In all truthfulness people always believe that the dom is the boss. The sub is the slave. It could not be more untrue, because it is the sub who is in real control. It might sound duplicitous but it is the truth. This was told to me by a mistress dominatrix madame who was in charge of her own mansion full of both. Intriguing, isn’t it. Let’s talk about it.
This is so true LucyLou. With a cock in your mouth you are definitely in charge. You can make him moan and whimper. You can tickle his hole and make him beg for a finger-bang. If you're good enough, your tongue can enslave him. Hah, now who's the boss?
You can’t have one without the other. The dynamics can shift sometimes but you still need both. They’re both lost on their own.
its so true. A sub / Dom or Domme relationship I just like another relationship its a matter of mutual give and take and especially mutual trust. Too many men especially think that to be a Dom is about JUST being dominant. they forget that its about working together and exploring and setting boundaries and then exploring and expanding them. I have enjoyed being sub to two really skilled and sensitive people. One a Domme and she took me to places and had me do things a would never have even thought of. The other was a Dom and he explored my pain thresholds and made me realise that there is only stimulation. but equally there are days when you are just not in that mood and the Dom/Domme has to know that.
i've posited this opinion for years.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
I'm a fucker/latex fuckdoll.
