Men 50 And Over...

I will be 66 next month. I first started experiencing an issue about six or seven months ago. I have no problem getting hard and do get hard with many different kinds of stimulation from getting it on with my wife to reading stories and watching videos online to playing around with another guy.

Where my problem comes in is while having sex with my wife, if the foreplay goes on too long without any direct stimulation of my cock, I do not maintain an erection. If I am playing her, sucking her tits or playing with her pussy for several minutes and then she wants penetration (which is not every time anymore) then I may not be hard enough and then have to sort of start again. Then sometimes by the time I am hard enough she has passed the point and is no longer in the mood. All are sort of age related issues.

If I am jacking off, even edging over a longer period of time, if there is somewhat consistent physical stimulation on my cock then I can maintain an erection for quite some time.

I have tried both Viagra and Cialis and find that while both help to retain an erection for a bit longer timeframe, they also have the side-effect of making it more difficult to ejaculate. So, six one and a half dozen of the other. Stay hard longer or cum easier, which do you want.

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I’m mid 50s and no what you mean doesn’t work as well as it used to. But I’m diabetic as well and if my sugar is up my dick isn’t, well at least not without good stimulation and does not stay up as well ether.

I am in the same boat, I have tried Viagra which does work but also gives me a bad headache meaning I have to rush the sex before the headache kicks in. Just bought a cock ring which seemef to do the job on first try - good luck

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There is always Viagra. Let me tell you its a wonderful thing. You can have an erection for 4 hours. Not a bad thing. Giggles.

xo

SADLY, Viagra does not work for all ED causes/cases

Up dating five years later. Morning wood still happens, tho not every morning. Ejaculations can still be plentiful, but Im not pursuing them as often. Practice at Tantra with a few partners and alone has recovered my old ability to orgasm without ejaculation. I can multiple orgasm with my female partners again. Sometimes I never get around to ejaculation, but am well satisfied anyway after several peaks of intense pleasure. Still using the Silnandifil at 20-60mg depending on the mood & partner.

I still masturbate but I now need to spend more time working my cock up hard and often I don’t get real rock hard till just before I cum. I take Viagra (Cialis) some times for fun. Viagra doesn’t give me an erection, I still need to work myself up with cock play, thinking of sex, or porn. But with Viagra I get iron bar erections like when I was 18 and after I’ve shot one I’m still mostly up hard able to shoot another one much sooner than without Viagra.

As I've gone over 50, I find I have quite a bit of sex left in me. My wife menopaused and she told me to get up with a guy. A guy much younger than me invited me to his place and he ended up fucking me. My cock wasn't working as well as it had a few years prior. But he told me after we had a few dates that he really wanted me to fuck him. I was getting it up, but I was cumming in seconds. I got on some meds and now I give him a good 10 minutes every time! In fact, he's going to make a booty call this week!

60 looms here. I can still get hard, both with stimulation and spontaneously. I do wake up in the night with a boner now and then. Does not happen as often anymore, though. Part of that is my libido has dropped quite a bit (though I can still be a randy guy now and then). ED? Probably somewhat. Have not been with a partner in so long, not sure how the little guy would respond to company at this point.

I started taking Cialis like 1-2 times a week, that stuff lasts for a couple days for me. My wife and fuck buddy appreciate it

I'm 54 and I've been having some of the best sex of my life in recent years. I keep Viagra close by. I had all but given up on sex until I met a young man in his late 20s begging me to fuck his cherry ass. I was saying no until he got on the edge of my futon on his knees and asked me if I really didn't want it. I actually became erect like a 20-year-old would. Without aid from a pill. But I take the pill for value during the act. I've actually be stroking and just gone limp. With the pill, I'm good for 10 minutes. At my age, that's a long time. But with a continued erection, I can get up in him again for another go at it.

As an alternative to pills or shots, you can try a male (hollow) strapon. FYI, there is a male strapon group on Lush.

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As an alternative to pills or shots, you can try a male (hollow) strapon. FYI, there is a male strapon group on Lush.

But wouldn't that remove even more sensation than wearing a condom? I'll stick with the Cialis option and an amazingly randy partner.

I'm 74 and I masturbate almost every day to orgasm and on some days I do it twice. I eat good fuck foods like walnuts and pumpkin seeds and bananas. Sometimes I take vitamin E and zinc -this helps me make nice loads and lots of precum. I like to edge to porn for a half hour or so, then I shut the computer and lube with some nice jojoba oil. I can still have some fucking amazing orgasms...........

Mid-late fifties and over the past decade I don’t always get hard like I used to. Sometimes when I jerk off, I’m not fully rigid, but still cum just fine.

I tried viagra a couple of times, years ago. Didn’t seem to make much difference, but maybe worth trying again.

I think that when I do finally seek a male sexual partner (as looks increasingly likely before I turn 60, though I can’t elaborate right now), I’d want to l to find a fellow aging guy who’s patient and tolerant about that kind of thing, as I know I will be. As long as we can jerk and suck each other off, I’ll be thrilled.

That said, it’s intermittent. I still OFTEN get hard as a rock. Apropos to this being the LGBTQ+ forum, this happens most often when I’m watching bi/gay porn or thinking about man-man action. I’ll always be Bi, but maybe I’m getting gayer with age, which I’m totally fine with. In other words, I may still be able to top you.

Sad to say that my wife's sexual activity dramatically declined a number of years ago and along with that, so did my activity. I have found as a result that I often cannot get it up as long as it takes to finish. I also find that I seem to go through cycles where I can still get pretty hard and others, I don't get as hard as I would like. I think it is a function of age but I have to say I was really disappointed when I finally got my wife in the mood after a long spell of inactivity and I wasn't able to finish to ejaculation! Needless to say, I'm speaking to my doc about what we can do in this department and I'm hopeful as I do keep myself in relatively good shape for my age. At least for now though, I know my tongue still works really well and my favorite position has always been with my face between her thighs anyhow, gotta love the sight, sounds, smell and taste of oral!

So, a bi-married guy I fuck had a rare week alone at home. Throughout the week, I've been stopping by and filling his gap. But what was even more rare was that I had my house alone for the weekend. So, he came over about 1 PM Saturday afternoon. I was prepped on Viagra and waiting. My erection lasted a few hours. During that time, I managed to breed him three times between blow jobs. We had a festive evening by the pool, grilling steaks, having beer. The sex was finished for the day. There were several naps and finally, a long night of sleep. I woke early with a piss cock. And there was his ass... I fondled him until he woke and turn it up for me. By the end of that fuck, I was lying on top of him and I fell asleep still in his ass. Later after we were finally awake, he made stacks of pancakes and sausage on the Blackstone and after breakfast, he let me suck his huge cock and he fucked me. That was his way of thanking me for the wonderful week. I'm 54. After he left, I fell in the recliner and didn't move for hours!

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So, a bi-married guy I fuck had a rare week alone at home. Throughout the week, I've been stopping by and filling his gap. But what was even more rare was that I had my house alone for the weekend. So, he came over about 1 PM Saturday afternoon. I was prepped on Viagra and waiting. My erection lasted a few hours. During that time, I managed to breed him three times between blow jobs. We had a festive evening by the pool, grilling steaks, having beer. The sex was finished for the day. There were several naps and finally, a long night of sleep. I woke early with a piss cock. And there was his ass... I fondled him until he woke and turn it up for me. By the end of that fuck, I was lying on top of him and I fell asleep still in his ass. Later after we were finally awake, he made stacks of pancakes and sausage on the Blackstone and after breakfast, he let me suck his huge cock and he fucked me. That was his way of thanking me for the wonderful week. I'm 54. After he left, I fell in the recliner and didn't move for hours!

Awesome, I’d be over the moon. Sounds like an amazing week and cum filled weekend of debauchery. Lucky horny guys!

I just turned 60 and I've never had a problem with getting an erection. I can rub my hands over my wife's body for a couple minutes and be hard as a rock. And, every morning I wake up with a stiff kickstand. My problem is injury-induced peyronies. After two unintentional pull-out errors a couple years ago, I developed a slight right lateral bend and an acute vertical/downward bend. I've been working with pumps, massage, gua sha, and vitamins/minerals ever since with some promising improvements. I'm thankful especially that I haven't had any pain associated with the peyronies, which is common, and I continue to have strong nocturnal erections and sensory-induced erections from playing with my wife.

I know you don’t want to hear this, but you might want to look into semen retention. Man above 50 should only ejaculate once a month. Twice at the most.

The problem is, men lose a shit ton of energy when they ejaculate, that is self evident. And it gets more pronounced as we get older. If we’re constantly ejaculating, we’re just blowing all of our life force out of our dicks, all that wonderful healing energy is being lost. It isn’t until you start practising retention that you realize just how draining ejaculation is. Whether you realize it or not, it actually takes days to recover from an ejaculation, and I’m not just talking about getting your dick hard again. I’m talking about recovering that precious healing energy that the Chinese call Jing.

I still masturbate every day, but I only ejaculate once or twice a month. My erections have improved wholesale, hard and solid for as long as I want.

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Man above 50 should only ejaculate once a month. Twice at the most. The problem is, men lose a shit ton of energy when they ejaculate, that is self evident. And it gets more pronounced as we get older. If we’re constantly ejaculating, we’re just blowing all of our life force out of our dicks, all that wonderful healing energy is being lost.

And you’re making this proclamation at age 35. You know what I’ve noticed, being actually over 50? Life is full of people who overgeneralize and extrapolate from their own experiences and tell others what to do.

What medical evidence actually suggests is that "use it or lose it" applies, and that frequent ejaculation may be better for long-term erectile health than infrequent. We do NOT have a fixed reserve of "Life force" (as you put it) in our balls and prostate that is depleted every tune we ejaculate. Now, I'm NOT going to tell you what to do, so if you want to keep edging and retaining, feel free. It's your body. Meantime I'll keep jerking it daily.

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"Well, I, uh I, I first became aware of it, Mandrake, during the physical act of love. Yes, a profound sense of fatigue, a feeling of emptiness followed. Luckily, I was able to interpret these feelings correctly. Loss of essence."

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You must own stock in a company that collects semen samples or something, because you’re quite defensive about jizzing all over the place. I’m also gonna guess you’ve never been to an acupuncturist or practice any kind of meditation. If you did, you would know without question that there is an internal energy inside the human body. You would also know that a lot of of it does indeed get lost through ejaculation. It’s not negotiable. Tantric sex came out of ancient China, thousands of years ago as a form of medicine.

Do you know it was actually Muhammad Ali who famously said that he would never cum before a fight, because if he did he would lose

For the record, I’m actually 51, I may have fibbed on my age a little bit

FYI, there are two relevant groups in Lush to this Forum.

1) Impotent and ED (which sounds redundant)

2) Male strapon.

Also, FYI, there is a product, Tenuto, supposedly developed by doctors that is supposed to help.

My wife finds this purple guy very satisfying. (There is a reason it is a best seller at Adam and Eve).

So, we just had a very rainy week and there are several buddies that always say, "Let's do that on a rainy day!" Well, Wednesday morning we did! A married gay couple were staying in a hotel a few nights and Wednesday morning, several guy, including me, made a visit to their room and we had a wonderful orgy. The youngest man was 53. We all timed our Viagra to be in full effect when we arrived. There were 8 of us total, on a king size bed with a large corner sofa.

Just turned 60 in September and I have no problem in the sexual portion. Just beware ladies, I never got the operation, so my seed is alive and willing to the right gal (age does not matter)!