Contrarian here, apparently. Not being turned on AT ALL by shaved pussies, and having never understood the appeal in the thirty-two years or so since pube-shaving went mainstream, my lizard brain still needs to see at least a little hair on a woman. Trimmed is fine.
Likewise, I do not shave myself down there. I fucking love pubic hair! My one concession is that mine started getting longer with age and I do trim now. I leave the fuzz above my cock long enough to be soft and luxuriant rather than scratchy and scruffy, but I trim fairly close below. And that is as far as it will go unless forced to for surgery or something.
By the way, I run a brush through if I’m expecting to receive oral sex. That neatly solves the whole loose-hairs-in-the-mouth problem, and it stupefies me that the world has lost its collective knowledge of this simple tip.