Nope. As much as it may be a fantasy of mine somewhere in the deep recesses of my psyche, in my real life, I am not into sharing or being shared. Period.
If it's diet, I much prefer diet Pepsi but if it's straight up cola, I prefer Coke.
You appear to have a healthy list of phone sex potentials on your profile so I'm not sure why you're soliciting in the forums. Perhaps you might consider popping in a chat room sometime, I'm pretty certain you'll find what you're looking for there.
I think you'll find that most women, if not all, will say they prefer it to be equal. To respond in more detail to your question, I will echo Dancing Doll's response as it's pretty much bang on regarding my own preferences and experiences. I would like to add that although I can and do orgasm quite easily in a variety of ways, depending on where and how I'm being stimulated, my orgasms can be quite different from one another - some better than others. Personally, my best and most fulfilling orgasms are achieved through deep penetration with a toy or my partner's penis - girth also aides in how satisfying it can be which is why I did not mention 'fingers' in the particular case.
I am one of those women that has only had a partner and my toy(s) and love the feeling.
Yeah, I've been here when I first starting having sex. I don't think it's unusual that sex might still be uncomfortable for you especially since you are both each other's first sexual partners. Sometimes it just takes time to get used to one another and with your own sexuality. Hell, as sexual as I was, it wasn't until I hit 29-30 that I REALLY started to enjoy sex! Barring any official medical reasons why you're experiencing pain during intercourse, try and relax about it. Talk about it with your partner and maybe take a bit more time with foreplay as well as using appropriate lubes and toys if you're open to them. Over thinking it and worrying about it will only make it worse, trust me on this one. Good luck sweetie.
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I think I'd like to try grating some cheese on those abs - does that count?
Slippery slope my friend. Make sure you're BOTH on the same page about it and that you're thinking with your brains and not just your cock and/or pussy. Once that bell has been rung, there is no undoing it.
One of the BIGGEST problems in my marriage and ultimately the cause of our sexual problems was porn. Like all healthy and sexual men, I knew my ex enjoyed watching porn. As a couple, we even watched it together many times during our courtship as well as during the first couple of years of our marriage. It was hot and exciting in the beginning but soon, it got ugly. He wanted it on every time we made love, then it shifted to him sneaking around and watching it on his own late at night, so much that he wouldn't come to bed until the wee hours in the morning almost EVERY night. Pretty soon, porn took over and became his lover, it was the third person in our marriage. He then began to have problems staying hard, then he had difficulties cumming unless he jerked himself off which took forever, and eventually, he couldn't even get hard with me at all! It was BRUTAL!!! Porn had become the enormous pink elephant in our relationship.
After YEARS of dancing around the issue, I confronted him and confronted him I did HUNDREDS of times about our sex life and that porn was a much bigger problem then we both originally thought. I explained to him how it was making me feel, how it was hurting our relationship and although he denied everything in the beginning, eventually he conceded and admitted he couldn't stop but at the same time, didn't want to seek help for it either. As a woman, it was painfully disheartening especially when you can see your marriage falling apart all around you and there was very little I could do to save it. The experience seriously fucked with my self esteem so violently that I spent years and THOUSANDS of dollars on therapy to try and deal with all the shit porn caused in my life and ultimately ended my 20 years relationship and broke up my family - something that still brings tears to my eyes if I think about it too much.
So YES, porn can have insidious effects on one's sex life - I'm the poster child for that disturbing PSA. Having said that, despite my negative experience with porn, I think it can be a great aid in relieving tension and finding a release either alone or with a partner. I also sincerely think it can add a bit of excitement and variety into a couple's sex life provided it's kept it in check. Anything good in life is about finding a healthy balance and porn is no different.
Damn straight! I'm a pleaser and a giver so seducing my man is like breathing for me - very natural and necessary.
Sorry hun, I'm a woman that can never GET enough nor GIVE enough of the spontaneous romance/sex in my relationships so I'm afraid I may not be much help to you. All I can tell you (and I've said this a million times on here before) is if I've learned anything from my past marriage of almost 20 years, complacency can be (and was in my case) a death sentence, particularly when one partner is less interested in doing 'the work' to keep the relationship fresh and exciting.
In my humble opinion, being spontaneous shouldn't be planned around your moods or her moods or when the moon is full or whatever! Acts of romance should be something you do on an ongoing basis and should be because you genuinely want to. If you're just doing it to get some action, that isn't good either. If you have a partner that isn't as receptive to your spontaneity as you would expect or like, then you need to talk it out with them and get on the same page - you both have got to want it and work at it.
If not, it's amazing the insidious effects frustration and resentment has on a relationship when one is not feeling appreciated and/or fulfilled.
I hope that makes sense. Good luck.
The act itself doesn't do anything for me personally but rather it's what it does for my man that gets me off. So YES, as long as my partner(s) enjoy it (and I have yet to be with a man that didn't enjoy it), then I love it!
I'm a woman that LOVES LOVES LOVES facial hair of ANY kind on men but most especially on MY man! I just think it makes men look very 'manly' and sexy as fuck! Men with facial hair = My kryptonite.
P.S. A little side note when I say "ANY", I can't say that I'm a fan of metrosexual men who look like they carve out their facial hair, sometimes into some silly design (and you know who you are) - WAY too contrived if you ask me. I much prefer the casual and natural look that's maintained to some extent over anything overly coiffed.
Absolutely! I have...and will again and again and again... ;)
I'd love to meet pretty much everyone on my friend list, and it's not JUST about sex either. That's why they're on my list in the first place!
Hmm, I have a few but probably the biggest is that although I might be able to forgive someone for whatever the crime (granted there are definitely some crimes that are unforgiveable), I NEVER forget.
Because if I've gone without for a bit, I can almost guarantee you there will be more than one "O" - I'll have some serious catching up to do after all 
Thank you for your words of wisdom but I will say this that I am not doing it for just the action, I have never come to love any woman like I have with her. Where I use to look at other women and say oh yea she’s hot, I find myself looking at what type of shoes or nail polish and think oh that would look better on my lady lol. She was in a marriage that was not much romance, and she finds it hard as to why I do the things I do for her. She has told me that her co-workers are always asking if I have a brother for them lol not sure if that a good thing or a bad thing. We do talk about it and then she feels that am attacking her, which am not but ask her just to explain or tell me what I can do better or what am missing? I don’t want to give up on us, she is worth the fight. I hope that makes sense coming from a guy lol
