Quote by Magical_felix
I am not too sure what his status means. Like others said, he could be someone that rarely checks and just hasn't realized to change it or he could have met someone right after your date and just had some instant connection and they banged that night and have been together since. That's happened to me before and some women will just be like, "we fucked, and I'm not going anywhere". It happens.
What I replied to this thread to say though is this. A lot of girls don't realize this because they do it so much that they think it's just like whatever... When a guy meets a girl and you set up a first date (or an early second or third date) and she cancels on you only to later change her mind and say she can go it is a red flag to us. Or maybe I should say for me... But when girls do this it makes me wonder if they aren't just playing around and seeing which dude offers up the best date on a saturday night. I'd be thinking, how is someone not sure if they can or can't go out saturday? It's not like she's working... So I think, she's either got another date possibly in the works or she has annoying ass friends that guilt trip her when she can't go out with the girls. Both are pretty annoying and makes me not take a girl seriously. I will still go out with her when she finally is able to figure out when she's free but she has to be pretty awesome for me to then feel I am going to be competing for this chick. So I just wanted to say that this type of thing really early on will hurt your chances of getting with a dude you really like.
Or they really are working, and then get called off.
