First Experience in a GAY Sauna

First time for me was in Canberra Australia. I had no idea I just wanted cock to suck and fuck me which also got me into cross-dressing. I thought my chances of getting my ass filled and to suck might be better if I looked as slutty as possible so first time cross dressed and first time in sauna, boy was I right got there 10in the morning and didn't leave until 2 the next morning I don't even know how many cocks I sucked and was fucked dozens of times that day I've never looked back anytime I get the urge I dress up with one thing on my mind..... To be used as a slut fuck toy by anyone and everyone at the club.

Bumping this one up, because I'm starting to work on a story that involves a gay bathhouse/sauna type of establishment, and I want to hear about everyone's experiences. I've been to a number of adult video stores (even sucked a cock at one of them) but never a bathhouse.

Coincidentally, Minneapolis, my neighbor to the north, is holding hearings about re-legalizing them. It's a famously queer-friendly city otherwise, with lots of other gay establishments, but they banned bathhouses early in the HIV crisis for public health reasons. Oddly enough, much smaller Duluth, 150 miles north of Minneapolis, does have one that's been there for decades.

• If you've been to a gay bathhouse or sauna, did you have sexual contact with anyone, or did you just watch?

• If you just watched, did you jerk off while watching? Did you feel like that was encouraged?

• If you had sex with someone, did they approach you, or did you work up the nerve to go up to someone?

• How long were you there? Did it feel like guys were more coming in for a cum fix, or staying for hours, or a mix?

• Did the establishment have multiple spaces (rooms, showers, hot tubs, steam rooms, etc.), and which did you use?

• Did it feel friendly to you as a first time visitor, or did it feel "clubby?"

• If it was your first time, either at a sauna or with a man generally, did it feel like anyone perceived your newness and made an effort to "welcome" you, or did you feel kind of ignored?

• Did you feel like people were being mostly safe, mostly unsafe, or a mix when it comes to unprotected anal sex?

• How did you feel? Was it thrilling? Scary? Empowering? All of the above?

• What was the mix of ages, races, body types, gender expressions, etc.?

• Were the guys mostly cool, or did it feel like there were some creeps there?

OMG, that is a lot of questions. Sorry. Just trying to get an idea of what the vibe is like, so I can write a realistic story. Maybe I'll have to go to one someday.

Quote by joe71

• - If you've been to a gay bathhouse or sauna, did you have sexual contact with anyone, or did you just watch?

• Yes...contact meaning full on sex, plus sucking etc.

• - If you just watched, did you jerk off while watching? Did you feel like that was encouraged?

• Not me, but I don't think it was banned.

• - If you had sex with someone, did they approach you, or did you work up the nerve to go up to someone?

• They approached me, or rather followed me into the shower.

• - How long were you there? Did it feel like guys were more coming in for a cum fix, or staying for hours, or a mix?

• I went a few times, usually I was there for an hour - 90 minutes. The place I used had a gym attached so I generally used that first.

• - Did the establishment have multiple spaces (rooms, showers, hot tubs, steam rooms, etc.), and which did you use?

• Saunas, shower cubicles, hot tubs, a steam room and a gym.

• - Did it feel friendly to you as a first time visitor, or did it feel "clubby?"

• Everywhere is clubby at first, I think you always assume that everyone knows everyone else, but that's not the case. I generally noted that the clientele differed according to the time of day, at least I thought I saw more married guys around late afternoon, younger people tended to use it later in the evening etc.

• - If it was your first time, either at a sauna or with a man generally, did it feel like anyone perceived your newness and made an effort to "welcome" you, or did you feel kind of ignored?

• I just minded my business/observed until I picked up the vibe, just as you would anywhere that's new.

• - Did you feel like people were being mostly safe, mostly unsafe, or a mix when it comes to unprotected anal sex?

• Mostly safe...I had protected and unprotected sex, I don't think anyone forced me to do anything I didn't want to do like going bareback.

• - How did you feel? Was it thrilling? Scary? Empowering? All of the above?

• I loved it, being picked up is a bit scary but that was part of the excitement.

• - What was the mix of ages, races, body types, gender expressions, etc.?

• As I say above I noticed the office worker/married men types in late afternoon and younger guys later in the evening, that was generally when I went. As for body types/race etc, there were all types.

• - Were the guys mostly cool, or did it feel like there were some creeps there?

• Mostly cool, my creep radar tends to kick in so I avoided anyone who made me nervous.