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would you let a woman pay for just your company?

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who would pay for me..honestly?


That there depends on how purty your mouth is...boy.
Not with a total stranger. But I do have straight male and even gay friends in real life who I trust and occasionally ask to go out with on friendly dates. Non-sexual, just someone to watch a movie with, have dinner, a few drinks, talk about work, about men's point of view, argue, carry my bag, allow me to be me. Usually If I do the asking I insist on paying but rarely do they allow me to pay, they always go out of their way to extremely please. And if I insist they always say next time.
No. I would not. If she wants my company, I would be honored to give it. If I feel strongly enough not to want too, money won't sway me.

The Wild Girl anthology need not be read in any order but does take place in the following timeframe

Wild at Heart- 1968. The story of Dani’s Great Aunt Evie.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/wild-at-heart

Wild Oats. Part 1&2. -2021. Dani is 16 and sets her sights on her stepfather.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/taboo/wild-oats-part-1

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/taboo/wild-oats-part-2

Wild Child. 2025. Dani is now 20 years old.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/taboo/wild-child

Yes I would.. Sometimes it's the overlooked things in life that mean the most to people.
Putting the shoe on the other foot, I wouldn't pay a man, a stranger, to keep me company.

If I had to pay them, well, that would mean that they didn't actually 'want' to be with me, wouldn't it?

I would gladly pay for a service or skill that didn't have; like a plumber, or a lawyer, or a mechanic or something, but to pay for company? I don't think so

It would just seem sad and wrong.
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Putting the shoe on the other foot, I wouldn't pay a man, a stranger, to keep me company.

If I had to pay them, well, that would mean that they didn't actually 'want' to be with me, wouldn't it?

I would gladly pay for a service or skill that didn't have; like a plumber, or a lawyer, or a mechanic or something, but to pay for company? I don't think so

It would just seem sad and wrong.


I agree completely.

I was having a conversation with my Lady Friend last night. Her daughter is thirty years old, divorced with two children and has, over the last couple of years, become involved in affairs with married men. The reason she gave for this was that a married guy isn't likely to become clingy and demand more of her than she is willing to give. Her belief is that it's on him for cheating and if his wife can't keep him, well that's on her then.

I'm not defending her here or supporting her, but it seems a corollary to why some men pay for sex. Sometimes it's just easier than to try to maintain a relationship.

The reason I bring this up is the why' people do the things they do. Sometimes people want intimacy without complication and they are often willing to do odd things to get it. I understand that completely, I just don't think at this point in my life I want to be the one giving it.

The Wild Girl anthology need not be read in any order but does take place in the following timeframe

Wild at Heart- 1968. The story of Dani’s Great Aunt Evie.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/wild-at-heart

Wild Oats. Part 1&2. -2021. Dani is 16 and sets her sights on her stepfather.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/taboo/wild-oats-part-1

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/taboo/wild-oats-part-2

Wild Child. 2025. Dani is now 20 years old.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/taboo/wild-child

I suppose I might, though I'm sure I'd feel odd, accepting money just for spending time with someone. I think I'd be picky though: I don't care what she looks like, or even if she has all her teeth, but she'd have to be reasonably intelligent.
"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
No, why would a woman sink that low for companionship?
Ran out of my prescription and all I feel is rage..sorry all.

I also am forgetful.

I'm sorry..

I took it out on you when I shouldn't have.

I'm really sorry. I really am..

I get very angry if I'm slightly offended.

I tried to be polite but went over the edge.

My apologies.

You don't have to believe me or accept my apologies.

I still feel hated for giving my opinion back.

Feel free to delete my offensive posts.

Or I can edit them..

I will still be a freak in your eyes no matter what.
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no it wasn't for this thread

but thanks for thinking that it was..

my heart, just got blacker..

thank you

thanks for feeding the flames-it's fun...




In case others are wondering why you posted this. it was because I responded to your Rage Cage post with which was deleted!
It is specious to state that it was not connected, the timing fits too well. That anger was directed at other members, which is not allowed.
My post was merely to tell you not to continue in that vein and to calm down.
I, along with most of the other posters, have no idea about who you are.
The problem is we are becoming to notice a lot of posts where you criticise without giving a reason. A lot of people "know" me from the forums and I haue argued with a lot of them. While I may not agree with them, I give my reasons and they respond with theirs. That is a healthy way to debate.
You seem to come across as suiting your user name. You act like a spoilt brat who is used to getting her own way. Well Lush, along with real life, is not like that. If you are unable to argue your point then stick to the inoccuous threads and you won't get upset.
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The problem is we are becoming to notice a lot of posts where you criticise without giving a reason. A lot of people "know" me from the forums and I haue argued with a lot of them. While I may not agree with them, I give my reasons and they respond with theirs. That is a healthy way to debate.
You seem to come across as suiting your user name. You act like a spoilt brat who is used to getting her own way. Well Lush, along with real life, is not like that. If you are unable to argue your point then stick to the inoccuous threads and you won't get upset.


Oh my god... Shut the hell up. Everyone is different.

Don't listen to them daddysweatheart. You keep doing you.
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Oh my god... Shut the hell up. Everyone is different.

Don't listen to them daddysweatheart. You keep doing you.

Welcome back. I'm glad to see that you've lost none of your ability of erudite reasoning.
If you are looking for a battle of wits then you totally unarmed!!!
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Welcome back. I'm glad to see that you've lost none of your ability of erudite reasoning.
If you are looking for a battle of wits then you totally unarmed!!!


Your second sentence doesn't agree with your third sentence (which is ironically very poorly constructed).
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Your second sentence doesn't agree with your third sentence (which is ironically very poorly constructed).

If you can't see sarcasm when it slaps you in the face then it proves my point.
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If you can't see sarcasm when it slaps you in the face then it proves my point.


Funny because my first post in response to you was laced with sarcasm... What a dimwit.
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Funny because my first post in response to you was laced with sarcasm... What a dimwit.
.

This was amended, I was mistaken, apologies. However, I fail to see any sarcasm in your original post.
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I notice you edited your post! Certainly not the "shut the fuck up!" that you originally posted. I didn't notice any sarcasm in that, only vitriol. You see you can't edit the What You Missed wall.


That's not the part that was sarcastic... Plus I edited it like two seconds after I posted it to add the "oh my god" part then felt "hell" was funnier to use. I can edit it back to "fuck" if you like. It doesn't really change the fact that sarcasm went over your head though...then you thought you were all smart by saying sarcasm went over my head when in reality it was just you not keeping up from the beginning.

It was like sarcasmception. Pretty dumb on your part dude.
Can we please, please, please not have another ridiculous flame war?

Yet another thread that gets pissed on by people who simply can't keep their own counsel or bite their tongues?

You know, threads do sometimes wander off in another direction than originally intended, it happens, but this is pure threadjacking, just for the sake of trouble.

I for one haven't missed the shit stirring and winding up. In fact, along with many others, I'm pretty sick of it. Fighting for the sake of it, winding people up and trying to cause grief. It's old, it's tired and it's juvenile.

It not only pisses people who enjoy the forums off, but I personally think it reflects pretty badly on the site and stops people from making reasonable posts, for fear of getting shit on by a non-representative minority.

We get it, you're funny as fuck and know what buttons to push to get a reaction, but it's tiresome as fuck and makes the forums a crappy place to hang out.

You should start a flamewar thread or something, where this sort of crap is acceptable and people who don't want to see it or be a part of it can simply avoid it.
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Can we please, please, please not have another ridiculous flame war?

blah de blah de blah blah



Quote by Mazza
Can we please, please, please not have another ridiculous flame war?

Yet another thread that gets pissed on by people who simply can't keep their own counsel or bite their tongues?



This thread? You're complaining that this thread is now ruined? Have you read it?

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I for one haven't missed the shit stirring and winding up. In fact, along with many others, I'm pretty sick of it. Fighting for the sake of it, winding people up and trying to cause grief. It's old, it's tired and it's juvenile.

It not only pisses people who enjoy the forums off, but I personally think it reflects pretty badly on the site and stops people from making reasonable posts, for fear of getting shit on by a non-representative minority.



1. No one cares if you, personally, don't like a post. You think I like your posts? They are all lame, boring and inside jokes with your friends. You think members give a shit about a big sandwich or whatever the fuck that thread is about? I've been here for years and I still have no idea what the hell that is... It's threads like that that make new members feel like Lush is cliquey.

2. Who are the many others? Did you personally ask all the 200,000 members what their opinion was? Or was it a handful of old, tired members who have been here forever who have nothing better to do than to whine about a post I made? Talk about a non-representative minority.

3. These kind of posts in threads - that are stupid to begin with - have been happening for years. If it drives people away from the forums why do they get so many views and responses? Why has lush membership grown as much as it has if I single handedly drive people away. It's a ridiculous notion.

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We get it, you're funny as fuck and know what buttons to push to get a reaction, but it's tiresome as fuck and makes the forums a crappy place to hang out.



Isn't this post the very same thing you're accusing me of? This isn't "flaming"? The hypocrisy here is astounding.

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You should start a flamewar thread or something, where this sort of crap is acceptable and people who don't want to see it or be a part of it can simply avoid it.



That's the lamest thing I have ever heard. If you see my name by a thread. Don't click it.
I clicked on the thread because I had already posted on it, not because you posted here.

I'm not rising to the bait, MF, I think you understand perfectly well what I'm talking about.
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I clicked on the thread because I had already posted on it, not because you posted here.

I'm not rising to the bait, MF, I think you understand perfectly well what I'm talking about.



No, I don't know what you are talking about. Do you know what I'm talking about?

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1. No one cares if you, personally, don't like a post. You think I like your posts? They are all lame, boring and inside jokes with your friends. You think members give a shit about a big sandwich or whatever the fuck that thread is about? I've been here for years and I still have no idea what the hell that is... It's threads like that that make new members feel like Lush is cliquey.

2. Who are the many others? Did you personally ask all the 200,000 members what their opinion was? Or was it a handful of old, tired members who have been here forever who have nothing better to do than to whine about a post I made? Talk about a non-representative minority.

3. These kind of posts in threads - that are stupid to begin with - have been happening for years. If it drives people away from the forums why do they get so many views and responses? Why has lush membership grown as much as it has if I single handedly drive people away. It's a ridiculous notion.


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Isn't this post the very same thing you're accusing me of? This isn't "flaming"? The hypocrisy here is astounding.


No answers? Nothing? That's what I thought.
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MF, rather than take up any more space in the thread, I'll just PM you, okay?


No don't do that. I'm so very lazy to return PMs.
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No don't do that. I'm so very lazy to return PMs.


I don't require a response.
Nope If a women wanted me to spend time with her that is great. However to bring money into the equation is an insult to me. Just feels like you do not respect me.
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That's not the part that was sarcastic... Plus I edited it like two seconds after I posted it to add the "oh my god" part then felt "hell" was funnier to use. I can edit it back to "fuck" if you like. It doesn't really change the fact that sarcasm went over your head though...then you thought you were all smart by saying sarcasm went over my head when in reality it was just you not keeping up from the beginning.

It was like sarcasmception. Pretty dumb on your part dude.

You really a pathetic excuse for a man.
You seem to delight in causing as much trouble as you can. You post with the sole intention of intimidation, the classic behaviour of a bully. That won't succeed with me as your venemous barbs just illustrate your lack of intellect.
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You really a pathetic excuse for a man.
You seem to delight in causing as much trouble as you can. You post with the sole intention of intimidation, the classic behaviour of a bully. That won't succeed with me as your venemous barbs just illustrate your lack of intellect.


Venomous Barbs? Compare what I said to you in response to what you said to that girl who is clearly having a tough time emotionally. The parts I bolded are to show where you are being a dick to her and also where you are being a hypocrite.

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In case others are wondering why you posted this. it was because I responded to your Rage Cage post with which was deleted!
It is specious to state that it was not connected, the timing fits too well. That anger was directed at other members, which is not allowed.
My post was merely to tell you not to continue in that vein and to calm down.
<- who made you an authority on what is allowed?
I, along with most of the other posters, have no idea about who you are. <- no one really knows who anyone is here.
The problem is we are becoming to notice <- who is we? a lot of posts where you criticise without giving a reason. A lot of people "know" me from the forums and I haue argued with a lot of them. While I may not agree with them, I give my reasons and they respond with theirs. That is a healthy way to debate. <- you're not giving many reasons here in this thread.
You seem to come across as suiting your user name. You act like a spoilt brat who is used to getting her own way. Well Lush, along with real life, is not like that. If you are unable to argue your point then stick to the inoccuous threads and you won't get upset. <- this isn't mean and hypocritical on your part? You're picking on her.


Now this is what I said to you.

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Oh my god... Shut the hell up. Everyone is different.

Don't listen to them daddysweatheart. You keep doing you.


I was actually defending her from you but I'm the bully?

I guess when it's done to you it's different huh? If you wouldn't have said what you said to her I wouldn't have said what I said to you. Plus the way you responded was confrontational. Don't respond like that If confrontation makes you uncomfortable.

Don't be a hypocrite.
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I was actually defending her from you but I'm the bully?

I guess when it's done to you it's different huh? If you wouldn't have said what you said to her I wouldn't have said what I said to you. Plus the way you responded was confrontational. Don't respond like that If confrontation makes you uncomfortable.

Don't be a hypocrite.

The rules of the Rage Cage are there for all to see. Perhaps the Rage Referee could confirm this, have you met him?
I was not picking on her, I was warning her about criticising others for no good reason.
If you are having a hard time emotionally then you don't visit it on others.
It is quite a metamorphosis for you to play the white knight.
A confrontation with your good self doesn't cause me discomfort, you are merely a minor irritant.