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Anjasa
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female
Canada

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I assume people without avatars are spammers, or else they're so new they haven't taken any effort at all. It doesn't make a great first impression considering how easy it is to get a free avatar.
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I like a plot with erotic scenes, for the most part, and that's what I write.

I like short erotica, but I can't read a long book where the entire point and purpose is porn.
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I have 7 - 10 stories on the go at any time. And about 25 more ideas I need to plot out a bit more.
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As long as he's not covered, I don't see the issue. But I do like trimmed pubes when giving a BJ.
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I'd say that being bottomless is more 'dangerous'. If someone grabs your chest, they're just grabbing flesh. If someone grabs your groin, it's definitely different.

That's why certain stripclubs have rules about bottoms. It's to protect the girls - it's harder to or sexually assault someone if there's at least that bit of fabric protecting them.
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My ass looks awesome in tight jeans. Mostly I don't wear baggy jeans because they make me look bigger than I am.
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Professional massages are kinda painful. I'm mostly too tense to enjoy it, let alone get aroused by it. Like having someone else brush my hair - I'm always tense and waiting for that tug.

Also, uninvited sexual touching creeps me out in real life.
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Sounds fine to me.

If a guy thinks his cock is so gross that he won't kiss me before he cums, I really don't want to be giving him a blow job.
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Really would depend on their personality / looks / maturity. The frat boy beer chugging type doesn't do it for me, but I'm sure there are some younger guys out there that could do it for me.
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Quote by LittleBambi
I'm sure people will come along and offer a different point of view, so forgive me for bubble bursting but..

For me there is no sexual pleasure or excitement or any such thing whilst shaving, it's a means to an end - and a real pain when if I'm running late one day and could do without having to spend a couple of extra minutes in the shower with a razor between my legs!

I can't imagine trusting someone else to shave me...I barely trust myself! But, like I said, no doubt others can be of more help and offer other view points... good luck with your writing smile


Pretty much this. It's just shaving, it's not this 'ooh, ahhh' moment. It's more of a 'fuck, gotta hurry up before I'm out of hot water'. I don't remember any particular sensations other than checking to make sure I'm smooth with a finger, but it's not sexy. It's a boring chore, like shaving any other part of your body.
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Quote by Nikki703
Talk To Her!!! Find Out What Is Wrong Before It Is Too Late.


Definitely. Talking is your best bet, to find out why she's not interested in sex. Find out if there's something you can do to improve your sex life.
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If a male lets a woman who is paying for his services lick his cock, suck him off, or fuck him, he's not a stripper - he's a prostitute.

There's nothing wrong with it, of course, but it's kind of an important distinction - especially in regards to his personal limits. If you're hiring a stripper, male or female, you shouldn't expect sex acts and you certainly shouldn't partake in sex acts without consent.

Personally I wouldn't be interested in having male strippers, and I'd likely not touch them at all. I don't really like doing that in front of a party.
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I do, and my partner knows it smile Pretty much the best time for me.
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Depends on your taste in music. Rock, rap, dance, alternative? All have good lapdance songs.
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Certain music, certain outfits. Writing. Being complimented. Standing up for myself.
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I've done A) and C).

Anything that helps people's sex life improve is awesome by me.
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I'm naked if it's warm enough for it, unless I'm on my period. Then I'll wear a thong or pajama pants.
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This definitely squicks me, no matter how clean I am.
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I mostly write fiction with erotica within in.

I like lots of plot and reason behind my sex, for the most part.

I also write non-fiction for my blog about gaming, feminism, media, sex workers, and writing.
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It requires patience and care more than creative flair, I think. I mean, some women do patterns, but I think most go trimmed or smooth.

I don't go smooth as often as I want just because holy fuck does it get itchy.
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All about context. I love it with dirty talk, or in erotica. Being called a cunt, though? I don't know. I don't like being called any name.
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My partner and I have an understanding that he's allowed to wake me up in such a way.
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I'm very happy with my body. I'm 35-25-38 at 5'3" so I feel I'm quite fit and attractive.

It's not to everyone's taste, but it's to mine smile
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Nope - no free-switching allowed. Pussy to ass is great but never the other way around.


This is my rule as well.
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Hi all,

I'm looking to do a lesbian story, and I want to do it justice. Unfortunately, most lesbian porn is made for men, so they're not doing things that are pleasurable so much as they're doing things that look good.

So I'm looking for recommendations for lesbian porn made for lesbian viewers. Could you recommend some titles for me?

Thanks so much heart
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I love it when a man tells me about my pleasure centers.
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I pretty much always assume what I'm reading is fictional, even when prefaced with 'this actually happened!'

I read too much Playboy when I was younger to honestly believe people when they said that it was based on true events.
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I enjoy doggy. I have the hips and ass for it, anyways.