At my age, I have indeed reached the epitome of a woman's sexual prime therefore "All the bloody time!" The challenge is finding partners who are equally compatible sexually and who can keep up with me. Unfortunately, THAT is not as easy as one might think.
Wow, I really have to put my thinking cap on for this one since I've never kept count of any of this!
How many Lushies have you chatted with somewhere other than lush ( , MSN, actual emails, etc): Honestly, I have no idea but it would be quite a few especially early on when I wasn't nearly as discerning as I am today.
How many Lushies have you spoken to either on the phone or some other voice service? Hmm, I would venture to guess about a dozen or so since I joined...
How many on Lush know details about your personal life, such as real name (first/last), phone numbers, address, actual email addie, or seen real pics other than what might be on your profile?
First Name: Everyone knows my first name since it's listed on my profile although most Lushies will continue to call me Belle and that's just fine by me
Last Name: Maybe 3
Phone Number: Probably a dozen or so
Address: Just one special man knows everything about me including my address
Only one man has my real email addy - the rest have my email set-up for Lush specifically
Real pics other than lush: Again, I've never kept track but I would venture to guess about a dozen or so (and that doesn't mean they are all naughty ones either!)
How many Lushies have you met or know IRL? Although there have been countless chats about meeting several great people since I've joined (men and women), I have only met one amazing man who is responsible for why I haven't been nearly as active on here as I used to be - and that's perfectly okay by me ;)
Hands down Les Miserables! I've seen it 6 times so far including once in NYC on Broadway. It's returning to Toronto this fall and I've already purchased my tickets yet again!
I think I'm a odd duck who isn't a big fan of popcorn although if I had to eat it, I do prefer the heart-stopping movie popcorn over anything you make at home. Having said that, I'm much more of a chocolate girl, almond or peanut M&M's are always on my brain when I enter a movie theatre as are NIBS. Yum!
Hmm good question and some great answers. Personally, I think sexual attraction doesn't have to matter if BOTH partners are on the same page about it BUT if one person is content to keep things platonic while the other aches for the kind of connection and intimacy that comes from sex, it can be a VERY miserable life and usually that's when questionable behaviour might come to breed if only out of desperation and frustration.
I also think age can play a part in this too - usually the 'older' couples seem to just accept it as part of the process despite the fact they didn't exactly get the memo that things had changed, while younger couples may be much less inclined to live out the rest of their days basically sexless.
Bottom line is that everyone's priorities are different. If you can ask the question; if this is as good as it will ever be, is it good enough? and answer YES, then more power to you!
I'll politely take a pass but knock yourselves out if that's what you enjoy - just not MY thing for many of the same reason already listed above.
Not if they didn't at least buy me dinner and some drinks before they got naked :P
Worked late and ended up ordering a stir-fry from the local Chinese restaurant. Delicious.
Love it! I will agree that the 'act' itself doesn't get ME off but rather it's how excited and turned on my man gets that always does it for me. I love watching him as he slips his raging hard on between my ample bosom, love to watch the head of his cock peak out the top just long enough for me to tease it with my tongue or mouth and I fucking LOVE when he finally explodes all over them and seeing the satisfied look on his face. Nothing hotter than that.
Oh my goodness - I definitely have a pile of fantasies I would have loved to experience at one point in my life and some that might be more realistic and might still be experienced one day soon [-o<
I've been here before and my advice is that life is too short to sit around waiting and wondering. If you like her and you feel like there is 'something' between you, just tell her. I know that seems super simplified but it really is THAT simple. Making a move, however bold or innocent sometimes can backfire worse than if you just talk to her about what you're feeling rather than just assuming it. We all have 'rules' we've created at certain moments in our lives depending on what's going on or what happened in our last relationship. Her declaration at one point about not wanting to be in a relationship may in fact been valid but things can change. It just takes that right person for all the 'rules' to go out the window and take a chance. Go for it and good luck!
Are you interested in older women just for fucking or are you looking to actually date one? What's the attraction for you?
Regardless, it's hard to answer this question for you when we have no idea what you're like in the presence of women, young or old. You appear to be a handsome guy but maybe your personality isn't up to scratch, or you can't hold a conversation or maybe your pick-up lines are way too cheezy - don't know! All I can tell you is that there are plenty of older women that love younger men but most of them don't buy into the bullshit so being straight up and honest might make some difference.
I agree with most on here, I'm not too concerned about the number necessarily but rather how compatible we are together emotionally, spiritually and especially sexually. It's about the connection I have with the other person that is paramount and I've realized that age has absolutely nothing to do with it.
I have several significant scars as a result of some major surgeries over the years as well as some minor ones here and there. I can't really say that I'm completely 'okay' with the major ones - I mean, they do tell a story and they were basically a means to an end and lovely ones at that BUT to say I haven't wished more than once that I didn't have them, would be an absolute lie. C'est la vie! I would hope that scars wouldn't be an issue for men but unfortunately some men (and women) can be awfully shallow and superficial. My scars are part of who I am, period. If a man isn't okay with them, then "ADIOS AMIGO!" Thankfully, that hasn't been an issue for me up to now.
As for how I feel about them on my man, I happen to LOVE imperfections and scars are just part of the story that makes up my partner good or bad.
Wow, I do have spells where I've not left the house all day - not often but it does happen. The last time was back in early January and it was after I arrived home from being away in Italy for 3 weeks. I had gone to visit family and had my teenage son with me who ended up bunking up with me the whole trip. Obviously, I was a very good girl but it was pretty much slow torture going THAT long without masturbating especially in a country where men are notoriously sexual, sensual not to mention fucking gorgeous - ugh! When I finally got home, I literally locked myself in my house all weekend and seriously made up for lost time. How many times? Honestly, I'm not completely sure since I don't exactly lay there and count but I would say it would have been in the neighborhood of 10-12 times. Again, that doesn't happen often of course but it definitely has happened.
Hmm, I'm not a huge television series watcher, at least nothing like what I used to be BUT I will admit to being hooked on MTV's Catfish which means Tuesday nights at 10pm are off limits! LOL!
Apart from that, I do love The Big Bang Theory but only watch it in reruns if time permits.
