I guess it is possible, but I couldn't. My definition of love maybe different than other peoples. The thing about falling for someone on Lush is that there is never a complete trust. Someone can tell you they love you, yet have sexual talks with other people at the same time, and to me that is not love. I believe that you can find someone that can fill a void in your life, and give you the attention you desire, but still its not love. My reply may not be welcomed, I lost a dear friend on Lush because of it. He was/is too blind to see the writing on the wall, but we are all supposed to be adults yet we throw the word love around like a deflated football. smh
I do think that if you were compatible with each other and happy there is always a possiblity of falling in love with someone on lush.
No you can't people lie you don't really know anyone here they are just a picture some are not even of themselves they just copy and paste or in some people's case snip and clip. I know for a fact that there was one person in particular that was a bold face liar was pretending to be someone they weren't. I could quote them and out them out right here because they did post on this thread but I won't. If you are interested or just curious just message me but you might find out when you read my profile. They were caught and have since left Lush but not after they hurt a lot of people not just here but in their personal life as well. So no you can't fall in love here on Lush you may fall in lust but not love. Me for one I want to know, see, meet a person before I give my heart to them and even then people can fool you so why not as a made up person who feels everyone is made up? You might say I'm not a romantic on the contrary I am but as far as falling in love on Lush or Face Book for that matter I don't believe anyone can and if you do it's very rare and I hope the best for you. As I've told people before if it sounds too good to be true then it is you are being played a fool and your feelings are being toyed with.
As is life, you get what you ask for. But be careful, showing your emotions. I have said a thousand times, "without common sense and logic," one is a pawn.
yes, absolutely people can and do.
I am very reticent to throw that word around. The other issue for me is that I am not really a cyber person. My feet are firmly planted in the 20th century. Like Bruce Springsteen says, "I need a little of that human touch". I have every once in a while felt a certain vibe on Lush from a few friends that I think have the potential under different circumstances to be something like that.
Definitely yes! And I'll NEVER let it happen again! Love on Lush hurts...
Caution is wise. One of the things about Lush I may never understand are these Lush relationships. I just don't get it. If you live thousands of miles away, what is the point? If you have never met face to face, isn't being friends better? It almost seems to encourage possessiveness, which is a big negative for me.
I live in a real world, of truth, lies, and where fantasy balloons leak. One has to believe in something. I choose to trust myself. I got over Santa Claus and Cinderella at an early age and tend to scribble a fantasy world without inheriting a make believe ego. I have a few 'online acquaintances,' but love is reserved for my family. I'm not a swamp person.
I've heard people do fall in love on lush--and I'm glad they do.
I think it is possible to fall in love on lush in its various forms and with all that it has to offer. The bold, the beautiful and the not so beautiful situations and instances.
Still, people take a plunge in it for an experience that they might never had before in their lives. Just like our rl, Lush gives us love, friendships and relationships that has the potentiality to last a lifetime.
It is just a matter of choice and the decisive factor that comes into play. Falling in love on lush? It is possible, yes, but at the same time is it possible for every relationship to be considered taken outside the realm of Lush? No it is not.
I am so sorry for what you went through Ivanka I can't imagine having been lied to like that so heartless but if you read my bio you'll find out that your lushgirl/boy wasn't the only one here playing around with people pretending to be the opposite sex. I was lied to by my husband and it hurts a lot.
I know what you mean about a lot of people only wanting to cyber with you it's nice to find someone that just wants to talk because they find you interesting and just want to get to know you no sex just chatting like real people; but this is a sex site and people want to live out their fantasies. That's all good and well but don't play with people's emotions.
As for falling in love as I stated before I think people fall in lust here not love if it's any indication from what my husband's actions and what he tells me is true. He used people women especially for his own fantasies and pleasure; I just take everything with caution and don't and won't get attached.
I have had strong feelings for a couple of women on lush. But I realize I might be in love with the image and the shared interests.
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i think when you make a emotional connection, yes falling in love usually follows , thats my opinion..Made a few mistakes, but I am in Love..
