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Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?

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does being shut out count?
Haven't we all ??
Yes I have and it is a blessing and a curse. There is no finer double edged sword in the world as love.
Yes I have and it is hard. What makes it harder is when they love you back. You know that this person means the absolute world to you and you to them yet this is not the person you wake up next to each day no matter how much you want that to be the reality. It hurts even more to know that it never will be your reality. It hurts that you are the secret.... You are the lie and at the end of it all you will lose him. He will never chose me.

And all the while I continue on... I push forward because for the first time in a very very long time I feel again. I feel alive and loved and happy and more than anything don't want to lose him.

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Yes I have and it is hard. What makes it harder is when they love you back. You know that this person means the absolute world to you and you to them yet this is not the person you wake up next to each day no matter how much you want that to be the reality. It hurts even more to know that it never will be your reality. It hurts that you are the secret.... You are the lie and at the end of it all you will lose him. He will never chose me.

And all the while I continue on... I push forward because for the first time in a very very long time I feel again. I feel alive and loved and happy and more than anything don't want to lose him.


Well said...!!
Unfortunately I have been there before and am there again now. Cant seem to move on but nothing for me now! I just cant figure out how to let go.
yes unfortunately too bad polygamy is against the law
yes i have.. but i moved on..
Yes it hurts to see him most days...
Had him, lost him, love him, and always will, devastated and destroyed. Trying to work through it, but it's difficult.
yes, and after spending the last 4+ years trying to move past her, i've come to believe i'm never going to.
Scarlet Johanson comes to mind.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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Scarlet Johanson comes to mind.


I'm glad you're finally over me as well. I can finally sleep with my bedroom door unlocked and window open.
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I'm glad you're finally over me as well. I can finally sleep with my bedroom door unlocked and window open.


Good. It'll make it easier for me to sneak in and sniff your underwear when you're asleep.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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Good. It'll make it easier for me to sneak in and sniff your underwear when you're asleep.


I do my laundry everyday so I think I'm safe there. I do usually sleep with just sheets though. If you're extra careful, the possibilities are endless. Just don't let me catch you, restraining orders are an ugly ordeal.
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I do my laundry everyday so I think I'm safe there. I do usually sleep with just sheets though. If you're extra careful, the possibilities are endless. Just don't let me catch you, restraining orders are an ugly ordeal.


Sometimes, when you're at work, I like to lay my head on your pillow and imagine that it's your bare chest. Then I pee on it to mark my territory.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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Sometimes, when you're at work, I like to lay my head on your pillow and imagine that it's your bare chest. Then I pee on it to mark my territory.


It must be just a quick spritz because I honestly don't notice it. Unexplained blonde hairs have gotten me in a jam once or twice but nothing I can't wiggle out of.
yes and it hurts so bad even right now. Advice- don't ever fall in love with someone you can't have.
Yes I have and am still in love with her
Haven't we all.... and still... sighs..
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yes and it hurts so bad even right now. Advice- don't ever fall in love with someone you can't have.
Good advice.... when you know that right from the beginning. We didn't and that lead to a lot of pain. We even cut each other out of our lives for a while, but she'll be in my heart forever.
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Hey... pssst.... that's an l (as in luscious) at the end of my name, not an i
Yes and the really bad part is you never ever learn the things that might have been reason to spilt up. Only the love so no you never get over it
Been there done that. Heart has scars to prove it.
yes, she said 'nothing lasts forever' but, it seems it's going to last forever at least with me.
I have and it caused deep scars.
I have and it caused deep scars.
Yes..I will never get over him...