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Ur Opinion On the Frot Movement

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HotBttmInBriefs
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This may be too heavy for the LGBT forum but just been wondering lately what others might think on the Frot Movement.

They have a website where you can look more:

http://man2manalliance.org/

Basically it is a movement that only advocates that gay men should practice frottage in the bedroom and denounce anal sex as it feminizes a man.

This is a statement from their website:

"Further, anal penetration subjugates one of the participants to the other, effectively emasculating him, turning him into a pseudo-woman, a proxy in a heterosexualized form of contact. This is an inherently unequal act, epitomized by its tedious terminology of "tops" and "bottoms," which is unmindful of the basic human need for a shared experience without pain and with dignity."

Personally I love frottage as part of sex between 2 men, but can't get with what they are saying about anal. I think it all boils down to the person. It might do that to some people who might have problems with self-confidence, etc. And that person should work on that, but I have never felt like a pseudo-woman just because I have bent over and took it up the ass.

Ur thoughts?
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So, basically, gay men who don't like anal are trying to rationalize it with an ideology that says no gay men should like anal?
dpw
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I have never felt like a pseudo-woman just because I have bent over and took it up the ass.

Ur thoughts?

Well to be honest my thoughts at this moment are of you bending over and being right behind you!
As for frottage, it doesn't do a lot for me except in forplay.
As far as feminization well that's crap, it's never happened to anyone I slept with. None of the hairy macho guys that I've fucked have rushed out and bought make up. Some guys like to be fucked, some like to fuck, some like both and some like neither.
Gay men ought to have more sense than to start preaching what others should or shouldn't be doing!
dpw
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BTW what did the first sentence mean? Are you calling me an airhead? Shame on you!
CliffordAClavin
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Guess I've never frotted so I won't say anything negative. The fact that I enjoy "bottoming" with my wife from time to time, as well as topping her most of the time doesn't make her more masculine or me more femalinine. I'm versitile with my male partners too, despite prefering bottoming, and again, see this having nothing to do with masculinity or femininity.

Of course the lgbt community has always struggled to figure out where us bi guys belong. We pose a number of inconviences when it comes to categorization. So what's new?
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It just sounds like total macho BS to me but then I like straight, bi and gay men who like my strap on collection so......I think to each their own as far as sexual practice preferences go.
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It just sounds like total macho BS to me but then I like straight, bi and gay men who like my strap on collection so......I think to each their own as far as sexual practice preferences go.

Whoah back up there a bit Bunny!
You've got GAY men who like your strap-on? Why? Aren't there enough cocks to go round where you live?
Are all the gay guys passive, not enough tops? If that's the case can I come for a holiday and treat them to the real thing, show them what they're missing!
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Whoah back up there a bit Bunny!
You've got GAY men who like your strap-on? Why? Aren't there enough cocks to go round where you live?
Are all the gay guys passive, not enough tops? If that's the case can I come for a holiday and treat them to the real thing, show them what they're missing!

No one but you can irritate the crap out of me 1 second & laugh the next.

*back on Track*
It seems a bit weird but I will never judge anyone based on what they like in the bedroom so long as it's legal.
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No one but you can irritate the crap out of me 1 second & laugh the next.

Haha, don't you just love those mixed emotions. As long as the last thing is making you laugh then I'm happy.
How's demisexual world? I'm going to put a comment in that thread but it will be serious.
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Quote by CliffordAClavin
Guess I've never frotted so I won't say anything negative. The fact that I enjoy "bottoming" with my wife from time to time, as well as topping her most of the time doesn't make her more masculine or me more femalinine. I'm versitile with my male partners too, despite prefering bottoming, and again, see this having nothing to do with masculinity or femininity.

Of course the lgbt community has always struggled to figure out where us bi guys belong. We pose a number of inconviences when it comes to categorization. So what's new?

Can you imagine me frotting? I already rub enough people up the wrong way without adding to them!
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It's BS in my book, with me and my best friend back in the day, frottage was cool , but we were definitely hitting the male g-spot during sex.
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Frottage (rubbing cocks together) is a thrill if you both have really stiff cocks. Best if you sensitise your cocks with foreplay before so the cock-to-cock friction takes you to cum. I find usually one cock cums first and the other needs a tug off. Its nice to have cocks together parallel and one partner stroking both.
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Sounds like a load of crap to me. It only feminizes you if you think if feminizes you. I know plenty of gay men, most of whom are plenty masculine, and I've never heard of them avoiding anal sex for this reason.

As for a "frot movement," I'm all for one as long as it doesn't exclude other things! Frotting is awesome!

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Frottage (rubbing cocks together) is a thrill if you both have really stiff cocks. Best if you sensitise your cocks with foreplay before so the cock-to-cock friction takes you to cum. I find usually one cock cums first and the other needs a tug off. Its nice to have cocks together parallel and one partner stroking both.

And once the first guy cums, you're all slicked up, increasing the pleasure especially for the guy who hasn't cum yet.