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No. I like some aggressive dominant/submissive intensity and roleplay sometimes, but it's more 'in the moment' interplay and strictly sexual. Sex is really the only place where I find any kind of power-exchange exciting.

A 'lifestyle' or relationship focused on BDSM elements would not appeal to me.

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Lol, we are at opposite ends of the table my friend, and to be honest you're answer sounds somewhat vain and shallow. Since when have women in their forties been automatically saggy? There are plenty of women in their 40's who have great bodies, better even than girls I've seen in their twenties. It's called working out and keeping fit. Kylie is as hot as she ever was, Kate Beckinsale, Eva Longoria, Sandra Bulllock, Jennifer Aniston, Halle Berry, Jennifer Lopez, Heather Graham, Denise Richards, Cameron Diaz, Gwyneth Paltrow, Wynona Rider.... The list is endless. ALL over 40, ALL still stunning. Who says they have to be 40 anyway? I'm 25, to me 30 is an older woman....

Then you have the experience factor, and my experience is that girls, particularly under 20, and sometimes even older, are useless at oral sex or handjobs, whereas older women have had years of honing their technique, and therefore make it much more mind blowing. What do you want, some newb college undergrad girl who laps at it like a cat licking milk from a saucer, and who lies there like a sack of potatoes, or an experienced woman who devours it and makes you beg her for more, and rides you like a Rodeo Bull? When it comes to sex, experience is right up there with key attributes like stamina. In my experience, the younger, the tamer, the older, the feistier.

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While pleasuring my wife orally I will play there too. It can help blow her head off with the resulting orgasm.
If not tried, certainly worth a visit. That goes for both parties as well!

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Oh yes, a play on a Mae West quote:
When they're good they're very, very good but when they're bad they're better.

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Do you need wanking material or new story ideas? Why should I tell you, you didn't confess anything.

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I think it would depend on why he was poor. Is he poor because he has a bad work ethic or is he poor because of a run of bad luck or is he poor because he is putting himself through school or is he poor because he is following a creative dream. Situational.

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I think most people find the site because of the stories, I know that I did. Then they discover that there's so much more like the forums and chat rooms. You can make good friends here but it's totally up to the individuals. I'd say I've made only one that I would say was a real friendship that I've swapped email and fb with and would be really concerned about.
When I first joined I didn't think that would be possible but it's true, you can create a bond with someone. If you think about it you usually start a conversation with someone you find "attractive" and you wouldn't if you don't. That means you miss all those people that are on your wavelength but you never knew it. Here you find them through the chatrooms or the forums and you discover that you like the person even if you don't fancy them. This can develop into a real friendship.

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For those of you that are not aware, a user asked recently if they were ok to start a thread on here calling out people with 'fake' profiles/photos.
The answer was 'No, please don't.'

There is no need to make waves.
Consider what Lush actually is to a lot of the people that use the site. It's a fantasy world.
Somewhere they can be who they want to be and escape from their everyday selves. Some people choose to do this with an alternate persona complete with pictures.

The more savvy of us know when we look a profile whether it looks legit or not. If you don't agree with those people that upload a photo or two of someone else they found online, then just leave them be.

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Open, honest, and direct communication is essential. So is proper timing and location. Talking about your kinky desires and plans is best done in a private, intimate location. One of the best ways is to use some appropriate segue, like an erotic story or photograph that displays your particular kink is a good manner. Then you can gauge their reaction. If it's negative, don't push the issue. If it's positive, don't just jump right into it with them. Give it time to settle with the knowledge they "might" like to try it. Then wait for the proper setting and time. Always front load an idea when you can. Want to try anal? Then get them worked up "normally" first before trying it so they are receptive. Want to try bondage (them on you), let them catch you with your hands tied or cuffed and appear a little embarrassed at how turned on you are. See if they pick up on the cue that, you might like it. Use your imaginations, people.

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There have been times when I have been able to pretty much size up how the sex would be by observing him/her. But there have also been times where I was very wrong in what I expected, some positive and some negative. That is part of what makes it fun I guess

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This is why I think we should have a thing put in on our timeline like "So and so has deleted their account or so and so has deleted you" something like that, so we know. It would sure clear up a whole lot of confusion.