CD's as they really dressed up...and would love to suck a cock...just haven't yet...what am I...I think I'm bi//
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I will never figure out why people want to make generalizations about bisexual men and then wonder why men have trouble admitting they are bisexual or gay. The way things were worded above was as if the person was trying to shame men for their feelings or attraction toward men.
As to the cross dressing issue as others said it is more of a fetish. It is not one that I am personally into but I have worn women's panties and lingerie for both men and even women I have been involved with. It did nothing for me. But I did it for them. I have even dressed fully as a woman once or twice for a guy. Again it did nothing for me. But it did for them.
Personally I don't even get turned on by a guy in women's things or really even if a guy tells me in a chat room he is wearing panties. But I don't really care for women dressed in men's things either.
I am truly sexually attracted to both men and women and enjoy sex with them. But when I want a man I want him to be a man and if with a woman I like her to be a woman. Just the way I am.
But I don't have anything against those that are into it either. I applaud them for knowing what they want. And going for it.
To me as long as no one underage is being harmed or anyone is being hurt, forced or abused in any way, then no one should be made to feel bad for what turns them on or gets them off.
As to the cross dressing issue as others said it is more of a fetish. It is not one that I am personally into but I have worn women's panties and lingerie for both men and even women I have been involved with. It did nothing for me. But I did it for them. I have even dressed fully as a woman once or twice for a guy. Again it did nothing for me. But it did for them.
Personally I don't even get turned on by a guy in women's things or really even if a guy tells me in a chat room he is wearing panties. But I don't really care for women dressed in men's things either.
I am truly sexually attracted to both men and women and enjoy sex with them. But when I want a man I want him to be a man and if with a woman I like her to be a woman. Just the way I am.
But I don't have anything against those that are into it either. I applaud them for knowing what they want. And going for it.
To me as long as no one underage is being harmed or anyone is being hurt, forced or abused in any way, then no one should be made to feel bad for what turns them on or gets them off.
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Just out of interest why are so many bisexual men into cross dressing?.
No idea. I'm bi and not into cross dressing. Like any other grouping of people we're not all identical. Cross dressing isn't exclusive to bi men either. Some people, regardless of orientation, enjoy it. Some do not.
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That is an interesting question, that I would like to see the response, but I got another interesting question for bisexual men. How come you guys won't admit to being gay instead of saying that you are bisexual? You would think that if a man that loves cock and men so much, he would be gay instead of messing around with someone he does not like at all.
Not interesting at all. It's a common misconception. Bi is bi. Gay is gay. They're two entirely different things. There's nothing to "admit".
Granted, some see bi as more acceptable and may use the label if they're worried about how they'll be perceived if they say they're gay. My own limited experience doesn't jive with that as I've found some gays to lack as much understanding as straights. Some are exploring their sexuality and may identify as eventuałly sorting out that they're gay but a subset of a group of people never fully represents the entire group no matter how you're grouping people.
It's pretty simple, really: If one is attracted only to the same sex then the person is gay. If the person is attracted to both sexes then the person is bi. That said I don't understand the fixation with labels that many have. There's a whole spectrum of sexuality out there and people can fluidly move throughout the spectrum whether it's something that you can comprehend or not.
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Well that's your friends. But generally speaking most bi men will admit to being gay later on in life. That's why they have long lasting trusting monogamous relationships with men, is because they have everything they need in a man.
"That's your friends" cuts both ways and applies to your arguments as well. The bi men you've known may not accurately represent all bi men yet you seem to just assume that they do. Again, bi is bi and gay is gay. If a given person identifies as bi and is actually gay then it's up to him to sort it out and doesn't mean that all bi men are like this. All you're doing is demonstrating your ignorance and prejudice.
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I started to cd when i was around 12. I have been doing in on and off since then. I started as straight, just love the feeling of the lingerie and then had my first taste of cock and then i became bi. Now i would say i am probably gay because the only thing i really look at girls is their clothing etc and how pretty they are. But, I am not into having sex with them
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We're getting to be sexually hypocritical these days.
More women are doing more women without guilt or shame. But when men do other men there is a lot of judgment and shame.
Yes some bisexuals are gay , but not all. Maybe 50%. I sure see a lot of wedding rings through those glory holes.
More women are doing more women without guilt or shame. But when men do other men there is a lot of judgment and shame.
Yes some bisexuals are gay , but not all. Maybe 50%. I sure see a lot of wedding rings through those glory holes.
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We're getting to be sexually hypocritical these days.
More women are doing more women without guilt or shame. But when men do other men there is a lot of judgment and shame.
Yes some bisexuals are gay , but not all. Maybe 50%. I sure see a lot of wedding rings through those glory holes.
Are you confusing wedding rings with cock rings?
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I like to dress, I'm married and I've have never been with a guy ( although I'd like to try)
1. she knows cause I told her
2. I have and shes not crazy about it
3. yes
4. never been with guy
5. id like to try going out dressed just don't think ill pass
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Sounds just like me
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I’m Bisexual and have no interest whatsoever in cross-dressing or otherwise acting feminine. You will find that many bi guys are into those things and many are not. That said, I’d do it - and find it sexy - if my partner was into it.
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Most of them don't. They say they are bi because of fear, or boredom. Most bisexual men especially the married ones, will always crave cock, and a woman does not have a cock, so therefore a bisexual man needs to admit that he's gay instead.
Attitudes like this make the problem of Bisexual Erasure even worse.
While it is true that some men who are actually gay start their coming-out process by first claiming bisexuality, that does NOT mean everyone who identifies as bi is on that path. You are massively overgeneralizing from minimal data. If anything, the fact that your belief is so widespread discourages real bi men from identifying as such (publicly and/or in their own minds), because they know a lot of people won’t believe them.
It doesn’t matter how much cock you suck, or want to suck, or how much you love having another man squirt hot white cum in your ass. Are you still sexually an d romantically attracted to women? Do you enjoy sneaking a peek down a woman’s cleavage and imagine yourself suckling on those sweet teats? Do you love the taste of pussy and running your tongue through a woman’s succulent folds?
Every gay guy I know gives a hard pass on all three of those things. Conversely, if you like those things, then Bi-town is your final destination, and it is not just a stop on the road to Gayville. Sexuality-erasing bigotry notwithstanding.
In my five years on Lush, I have met quite a few fellow middle-aged guys who find themselves craving dick more and more, but still love pussy. We fucking exist. Stop negating us.
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I used to be a bit of a stud with women. I started playing with men. Moved into cross dressing. Once I was fucked while dressed up I loved it. Now I just crave cock fucking me breeding me
Yes this is true for me too
Being dressed as a girl (inc full hair and make up) seems to make my body much for responsive and receptive to being fucked and brings out a very strong desire to be seeded / fertilised to the point where I now only have bareback anal
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I love men and women but there’s something naughty and extremely arousing about wearing sexy little outfits and makeup
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I consider myself bi, I’m not into cross dressing, but I did wear panties once at the request of the guy I was servicing. He considered himself straight, I guess me wearing his wife’s panties helped him justify the act.
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Now THAT's what I can't get my head around, you'll suck our cocks but say there's no emotion. Almost all bi married men that I've met have been passive bottoms, very few aggressive bottoms and even less tops.
I've had sex with women(quite a few) and may do again but I wouldn't have a relationship with one. Ergo I'm gay.
As far as crossdressing goes, more gays and even straight guys are into it. I don't even think it's a sexuality thing, i believe it's more to do with a guys feminine side. The more tolerant society becomes, the more open people become.jRD3MlAfPiktSwx5
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I am a bi male. I have always been sexually attracted to women. I didn't get in to bi until the first guy I ever met with. It was his first m/m according to him. He asked me to fuck him and I was hooked. I like something of the female there so even if it is just panties it is a turn on for me. I think most guys that say they are bi are attracted to women but find women more work than they are worth so they turn to a guy that cross dresses. Just the way it is.
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I am truly sexually attracted to both men and women and enjoy sex with them. But when I want a man I want him to be a man and if with a woman I like her to be a woman. Just the way I am.
But I don't have anything against those that are into it either. I applaud them for knowing what they want. And going for it.
Couldn’t agree more. I can find cross-dressing men attractive, and I understand there are guys who can’t get excited about someone who has a dick unless they’ve been feminized. Personally, like you I tend to find men who are just being men more attractive. But I have zero problem with people who are into cross-dressing. We’re all wired differently. Do what turns you’re on, as long as you’re not hurting people.
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