LOVE me a beautiful accent! I always find a proper British accent to be incredibly arousing. Of course, equally as arousing are the romance languages like Italian, French or Spanish - Dio Mio! Being Canadian, I'm always at least little excited whenever I hear someone with the slightest accent. I'm far too easy to please I think :P
I'm partially deaf in my right ear which forced me to learn how to read lips. A great skill to have when you least expect it.
Text messages that make my heart flutter.
I have no issue with people wanting to keep their real identities hidden. Not everyone is comfortable sharing their real pics for fear of being recognized which may put their careers or relationships in jeopardy. Completely understandable and I respect that. Lord knows, I've friended many people over the years who have never shown me a picture of themselves BUT what they lacked in real pics, they made up in intelligent, articulate, respectable and sincere conversation. Sometimes that goes much further than just flashing a pearly smile or raging cock.
When I first joined and was much more active on Lush, I used to take major issue with those blazon profiles that were so over-the-top fake. I even fell for a few myself until I learned how to play the game - and it can definitely feel like a game at times on here. Right from the way their profile is written to the ridiculous pictures posted that were clearly pulled from the internet and/or photo shopped to death, they've become easy to spot. At the time, I just couldn't understand why anyone would go to such trouble to be so deceitful. Hell, I STILL don't quite understand it and all I can think about is how completely exhausting it must be to keep up with all the lies and pass oneself off as anything other than themselves.
Nowadays, I really couldn't give a shit. Honestly. More power to them if they can get away with it. I actually find it incredibly entertaining! Thankfully, I've honed my skills over the years to spot the fakes ones a mile away and with a blindfold on which is not that difficult if you think with your brain instead of your cock or pussy. There is no point in outing fakes, they have every right to be here. We have no idea what they're going through in their real lives that drives them to be so deceiving. At the end of the day, the decision to accept their friendship and/or believe what they post or say is up to us and is ultimately our responsibility. It's as simple as that.
What's the harm in looking? It's not like you're going to reach out and squeeze her boob or spank her ass as she walks by, are you? Agreed that dressing provocatively can be subjective but if you see a woman that catches your attention regardless of what she's wearing, I don't think there is any harm in taking a respectable glance at her and appreciating her. Provided you don't give her the creepy stalker stare, I think most women understand that this is just part of the dance most would be fine with it.
I agree with Matilda, the problem starts with you in this particular case. You need to get straight about what you want for yourself and from him because calling him your 'rebound' and then acting like he's supposed to be your soulmate are two very different things, no wonder you're feeling confused! If he's just a fuck-buddy or friends-with-benefit, you need to get your emotions in check straight away. If you want more from him, then you need to have a serious chat with him about it to see how he feels then move forward from there.
Good luck!
Is this a serious question?
I don't know of too many women who would choose the second option unless she was a mail-order-bride, otherwise, an equal partnership is how it should be.
I pride myself on being a woman that still holds some old-fashioned values when it comes to relationships and family BUT I'm definitely no wallflower or doormat. I come with my very own brain which means I'm intelligent and articulate and can and do form my own opinions.
Personally, I LOVE middle-of-the-night sex, awakening my man or being awakened by my man for a little playtime is always good in my books. Having said that, I'm NOT a fan of him just mounting me and shoving his cock in my snatch without some kind of warning - that's just plain rude not to mention selfish in my opinion. I much prefer the slow, tender tease of being stirred awake and hearing him whisper in my ear how much he wants and needs me. It doesn't matter how deep I was I sleeping or how tired I am, THAT will ALWAYS get my engines roaring, guaranteed. I never say no to a little lovin' no matter what the hour ;)
Just finished my Isagenix shake and am now working on a hot green tea.
I've spoken about my own sexless marriage on various other threads before, so here I go again...
I was married for 20 years. We were that couple that fell madly in love and couldn't keep our hands off of each other. But like all good things, it started to change and shift, for HIM in particularly and especially after we started our family. Sex got less and less frequent to the point where it came to a full stop altogether. When we did have sex, I was always left feeling empty, like he wasn't really present, that he just wanted to get it over with. It was never the same again. I was young and didn't know any better than to just suck it up thinking if I changed myself, things would get better again. And so I did, I read books and watched videos, I lost weight (which eventually tuned into bulimia), changed my hair colour, cooked more, cleaned better, complained less but it was all for not. I started to develop a serious complex and it took a toll on my self esteem. The sadness grew into frustration which grew into resentment. After YEARS of going without sex completely and only the occasion touch or kiss, I couldn't take it any more. I spent years in therapy on my own to help deal with this and then begged my hubby to go to couple's therapy but he refused. I was WAY too young to be in a sexless marriage and the thought of spending another 10-20 years still sexless, was enough to make me want to commit suicide.
I agree that sex isn't and shouldn't be everything and am well aware that sex fades and/or shifts the longer you're together with your SO but at the same time, sex is a form of intimacy which is critical to a healthy relationship. It's a barometer for how the relationship is going. Unless you both settle into a place where sex isn't a priority and are content with it, great, more power to you. But if one of you makes the decision for both of you that sex isn't that important and/or pulls if off the shelf without your consent, that's when it becomes problematic.
After 20 years of being together and spending nearly half of that marriage pretty much sexless despite countless attempts at trying to make it work, I had enough and chose to tap out. It was the hardest decision I ever made because I still loved him but I knew there was a part of me that was dying a little bit every day that I continued to spend in that relationship. It takes two people to make it work, bottom line. I suppose I could have stayed married forever and taken on plenty of lovers and played on Lush or other similar sites where I could get my rocks off as often as I wanted but that wasn't the kind of life I wanted to live nor the kind of woman I wanted to be. No offense to anyone who does this, but it's just not for me.
I'm always conflicted when I hear of people living like this, sticking it out in their sexless marriage or relationship - a part of me applauds them while another part of me shakes my head. Some of them stick it out because they genuinely love for their partner while others do it because they're just scared to be alone or can't be bothered to divide the property and split up the family. I've been there and therefore I completely understand. I can see both sides of the coin. To stay or go, neither one of those decisions is an easy one. At the end of the day, we have to live with our choices. The question is what are we willing to live with...or without.
Are asking if women prefer one over the other or is this question for men only?
I scored 45 - sounds about accurate.
You've been known to flirt on occasion, and probably have some refined seduction techniques... but you're not a hard-core, 24-hour-a-day flirt. You realize that there is a time and a place for seduction, and know when to shut off the charms. When you do decide to work your magic, however, look out world! This seems to be a healthy approach - flirting is a natural, fun way to strut your stuff, boost confidence and send the right message to objects of desire. On the other hand, we all know someone who flirts with everyone, everywhere... and it can be really annoying! Maintain this balance and flirting will serve you well.
Udon noodle stir fry with baby bok choy and cremini mushrooms - DELICIOUS!!
I'm in agreement with everyone on here - I would have slammed the breaks and kicked her spoiled ass out of the car! There are much better, not to mention more mature ways to deal with disappointment for God's sakes!
Blue Jeans by Lana Del Rey.
Perrier on ice with a wedge of lime.
As much as I do prefer to be around happy and energetic types more often than not, the 'childish' part of that equation can and does get very old very quick especially if they never know when to be serious or quiet. I tend to be one of those people that feeds off of the energy of others therefore I like to surround myself with people who have a good balance of both fun and serious - they're both great qualities.
(This will never happen for me which is why it's such a hot fantasy!) 
