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do guys really care about boob size more than everything else?

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No. To me a great ass and legs is more important than boobs. And face, eyes, and lips! Boobs are more like cake decoration. A woman can be ultra-sexy and still be flat chested.

But I do very much enjoy quality surgically enhanced boobs. And as boobs age and sag, the sagging is anti-sexy. Big droopy boobs are a turn off. Get those breasts toned up. It's not that expensive.

I am into athletics and staying fit, so gym women that are very tone are what appeals to me the most. Curvy but with a sixpack, tight with no jiggle anywhere gets my attention.
For this guy, no. In fact, women I’ve been with who’ve had smaller boobs often report extra sensitive nipples which means just one more way for me to give pleasure.
One study’s evidence leaned towards blue collar and poor men likening big breasts while educated and wealthy preferred smaller ones. A radio survey of most attractive features put attitudes at the top as physical features canceled each other out. Sexy has always been more than just one physical feature. It has a lot more to do with attitude and the confidence to show/maintain what you have
Speaking for myself, no. That said, I am not the average man and have been called 'weird' for what I'm about to say, well, type.

What's most important about a woman's breasts, or indeed any other feature, is that it goes with the rest of her. Small breasts go best on a thin woman, being mostly fatty tissue. Add a pair of aftermarket DD's and it doesn't look right, and thus, doesn't attract me.
That's an extreme example, of course. Little things are a nonissue. Breasts, however, are out in the open, clothed or not, and one of the most noticeable changes to a body one can make. Often, the changes aren't needed.

Nobody's perfect, certainly, but most people have seen someone they'd be into if they ...
Same thing with hair, eyes, lips, skin tone, height, or weight, it has to not look out of place. Even if the particular features are lovely, they can still appear out of place to me.

In my life, it's resulted in a wide range of what I've found attractive and very different looking exgirlfriends. I've dated women tall, short, voluptuous, petite, white, black, latina, Asian, fat, skinny, all hair & eye colors and with all of them I found something that made me want to see 'what if'.

Again, I'm judging if she's attractive nor am I opposed to dating her, it's an observation and no more or less important than any other.
It isn't an obsession either as proven by the fact that every woman I've ever loved had some feature or features I didn't think went with the rest of her and as we've fallen in love, I forget about it and no longer notice.

Do I ever tell a woman about an observation?
Fuck no, I'm brighter than I look!

Couples fight already for a myriad of reasons. Why, in the name of everything holy, unholy, or chaotic neutral, would I add more?

For the most part, if you're good with your own body, a good man will be too.

Other women, I cannot speak for. I'm not entirely sure if the attraction mechanisms are the same or if they even matter.

That's my thought and I only took time to jot it down was that it isn't a common one. I think it's somewhat unique.

Be inspired, everyone,
Carlos



That which did not kill me didn't try hard enough
I love small to medium sized tits. I am a tit man, but I like a slim body, nice legs, slim bubble butt with small to medium sized tits. That said, the first thing I notice is the face - expression more than movie star beauty. I know of three sisters. Two of them got all the looks and the third got gipped (crooked teeth - coke bottle glasses) however, the more I got to know them all, the third one became more beautiful than the other two. She has a wonderful attitude and always seems on the verge of a smile or laughter. They're all nice girls but I found something special in the third one that makes her sexier.
I'd prefer small and real boobs over big and fake. But I'm more of an ass man.
In a word - no.

In this order: face, hair, chemistry, some curves, ass, somewhat submissive, tits, legs, the way she dresses up - feminine but some sex appeal preferred. Breast are on the list, but pretty far down. And small is totally fine when the package is there.
In a word - no.

In this order: face, hair, chemistry, some curves, ass, somewhat submissive, tits, legs, the way she dresses up - feminine but some sex appeal preferred. Breast are on the list, but pretty far down. And small is totally fine when the package is there.
In a word - no.

In this order: face, hair, chemistry, some curves, ass, somewhat submissive, tits, legs, the way she dresses up - feminine but some sex appeal preferred. Breast are on the list, but pretty far down. And small is totally fine when the package is there.
Not me,
Love all shapes and sizes; especially extra-sensitive nipples.
The size of her boobs do not matter... Her desire for me is way more important...
No, I care very little about the size of the breasts. I prefer smaller rather than larger. But it is not a major necessity.
When I was younger it was very important to me. Now, a good smile, sense of humor, and personality are far more important.
No! I do have a slight preference for heavier, bigger-boobed women, but it's not that important.

What IS important is everything else: being on a date with a witty, intelligent woman, the way she makes eye contact, the way she smiles at me, the way her hand brushes against me. Once in bed, the way she engages and responds. Physical attributes are much lower on the list. My ideal woman probably is larger, with good-size breasts (and above all, a natural bush!) ... BUT I'd rather be with a skinny, plain girl with a sparkling personality who's at least a little adventurous in bed than a beautiful woman with an ideal body who is dull in the eyes and just lies there while we're doing it.
I fell for my wife's smiles, then her perfect legs. It wasn't until I got her bra off at 16 after a dance that I discovered her small boobs. It did not matter then and never has bothered me. They are the perfect size for her.
Boob size never bothered me when I was younger and when I met and married my wife she had small boobs 32A. Whilst I was happy with them she was not, eventually she had a boob job and her confidence rocketed so in a way I have become a fan of them.
While I agree that a nice rack is a definite plus, it is far from "everything" as this thread said. I go for the whole package her over all looks her face her personality her intelligence and her heart. Some of the best women I have known have not been drop dead knockouts and just because you are nice on the eyes doesn't mean you can hold an intelligent conversation! There's a lot that goes into the "perfect woman" boob size is way down the list!
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The size of her boobs do not matter... Her desire for me is way more important...



Indeed!!
While I thoroughly enjoy a nice pair of D or even DD, that alone will not do it for me. I dated a girl in college who had the most perfect pair of D's. She was petite and they were real. I spent hours sucking on her nipples and massaging the firm flesh. But she couldn't hold a lengthy conversation. So we broke up. I met another girl and we talked for hours on the first day we met. She happened to have a nice set of C-D's, but it was the way we could talk for hours about everything that held my interest. 31 years later, she still does.
I know I don’t it’s more so about the confidence a woman has in her body that does it for me.
No, I have no interest in fake huge tits. I prefer a natural breast.
Depends on the guy I guess. I love boobs of all shapes and sizes never had a pair I didn;t enjoy sucking on and playing with
More about the nipples, teasing them till they're hard and playing with boobs! Big, medium or small doesn't matter but kissing them is great fun
More about the nipples, teasing them till they're hard and playing with boobs! Big, medium or small doesn't matter but kissing them is great fun
I like sensitive nipples on a girl. Size isn't important.
There needs to be a proportional balance.
There needs to be a proportional balance.
I like boobs, but any size... its nipples that get me hooked.
No - I have always said if she has nipples that is enough. It is the nipple play that will make them drop their pants not squeezing a big mound of flesh.