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Our perception on Lush - how we are perceived here ?

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Haha I aspire to be cool enough to get away with saying something like that.
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You are that cool.


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I think perceptions change with time. We all come on here very timid and unsure of what we really want to share. Then as time goes on we open up and find we can go beyond our RL personas. We can get down and dirty and filthy if we choose to, because no-one will ever know in the real world. Some people go the other way because the real persona would scare everyone. I am a firm believer that given enough time, everyone will let their deep down dark self come through.

Remember to check out a few of my stories. You can find them here.

https://www.lushstories.com/profile/Jimwillhavefun/stories


For those who like a change and prefer something a little more PG, check out my stories on Storiespace.
https://www.storiesspace.com/profile/Jimwillhavefun/stories

This thread was just recommended to me by a friend. I had noticed it but thought it had to do with how our family and friends perceive us because we are active on Lush. I see now that I was in error about that.

I think the close, kind friends I have here love me dearly. I think the ones who are friendly, but not close, think I am dependable and worth knowing. I think the mods perceive me as "not too much trouble." I think my followers think of me as someone whose work is dependable and worth checking out. I think the majority of those who look into me on my profile are agreed that I must have brought something worthwhile to the site since I'm lucky enough to have earned so many badges that display what I have done around here. And the ones who are closest (and they are fully aware of whom they are) know that I will love them faithfully and fully for as long as I am able.
I'm perceived as something that I'm not. Just someone who wants to write, without having to play footsies. Neither gifted or polished, I just write. I quit playing patty-cake as a child.
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I'm perceived as something that I'm not. Just someone who wants to write, without having to play footsies. Neither gifted or polished, I just write. I quit playing patty-cake as a child.


My perception of you has been that you owned and operated a chain of boiled peanut stands across the South, and that you were franchising those out, and possibly selling voodoo trinkets under the table along with Mason jars full of homemade apple brandy.
I also sold shadows to people without one
LillyLush wrote:
I think its interesting to know how we are perceived here at Lush as compared to our real lives.

Me, I wrote: I'm no good at self-analysis and even worse at coming up with insight on the opinions others may have about me.

Maybe the best clue to what others think about me came on another site where someone wrote: We love him like an old dog curled up in a corner and farting in his sleep.

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My perception of you has been that you owned and operated a chain of boiled peanut stands across the South, and that you were franchising those out, and possibly selling voodoo trinkets under the table along with Mason jars full of homemade apple brandy.


Holy shit! I was thinking the same thing
The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker

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I am not defined by other people’s perceptions here. The people in my RL know who I am and that is all that matters. I have nothing to prove to anyone here so why would anyone worry about what others think.
Let the haters hate lol ... Live your life and be happy, always.
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LillyLush wrote:
I think its interesting to know how we are perceived here at Lush as compared to our real lives.

Me, I wrote: I'm no good at self-analysis and even worse at coming up with insight on the opinions others may have about me.

Maybe the best clue to what others think about me came on another site where someone wrote: We love him like an old dog curled up in a corner and farting in his sleep.





"We love him like an old dog curled up in a corner and farting him his sleep."

I think I might want that written on my tombstone.
Whew, that is a loaded question. I hope I'm perceived as level headed and fair but probably not. lol



When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
Wow, what a difficult question to answer without being considered arrogant, conceited or fishing for compliments. To be honest, I have no idea how am perceived here on Lush, but assuming the comments I receive on my stories are an accurate indication, then I seem to be regarded as an adequate storyteller, which is fine by me.
How others perceive me here or anywhere is none of my business. Obviously, I share a little more of my thoughts on here than I'm comfortable with in my real life but I am me. If people like me that's great. If not then I guess it's not much loss for either of us
Mostly dark and too wordy.
Most of you think of me a slut, but I'm your loving bitch... yeah that one hehe
Good question! I'd love to know, but I'm afraid to find out! Why don't you all write and tell me!
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Good question! I'd love to know, but I'm afraid to find out! Why don't you all write and tell me!


I think members would like to know how YOU feel about your perception here... there is no need to be shy smile
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
I have no idea. My friends seem to like me and that's enough for me.
As a newbie here, I shall strive to be the same person here, that I am in real life; bold, confident and brutally honest. It shall be up to you to perceive me as you will.
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As a newbie here, I shall strive to be the same person here, that I am in real life; bold, confident and brutally honest. It shall be up to you to perceive me as you will.


That seems a pretty smart response... but as you spend more time here, your mood, interests, needs etc. change and you develop some curiosities, concerns which makes you conscience and mindful of so many aspects including members... so it would really be interesting to read your "brutally honest" posts here after about three months... smile
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
What I'm like on here is basically what I am like in real life.
I'm cheeky, open and honest and loyal. When I was first introduce to lush I was a bit apprehensive and shy but I soon found my feet on here.
If people see me anything other than the above then that's entirely up to them.
I'm sure different people have different perceptions of me on here. Some I engage with as a mod hopefully perceive me as being helpful. Others may read my stories and perceive me as being... well... Everyone is entitled to an opinion, whether that bothers me or not depends on my own perception of that person.
I think some perceive me as having a dark personality. Nothing could be farther from reality. Some may think I am to judgemental. I can sleep at night, knowing that. I am what I am, and have no aspirations of being a celebrity.
Me? Quiet, shy, naïve, with an almost virgin-like innocence.
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Me? Quiet, shy, naïve, with an almost virgin-like innocence.



Screen cleaner... where did I put the screen cleaner.....?
More than likely, I am viewed as immature, childish and very unstable which I most certainly was up till recently.

Also viewed as a surrogate account of another user to most.