It is just fantasy after all. under the True category would be a completely different thing.
Because " " all too often means abuse of family power. Parents pressuring children, older siblings pressuring younger siblings, and so on. Most child abuse also qualifies as " ", since it happens between family members, and abusers have sometimes even gotten off by pleading to a lesser charge of (yes, it is illegal in many constituencies, including here in Canada) rather than being convicted of actual abuse. IOW, hits too close and too deep for many and for them, fantasy simply whitewashes and ignores the much harsher reality.
Personally, I walk a tightrope with the category. I may well write in it someday but it has to be a story that doesn't squick me out, which certain scenarios in that category definitely do.
The bad rep is because in real life people's lives have been shattered and ruined by . This isn't real life, this is fiction, and fantasy, and you could make an argument that fantasy fiction is a way to admit and indulge those urges so no one gets hurt. I'm not judging. But in real life it is terribly destructive (and there I AM judging).
I am not here to argue with anyone on this subject. I will just make this point. All of the below subject matters can and usually do lead to physical pain and or scars. These are not fantasies but things that happen in real life. Many times to people that do not want it to happen. They are left scarred mentally and physically because of it.
I try to write about loving families that take their love to a different level. I also write about married couples or people that just want to have fun and not get hurt.
I do understand that can be forced upon people and it does damage them and the family unit. I feel very bad for all of those that this happens too. I DO NOT condone it in any way.
I am here to write and hope my stories are judged on their merit and not the subject matter. I read all kinds of stories on here and judge them on the writing and the story in general, whether I agree with the topic or not.
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BDSM is convenient 4 letter abbreviation of 6 words - Bondage & Discipline (B&D) Domination & Submission (D&S) Sadism & Masochism (or Sadomasochism) (S&M).
Stories which contain the following, are likely to be found in this hardcore section: gagging, rough sex, choking play, ass-to-mouth, watersports, cum-play, snowballing, anal play, enemas, face-sitting, cbt, fisting, cock beating / face slapping, and other types of sex usually reserved for those who like the more extreme forms of sexual activity.
Mind control sex stories, are those where mind control and even telepathy, is somehow used as part of a sexual act. One of the most commonly used mind control techniques is hypnotizing someone, and then using suggestions to make them perform sexual acts or bring themselves to orgasm while under hypnosis. Characters are often hypnotised into behaving less restrained than they might be in real life. A person may have a secret longing to be used as a sexual plaything, but are unlikely to realise that fantasy unless it was brought out under hypnosis. Another common theme in mind control stories, is turning the hypnotised person into a "people puppet", where the "villain" may use his psychic powers, to manipulate the limbs of his "victim", as if they were a puppet. For example, a person may not wish to be servile to another, but might be forced to kneel down in front of them (and perform various "services"), in a case of mind over matter.
To repeat, its the abuse that accompanies real life incense. Its usually a older or adult exploiting a child, often with violence or mental abuse. The victims are scared. I very well know there are exceptions, connecting adults and all that, but its to easy to cross the line, so just leave it alone.