I'm from the Grim Reaper generation, so safety first. I always used condoms until I was in a monogamous relationship and we both got tested.
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill. Being Wills age I guess I am too, I have always been cautious and so should everyone else. The pill only protects you from pregnancy not the multitude of STD's that are out there. So yes I agree with Will safety first always.
My becoming single again was so traumatic that my desperate need for sex seemed to overwhelm my good sense when it came to sexual health. Thank goodness I neither received nor shared around anything dangerous. I was incredibly embarrassed the first time I was tested, but now it is a regular part of my regimen, even if my sex life has not been particularly active. I always carry condoms, I douche regularly, and I avoid men who might be a risk. I am still on the pill, but am at that age where menopause will soon solve that particular problem. I have birth control back-ups too.
i was a teen in the 90s and had safe sex drilled into my head. honestly, i'm VERY thankful for that. being safe isn't something i take lightly.
I'm in a small circle of FWB's, and we don't screw outside the group, so we don't use condoms, but we do get tested frequently nonetheless.
STD Ignorance is real thing, and some STDS are really scary.
Condom is always a must. Well unless it's with a girl I know for a long time.
But even with condom there is like 2% chance so its kinda scary.
And scariest of all, HIV. That shit is just fucked up. Some people don't even know that they have it and spread it to other people, really scary.
So protection is a must.
Ain't no pussy worth enough to screw my life.
Well, safe sex with wife? No, thanks. No need to be safe for disease like STD /AIDs I am confident I am safe with my wife. I trust her so much and love her so nothing to worry my wife is good wife and good girl, though I recommend her to use pills for as contraceptives since we are not ready yet for another baby...
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Being a member of a select group of FWB we don't use condoms. We rarely engage outside the group but if we do we are confident our partner is clean and disclose our activity to the others.
I have an annual health check and I am tested as part of the check.. I have only one instance of STI. It was many years ago when I was extremely promiscuous. Fortunately it was a mild infection and noticed and treated very quickly.
If you are promiscuous then you're an idiot to not get tested.
Condoms yes, but never felt the need to be tested.
I always use safe sex. Condoms are a must...
Always been tested just to have a copy of results....
I'm allergic to latex so condoms are much more expensive and harder to get than standard ones. I can't get pregnant (hysterectomy due to my cancer) so as this is just about protection, we have no need if we're exclusive, and He insists and hands out condoms that won't make me die of anaphylactic shock to anybody else He loans me out to.
i never used a condom when having sex i like taking chances when i make love to a woman
If you wear a seatbelt driving, then why not use safe sex? Both activities are necessary and both can be deadly.
Although I would prefer not too I do use condoms simply because of one thing, I don't trust anyone when it comes to such things and better safe than sorry.
You ask:
...tested &/or no need, no multiple partners
How do you know the other person has not had multiple partners?
I've been with my man for about 3 years now and when we first started dating we got tested. We used condoms and I was on birth control. Over time we stopped using condoms. We both still get tested once a year because I like to be sure- I'm that kind of person.
Both my wife and I had multiple partners before marriage. We were tested. I have been monogamous since and I believe she has as well. I have been tested subsequently as a byproduct of other blood tests - still clean.
If I were to have sex with someone else, we would both be tested and use condoms. I lost several friends in the 80's and 90's. Two others live with HIV.
I was lucky before I became monogamous. Not smart, just lucky. (Not counting HPV - now they have a vaccine)
I'm still in the "Practicing" part of safe sex. Looking forward to just having safe sex. Then hopefully I can get a degree and move to just "Having Sex".
and I think safe sex is for me the answer. Thinking about it, don't know how I could react if she doesn't want to use protection. I know pill works to prevent pregnancy but not something else. In an exclusive relation I would suggest we both get tested becasue in health always trust but verify.
