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BelleduJour
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
Canada

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I've never had one but have had offers over the years, even when I was in a very long and unhappy marriage. I never took anyone up on their offer or let things go any further than just talking about it. Perhaps I thought I couldn't handle it emotionally? I think I would consider it more seriously these days (at least in between relationships) and maybe even take the plunge provided there were indeed some 'rules' - I think the rules would be kinda important.
Not at all - in fact, a threesome with two bi men doing me then taking turns on each other has been one of my favourite fantasies!
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Can you imagine how hot a guy Belle must have. If he whispered in MY ear that magic tune, I am sure I would accept, providing Belle would join in and not scratch my eyes out for just thinking what I am thinking.


Sounds like a party

Haha and YES my man is indeed 'hot', at least I certainly think so and that is the only opinion that matters
I have but it wasn't JUST for sex and only after many months of talking on the phone and Skyping and really getting to know one another on all levels. It was never a 'goal' to meet but eventually it just felt like the natural next step.

Fortunately, our week together was amazing - turned out to be as good if not better than we hoped. Very surreal as you can imagine but wonderful just the same. There is definitely something to be said about meeting someone on here that you've been communicating with for a while both sexually and otherwise and knowing what the other enjoys - 0 to 60 in 2.1 seconds? Sure thing. We also joked about how we were doing everything backwards but it still worked and better I think, lol. How refreshing smile

I've never done anything like that before and meeting someone from Lush was most definitely NOT something I even remotely considered or expected until him which only goes to show you just how special he was and is to have made me change my mind
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I think that love and sex in a relationship can be two different things. I have been in relationships where I have loved my girlfriend and wanted to have sex with her, however I have also been in relationships where sex and love were two different things completely. I have very much enjoyed sex with some girlfriends and enjoyed their company, but would not call what I felt for them as "love." I have also loved and intensely cared for the girl I was with, but came to the point in the relationship that the physical attraction just was not what it had been. It was unfortunate, but true.

So yes, I think that they can be two different things. What does everyone else think?


Agreed. It CAN be two different things for a bunch of reasons. The ideal scenario (and ultimate goal for me anyway) is when love and sex collide - that's when it's spectacular!
I think I'm in agreement with most people on here; eyes are definitely key and the first thing I seek out in order for me to get a vibe about the guy. A close second would be his smile.
Like in straight porn, there are some that aim to be sensual and erotic while others lean more towards the hardcore genre as well as everything in between. Personally, I too find the erotic/sensual gay/bi porn to very arousing and much more so than watching lesbians go at each other. I'm not sure what that says about me but there you have it
My best girlfriends all know about Lush as well as most of my adventures as a result of being a member here. I've even tried to recruit two of them to join because I think they'll benefit greatly from being here just as I have.
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1. Have you fantasised about watching your hubby fucking another woman? No!
2. Do you want it to happen? No!
3. Have it happened? No!

I don't share or play well with others. Not my thing.


Couldn't have said it better myself
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Just some friendly advice, fill in your profile, use an avatar other than the vile red and white and you'll have a bit more luck. Also, don't aggressively pursue cyber. Other than that, welcome.


I'd listen to GingerKitty - wise words
If it pleases my man, it pleases me but it's not something I seek out myself if only because of the mess factor. My favorite way is usually in the shower - kill two birds with one stone ;)
Well, as much as I don't like the feel of condoms, safe sex is paramount for me and condoms are just part of the package. If or when an encounter moves towards being exclusive and monogomous, I'm more than thrilled to do away with the plastic cock wrappers and enjoy sex the way God intended - skin on skin.
I too have been every colour imaginable at different points in my life - it helps that my mom was a hairdresser. Although my natural hair colour today is dark brown thanks to my Italian heritage, I had naturally blonde, or 'dirty blonde' hair until I was about 10 years old thanks to my paternal grandmother's side who were all very blonde (that's the French side to me).

Today, I prefer to stick with my natural colour with the exception of some natural highlights and more recently, the ombre look (the girls will know what this is). I've never really noticed a huge difference regarding the attention I got being blonde versus brunette or whatever colour I was sporting at the time and am in total agreement that personality will often be the deciding factor.

As for my personal preferences, I tend to gravitate towards men with darker hair but again, it has more to do with the man than this roots.
Apart from the obvious ramblings concerning hygiene and oral care, one of my biggest turn off's is when he can't tear himself away from his cell phone while on a date with me. Seriously. I consider myself to be a pretty easy going girl but that shit drives me crazy and think it's just plain rude.

I will and have made some exceptions if I'm on a date with a single dad and there is an issue with his kid(s) since that is the only thing that would make me take my own call or text but and even then, ONE call is fine but anything more, I'm starting to roll my eyes and reaching for my purse. "CHECK PLEASE!"
I actually hate flying for many of the same reasons listed already. I also suffer from claustrophobia which means I am prone to anxiety attacks from time to time (oh joy!), usually on smaller commuter planes - that certainly doesn't help things. Unfortunately, flying is a necessary evil if I want to get out and see the world and have new experiences, which I have and do as often as possible. I just pull up my big girl pants and suck it up.

Oh, and alcohol. Yeah. Booze always seems to help me get through it
I loved her bio. Very well wriiten and straight to the point. She is a woman not to mess with and I both appreciate and respect that very much especially on here.
It goes both ways. There are just as many men blatantly passing themselves off as someone they're not in real life ESPECIALLY when it comes to their cocks

Personally, I find it all very amusing especially when I see pics with very bad photo shopping or recognize stills taken from a popular catalogue or a porn movie I've seen before (how sad is it that I really can do this? ugh). What I find even more entertaining is reading the comments under these fakes pics from men and women who appear to have taken the bait.

Anyways, it is what it is. At the end of the day, we all have the choice to accept friendship and chat requests or not, simple. Thankfully there are enough authentic profiles of really great people on here that more than make for the fake ones
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I took 10 loads one time. 10 hot wet loads were then able to fit into just three of those mega load dyers.

That's what I get for letting the washer break down. It even cost me a pretty penny - $25.00 . . . but it was done in less than 4 hours so I guess it was worth it.


Priceless response
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I haven't. I've been in some relationships that began as friendships, but there was always a romantic element. Maybe it's me. I can't imagine having a play partner without some sort of romance element. My heart and my penis are attached somehow.

Please, don't make me turn in my man card.
I'm going out to ride my motorcycle or start the grill now.


Too funny!

I'm with c50t except that it's my heart and my vagina that are attached. I'd be lying if I didn't admit to having wished that weren't the case sometimes. I think life would be more fun and certainly more carefree otherwise but c'est la vie. Thank God for alcohol! CHEERS!!!!
I agree with T_Elle, I have NO problems climaxing and cumming hard to just oral sex. Even though I genuinely love it, I too will admit to not feeling COMPLETELY satisfied with that alone most of the time - there is just something so fucking incredible about deep penetration that simply can not be replaced *sigh*
Its 5:10 a.m. and Ive been tossing and turning for most of the night, horny and in desperate need to cum...so I did...and may again before the sun rises :-)
I prefer regular cowgirl for all the wonderfully delicious reasons listed above. Giddy-up Cowboy!!