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Do people really fall in love on lush?

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Quote by Milik_Redman
Why fall in love on Lush?

Because we come here for the nourishment of our bodies, minds and souls. That's what erotica is. Desire walks hand in hand with Arousal. They whisper hedonistic words to our minds that are best heard without the chattering annoyance of regret or inhibition.

These twins though can only whet our appetite. Without another, they will only leave us feeling empty and alone. So we add their sister, the Sensuality of promise. The undying hope of connection with another that allows the energy of our souls to combine and mingle. With Desire, Arousal and Sensuality singing songs of life and and the promise of fulfillment we become trusting and open to the one thing that can fill the void and make us whole. Love is the song they sing and it's chords ripple through our minds and our hearts and our souls.

When the song ends, we feel the cold winds of loneliness again, but we must remember always that the only shelter against that darkness is to once again hear the song played by those three muses.


Beautifully said Milik; you do have a way with words.
AltaBrwnSgr
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Quote by Milik_Redman
Why fall in love on Lush?

Because we come here for the nourishment of our bodies, minds and souls. That's what erotica is. Desire walks hand in hand with Arousal. They whisper hedonistic words to our minds that are best heard without the chattering annoyance of regret or inhibition.

These twins though can only whet our appetite. Without another, they will only leave us feeling empty and alone. So we add their sister, the Sensuality of promise. The undying hope of connection with another that allows the energy of our souls to combine and mingle. With Desire, Arousal and Sensuality singing songs of life and and the promise of fulfillment we become trusting and open to the one thing that can fill the void and make us whole. Love is the song they sing and it's chords ripple through our minds and our hearts and our souls.

When the song ends, we feel the cold winds of loneliness again, but we must remember always that the only shelter against that darkness is to once again hear the song played by those three muses.


Beautifully stated!
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Of course!!!

For me the strong emotional connection has to be there or the physical connection will not be (or will fade quickly).

Lush is a great place to meet like minded people and develop these friendships. We open our minds and hearts to each other here. The mind and heart is where love resides.

I have met some on Lush that I feel a strong connection with, both sexually and non. Some of these friendships have been taken off of Lush and spilled into my real life. These friendships I feel are real. Just because we met on a sex site doesn't mean we don't have real genuine feelings for each other (sexual or non).

Is it love? Maybe ;)
kitty40
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Can it happen? Yes. Happened to me, but of course its easy to make someone fall for you when you are good with lies and bullshit. I knew better and still did it.
Libertine3
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I think people need to feel appreciated and desired. It's probably not love, but we crave it anyway
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A big resounding yes!!!!!
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sounds like a funny question , umm i don't know may be yes for some people , who become serious about their hook-ups rather than hooking up with new persons every next weekends or possibly next day.
who knows really
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Yes but falls out or stop loving even faster.

Time on here goes by so fast.

Hard for survival..

Especially if one partner does not forgive.

Among other things.
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Yeah, they do! Why is it fascinating to you? smile This is not some sex-seeking site This is an erotic site, pretty much like an art! People do like to live up their fantasies, and they do find their right partners! If you've just found lust here, then I'd say you haven't known lush properly Almost everyone here might have a crush at someone, don't you? We want them as their life-partners! This is pretty much real and I'd prefer this site over other social-networking pages
prairiedogg
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I believe that people can and do fall in cyber love here. When they exchange photos, phone numbers and agree to meet is when I would say that it has a chance to blossom into the real thing.
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It's easy to fall out when you judged or looked down upon or viewed only as a sex object.

Or when the other partner is passive aggressive, uncaring to your feelings or your behavior.

Or when you're discarded easily. When they only want to point the finger and not look at their own behavior or understand why your behavior is the way it is.
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In my experience, absolutely yes. When you find that connection with that special someone and it filters into your real life then it can be magical. Lush is an amazing place for fantasy, cyber and lust, which some people confuse with love but it can also lead to the most beautiful relationships.
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I personally don't think so. I may develop a perverse sort of fondness for folks around here but no, not love. Love is too big for the internet. Sue me for being archaic.x
LASARDaddy
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Of course.

It's a very safe place to learn about another. If you keep yourself protected and NEVER give any identifying data out. Read everything they write, all forum comments and stories you can learn a lot.

If they never post or write I think I'd back away very quickly, if I were female. The odds of a female stalking old farts like me are extremely low. For the males stalking females it's VERY high.

Take time to talk. Learn about one another but, again, look for real consistency in their responses. First you like them, then you trust them, then everything else can come from that. It all starts with trust and if you can't build that higher over time then run away because it's not right. Something is wrong.

Just be smart and DO NOT let your ego or your "Need" talk you into some stupid thing. Those are what are called serial killers and rapists if it's the dominate ones or victims for the ones they do that to.

I never ask for friends. I put what's "Me" out and wait patiently for someone to like what they see. I don't know. Why I do that but that's exactly how I've lived my entire life. I do not like to push anyone. You want to or you don't. NO is a very big word in my vocabulary. I'll only allow so much when I'm pushed though and both heels dig in and I will not move from that point.

Gandhi is a hero of mine. He said, "No one can hurt me." and they never did. They killed him but they never got inside him and hurt him. He also said, "First they ignore you, then they fight you, then you win." That's how I've lived.

Be strong but allow softness.

I've met several here who I could love easily, after we built all that trust. One has risen very high up that scale but we can't do anything. I will not do ANYTHING until my wife doesn't remember who I am and she knows that and accepts it.

So, yeah, I think you can fall in love here.
I am always a gentleman.
prairiedogg
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Well put, LASARDaddy. One can never be too careful on the web. I guess that caution is the operative word. It applies not only to what you put out there for all to see, but also to how one should tread when entering an online affair.
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I don't like being pushed either LASARDaddy..

I will bare my fangs and my claws when cornered.


I love your wisdom. Hugs....smiles

Thank you.



One shouldn't give out their personal info..even though I have on more than one occasion.
simplyjohn
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I'm not convinced .. this question reminds me of the old days when people were pen pals actually and I suppose some of those felt that there were in love simply through exchanging letters and perhaps the odd photograph .. not much different to here really .. so much for technology.
Kiera
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Quote by simplyjohn
I'm not convinced .. this question reminds me of the old days when people were pen pals actually and I suppose some of those felt that there were in love simply through exchanging letters and perhaps the odd photograph .. not much different to here really .. so much for technology.


WTF you said you loved me, you said you'd never felt this way about anyone before, im so pouting right now you've broken my heart
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LASARDaddy
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It's the women that have to worry really. For the guys here it's easy. Besides, when you get old who wants to pursue you? It's all pretty much just in my mind now. I try to pass on what I've learned so others may not have to trip over the same rocks.

I am a handy man, I fix broken hearts. I think James Taylor sang a song about that in the seventies. It struck me as a good idea.
I am always a gentleman.
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this is the worst place to look. I don't recommend it at all.
Dirty_D
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Quote by daddysweetheart
this is the worst place to look. I don't recommend it at all.


So, you've decided on this page alone that yes you can find love, maybe you can find love, you should be cautious about it, and that it's an awful idea? Gee can't wait for more of this continuing soap opera <- written in my best sarcasm font.
VanGogh
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Quote by Dirty_D
So, you've decided on this page alone that yes you can find love, maybe you can find love, you should be cautious about it, and that it's an awful idea? Gee can't wait for more of this continuing soap opera <- written in my best sarcasm font.


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Quote by Dirty_D


So, you've decided on this page alone that yes you can find love, maybe you can find love, you should be cautious about it, and that it's an awful idea? Gee can't wait for more of this continuing soap opera <- written in my best sarcasm font.


Yes!!!

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Anything is possible, so suresmile I've recently met a person on here, I'd Love to meet in person, for some Hottt Sexxxy Fun:)
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We all do. But when it happens, we have to start assessing it future-wise. While some people strictly keep it online and are happy with it, there are also some like me who would like to meet that person in real life and see if we would be compatible.
Lickalotofpusp
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I think there was a time I would have said no and then it happens, I would have said that its more lust than love but my heart has said bullshit. If its not love then when you feel betrayed why does it hurt so bad.
dpw
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Quote by HeraTeleia
Call me cynical, call me guarded, but no, I don't believe that one can find love, per se, on Lush. Lust, maybe. Maybe.

I agree and disagree with you, lol.
You and I couldn't, probably both too wary. Yet, I suppose people with a different mindset could "fall in love", or at least think that they have.
ToshLoveCC
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No, it's lust mimicking love in MOST cases. Especially with the nature of this site, you're simply "in love" with an online profile that may or may not be telling the truth.

It could happen, but the chance of it being legitimate love to act upon is debatable. We all have a bond with people we interact with, whether online or in person, but I call if someone said they were "in love."