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I always look at people's profiles before requesting them as friends, or approving their requests. Whats the point if you don't know if you have anything in common or not?
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AudriNichols
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
United States
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I don't like it and I won't do it. It's a huge turn off and a hard limit for me.
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I tell my man: I don't care if you look, so long as you don't touch. Besides, I know you'll always come home to me.
It's hard for me to justify getting upset at him. Of course he's going to look at other women. There are billions of them on the planet. I can't expect him to avoid half the human population and stare at his shoes for the rest of his life. It's kind of ridiculous when girls put that kind of restriction on their man. I mean really, if you feel that insecure, then you've got bigger issues than what his eyes might happen to see.
It's hard for me to justify getting upset at him. Of course he's going to look at other women. There are billions of them on the planet. I can't expect him to avoid half the human population and stare at his shoes for the rest of his life. It's kind of ridiculous when girls put that kind of restriction on their man. I mean really, if you feel that insecure, then you've got bigger issues than what his eyes might happen to see.
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My grandmas baked mac and cheese, fried chicken and mashed potatoes, and for dessert, chocolate cheesecake.
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The more sexually aroused you are, generally the less it hurts. If he's really good, and he takes the time to give you a few back bowing orgasms, you probably won't care if it hurts or not. Make sure he uses his fingers to stretch you out a little first. And uses lots and lots of lube. It makes it much more pleasurable. The hymen breaking kind of feels like a rubber band snapped on your skin, only inside. It stings a bit, and it can burn a little if he moves too fast inside you. So make sure he goes slowly the first time. You may or may not have an orgasm with penetration. Not all women do, especially the first time, and that is okay. There will be a bit of blood and some swelling afterward, and you may feel a little stiff or sore, because your body has to adjust. That is normal. A hot bath helps afterward.
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Ask her to tell you how she likes it, what makes it great for her, and then take your time and do it exactly how she told you, repeatedly. And if she says things like "Don't stop." Keep doing EXACTLY whatever you are doing. Don't change your pressure, speed or rhythm. If she says "Harder" or "Faster" she means it. LISTEN.
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I prefer big enough that I can feel it, and small enough that I can enjoy it without pain.
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He was an ex of my best friend. He thought could play mind games and insult me into going to bed with him to "prove I wasn't desperate." Turns out he was the desperate one. I laughed in his face and told him there wasn't enough money in the world that would make me sleep with him.
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If he stinks, or has bad breath.
If I'm tired and not in the mood.
If I'm busy, on a deadline and don't want to be distracted.
If I'm tired and not in the mood.
If I'm busy, on a deadline and don't want to be distracted.
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He has a lot to check out on his profile. He has a special hatred for spammers and a creative solution.
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Controlling my tone of voice when I say something. Sometimes things come out harsher than I intended them too, so I sound mad or grumpy when I'm really not, and my man thinks I'm upset. I don't yell or even raise my voice at all, but we can be talking about the most random thing, and he thinks I'm getting all fired up, when really, it just came out wrong.
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I've been called a slut (the first time I was still a virgin). I've only slept with three people in my entire life, all long term monogamous relationships.
The original definition of the word slut doesn't have anything to do with sex. It first appeared in Middle English in 1402 as slutte, with the meaning "a dirty, untidy, or slovenly (messy)woman", in reference to her housekeeping, most likely. Another early meaning was "kitchen maid or drudge" in 1450.
So basically, anyone who uses the word in a sexual context doesn't know the meaning of the word. Yet men and women still use this term interchangeably with bitch and prostitute to degrade a woman sexually, because God forbid a woman actually admits she likes sex. Yet if she has solid moral character and doesn't put out on demand, she will be called a Prude, which is just as insulting to a woman who enjoys sex.
If you're going to call a woman names, at least be accurate. Better yet, stop insulting women at all.
The original definition of the word slut doesn't have anything to do with sex. It first appeared in Middle English in 1402 as slutte, with the meaning "a dirty, untidy, or slovenly (messy)woman", in reference to her housekeeping, most likely. Another early meaning was "kitchen maid or drudge" in 1450.
So basically, anyone who uses the word in a sexual context doesn't know the meaning of the word. Yet men and women still use this term interchangeably with bitch and prostitute to degrade a woman sexually, because God forbid a woman actually admits she likes sex. Yet if she has solid moral character and doesn't put out on demand, she will be called a Prude, which is just as insulting to a woman who enjoys sex.
If you're going to call a woman names, at least be accurate. Better yet, stop insulting women at all.
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There is a detailed about me section, lots of stories to read and an eye catching background. 
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Hmm...have my own harem of sexy men to worship me and have my wicked way with for the weekend.
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Yep...six hours of ongoing multiples felt like six minutes to me. It was amazing and by the end all I wanted was another six hours, but I think I broke him...
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This handy little website will tell you how often you use the same vocabulary and phrases in your story...
http://www.writewords.org.uk/word_count.asp
http://www.writewords.org.uk/word_count.asp
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Chances are your cover art was a bit too revealing. I think it also depends on who is doing the review of your stuff. Some people are more picky than others.
You can always try going through a publisher. They tend to accept more work if you have a publisher, even if it's just a small time one.
You can always try going through a publisher. They tend to accept more work if you have a publisher, even if it's just a small time one.
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The one time I tried to collaborate, we couldn't even get a basic outline on paper because he was so stubborn. He actually told me, "Compromise means do it my way." Yeah. I knew it would be downhill from there. He basically told me my opinions weren't important. He wouldn't listen to a single suggestion I had about plot or character development, even though he had ZERO experience writing. He basically wanted to dictate the entire thing to me, and just have me type it for him, because he didn't want to have to do it himself. He expected me to do this for free, without any credit at all. I told him that I wouldn't do that for him, because it would have taken years to untangle the mess of his random thoughts. Then he got pissed at me like it was all my fault we couldn't get anything done. Then I found out he was a 40 year old basement dweller living with his mommy. Apparently she never told him no in his entire lifetime, so when I said no he threw a tantrum. It's sad because he really did have a great idea. He just had no people skills.
It could be fun to work with another author, or it could be a complete disaster. I think it really depends on the people involved and their general personality. Some people don't play well with others.
It could be fun to work with another author, or it could be a complete disaster. I think it really depends on the people involved and their general personality. Some people don't play well with others.
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Asking questions is part of how authors do research. Getting first hand accounts is what makes the writing more realistic. I guess some people don't understand that. If it bothers you so much, then don't respond. There is really no need to be so rude.
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I prefer stories that are fiction. I find that when people tell stories of actual events, the writing is rather robotic. First this happened, and then we did this, and he said this...it's choppy and usually doesn't flow as well as stories that are purely fiction. I've read a few well written personal experience stories, but they are few and far between.
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been stalked? Not just on FB, but in real life?
I am working on revising a story, and my FMC is being stalked. I've done some research on it, so I have a pretty clear idea of the progression of stalking behavior, and the psychology behind it, but I am interested in hearing people's experiences and stories, particularly for the emotional aspect of what it feels like to be stalked, the physical and psychological toll it takes on a victim, and how it affects day to day life.
I am working on revising a story, and my FMC is being stalked. I've done some research on it, so I have a pretty clear idea of the progression of stalking behavior, and the psychology behind it, but I am interested in hearing people's experiences and stories, particularly for the emotional aspect of what it feels like to be stalked, the physical and psychological toll it takes on a victim, and how it affects day to day life.
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I quickly jot down the details of my newest plot bunny (title, one paragraph synopsis, and description of main characters) and try my best to go back to the story I am currently working on.
I have a list 70+ titles long of "future projects". So there is always something to work on.
I have a list 70+ titles long of "future projects". So there is always something to work on.
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All of my stories come from my imagination. The characters, situations, everything is just whatever flows out onto paper. I've always had a very vivid imagination.