You stated: I'm having a rich sexual fantasy in writing with someone, and I keep that from my partner. This says it all.
Any time you are giving of yourself in any sexual way, physically, mentally, emotionally, to anyone other than your partner you are cheating. Instead of sharing this rich sexual fantasy life with your partner, you are giving it to someone else. The fact that you are keeping secrets from your partner indicates you know you are doing something you shouldn't be, and feel the need to hide it from them. There should be no secrets between an intimate couple.
If you want to know if you are really cheating or not, tell your partner what you have been up to, and ask them if they feel cheated on. The opinions of strangers doesn't matter. What matters is how your actions make your partner feel.
Some women like to be called names like that. I don't understand why, but if it works for them, great.
If my man ever started calling me names I'd end it.
He never has, and he's not the type of man who would. His mother raised him to respect women and treat them well.
He doesn't even bad mouth his ex-wife, and honestly, I wouldn't blame him if he did. She's about as nutballs as they come.
I can take four, but I prefer three. It feels better. My man has huge hands.
I turned down my ex all the time, for damn good reasons.
1. He ignored me all day and then expected me to perform on demand like a porn slut.
2. He was an alcoholic who practically me every time he got drunk.
3. He was selfish and sucked in bed. It was all about him and what he wanted.
4. He wouldn't communicate or listen when I tried to tell him what I liked.
5. He cheated on me and refused to wear condoms.
6. He didn't love me. He didn't want a real relationship, he wanted a whore to cook and clean for him.
No more sex for him.
When you ignore a woman, and continually don't meet her emotional needs, she isn't going to want to have sex with you. Don't ignore her.
When you treat a woman like crap, abuse, belittle or insult her, she isn't going to want to have sex with you. Respect her.
When all you care about is getting your rocks off as soon as possible, she isn't going to want to have sex with you. Put her needs first.
When you don't listen when she tells you what she needs or wants in bed, she isn't going to want to have sex with you. Give her what she fantasizes most about.
When you cheat, break her heart, and possibly bring home an STD to share, she isn't going to want to have sex with you. Don't betray her trust.
When you treat her like she's your mother and not your lover, she's not going to want to have sex with you.
Make her feel desired, and wanted. Don't take advantage of her or expect her to always be there for you if you aren't there for her. A woman always knows when a man really loves her and when he doesn't. When you let the relationship die, she is not going to want to have sex with you. Communicate with her. Make sure she KNOWS you love her. Dont' just say it, show it.
Women need their emotional needs met first, before they will have sex. They need their emotional needs met with the same intensity that men crave their sexual needs being met. If a woman ever denies you sex, it's because she is either not feeling well (she's sick) or she doesn't feel connected to you emotionally. There is ALWAYS a reason behind why she doesn't want to have sex with you. ASK HER WHY, and fix it. Talk to her. Cheating isn't going to fix your relationship. She will find out, and when she does, she will never want to have sex with you ever again.
I never turn down my new man. He treats me right and makes me feel desired. Actually I wish we had sex more often.
I watch Castle, NCIS, Criminal Minds, Bones, The Big Bang Theory, Nashville and The Vampire Diaries. So I watch about 7 hours a week, until all the current seasons are done. I rarely watch TV any other time. Sometimes, if I'm not feeling well, I binge watch something on Netflix.
I like Phantom of the Opera. But I haven't seen very many Musicals.
The first five to ten minutes of Dances With Wolves, and the pile of limbs and....ew....ew...ew...gross...ew...and then the sickening realization that actually happened to hundreds of people in real life. I have an issue with any movie where someone has a limb amputated. It just freaks me out. Honestly, I would rather just die. Any scene where someone is being dismembered, tortured or burned really bothers me.
I watch a lot of romance and Disney movies.
If I knew for sure it was something HE really, really wanted, I would consider it. I'm not sure I would be comfortable with it though. I've had the opportunity for threesomes and never did it. Something about it just seems wrong to me. There is a part of my brain that thinks sex is too intimate to be a group meeting. Luckily, I know my man well enough to know he would never be comfortable with another man in bed with us.
Yes, I would. And I have. It's fun to tease him, and know that he can't wait to get home to get his hands on me. ;)
If I'm in the mood to do it, I really do enjoy it. I love all the different vocals my man makes. I love knowing I have that kind of power and control in that moment, when he's mindless with pleasure and all growly and animalistic.
But if he tries to force me to do it, or I feel pressured to do it, I get angry. It becomes the last thing in the world I want to do, and a huge turn off.
I prefer thickness to length, but really average size is perfect to me. They are big enough to feel it and small enough not to hit my cervix, which, fyi, hurts like hell. Bigger is definitely not always better, especially if he doesn't know how to use it.
Not usually, but it's not a racism thing on my part. I have friends all over the world of different nationalities, skin colors and spiritual beliefs. It just never worked out well to date outside my race, because they always compared me to women of their particular race. It's as if they thought I was lacking in some way because I wasn't the same race as they were. Hello...you knew that when you met me. It seems like race was more important to them than it was to me.
Trustworthy and Passionate
I put onions, various bell peppers, black olives and mushrooms in my scrambled eggs for breakfast. Sometimes I add a bit of tomato sauce and shredded cheese as a topping. I call it Pizza Omelette. Sometimes I do a breakfast smoothie: Strawberries, blueberries, a small peach, a green apple, half a banana, and a handful of spinach. Or oatmeal with honey, cinnamon, pecans and dried cranberries. I like to add fresh fruit to oatmeal. Strawberries, blueberries and peaches work well.
For lunch I have a big green salad with grilled chicken. Or a turkey sandwich with sprouts, tomato and avocado and a bowl of veggie soup: Vegetable stock, 2 cans red kidney beans, 1 cup each: zucchini, carrots, celery, onion, bell peppers, corn, peas, potatoes, green beans etc. If you put enough veggies in it, and season it with herbs, you don't need meat or pasta as fillers.
As a snack I cut up a raw veggie plate and nosh on it while I'm writing: Broccoli, carrots, celery, cucumber, red bell pepper, mushrooms, and a pickle. (Pickles will kill your hunger, so they make good snacks.)
For dinner I always do at least two to three servings of veggies I like: Corn on the cob, carrots, green beans, peas, potatoes, squash etc. as sides to go with whatever main dish.
Desserts: Fruit salad, frozen mangoes, a fruit smoothie or baked apples.
Stop drinking coffee. Most headaches are a sign of chronic dehydration. I had horrible migraines several times a week, as well as tension headaches, until I started drinking water and cut out every thing else. The headaches stopped. Now, if I get a headache (maybe once a year) it is because I didn't drink enough water for the last couple of days.
Coffee, soda, energy drinks, fruit juice and milk all dehydrate you and make you even more thirsty. Caffeine is a drug and a lot of people get headaches when they are going through a caffeine withdrawal. The worst thing you can do is give your body more caffeine. Replace it with water, and soon the headaches will stop. Coffee, soda and energy drinks also leech calcium and other nutrients from your body, which is why more and more young people are being diagnosed with osteoporosis.
The signs and symptoms of dehydration range from minor to severe and include:
Dry mouth and swollen tongue
Muscle Weakness
Dizziness
Palpitations (feeling that the heart is jumping or pounding)
Confusion
Headaches
Flaky Skin
Brittle/Breaking Hair and Nails
Chronically stuffy nose
Dry or itchy eyes
Sleepiness
Sluggishness fainting
Fainting
Inability to sweat
Decreased urine output
Thirst is actually one of the LAST signs of dehydration.
Urine color indicates dehydration. If urine is concentrated and deeply yellow or orange/amber, you are dehydrated.
It should be very pale yellow or clear.
Nothing can replace the bodies need for water. It is what makes our cells and organs work properly and helps flush the body of toxins that cause illness. Most people in America think they are sick, when they really aren't. They are dehydrated because they don't drink enough water. 64 oz. a day is the MINIMUM requirement. Some people, especially if they are overweight, need more water.
Get off Depo! It's the worst thing I ever did. I gained 90 pounds in less than six months, even though I was barely eating anything but oatmeal, plain boiled chicken and salad. Within three months my hair started to fall out and my hormones when so nuts I developed PCOS and Diabetes. I'm convinced that it caused me to develop Fibromyalgia as well, because I was perfectly fine until I got on that crap. I got off of all forms of birth control and have struggled ever since to get my health back. It's been over 12 years and my body is still messed up because my hormones never went back to normal.
It's well documented to cause women to have all kinds of hormonal health issues, and many doctors will lie about it. I know mine did.
A persons first love is new and magical and special. You never really forget them, even after you have fallen in love with someone else and moved on. However it ended, badly or with well wishes, the memories stay with you, and they are yours to cherish.
You need psychiatric help, and until you get it, and start taking responsibility for your own life choices, no one and nothing is going to make you happy. It's not my fault you are miserable. If you are unhappy, that's on you. It's not my job to make you happy, it's yours.
You can try using cock rings to keep yourself from climaxing too soon.
It depends on the situation. Although typically when I speak my mind, I speak the truth even when it's hard to hear. Common sense and logic is lost on a lot of people, so I end up wishing I had just kept my mouth shut.
I do it when I'm in the mood to do so, and because I know he really enjoys it.
It's one of my favorite things. I love when a man goes down on me. To me it's more intimate than almost anything else.
Women can have several different types of orgasms, one or multiple orgasms, depending on the woman. Some are small, and quick, while others are huge, and long lasting. Full body orgasms are when your entire body trembles and shakes because it's so intense, and you lose all muscle control. However they happen, no matter what type, they are all wonderful.
Chocolate Chunk with Chopped Pecans
Warm, right out of the oven of course, dunked in chocolate milk.
I enjoy reading stories about couples who genuinely care for each other, whatever the category or genre. I enjoy reading historical romance, some modern romance, and actually sexy but realistic BDSM stories. But paranormal romance is my guilty pleasure. In my mind, paranormal erotica is fantasy in it's purest form, because it is something that can not actually happen, while other forms of fantasies are usually attainable desires, if you have willing partners to play with.
I've learned that I prefer to have sex, than watch other people have sex.
A lot of what is in porn is so unrealistic and not at all appealing to me.
All the time. I've sort of gotten used to it. I think it would be weird to me if it stopped happening.
I always look at people's profiles before requesting them as friends, or approving their requests. Whats the point if you don't know if you have anything in common or not?
