Honestly, what is the allure of fucking other people whilst in a relationship or watching someone fuck your wife while you watched??? I can't even wrap my brain around that. I mean, what is the point in being in a 'relationship' in the first place?
Of course! I think it's only natural but at the same time, you have to remember where you are and to tread carefully on sites like this in terms of getting too emotionally wrapped up in someone (although there are always the exceptions to the rule). Everyone wants to think they are more 'special' than the next stud or bimbo on here and to see that that is not necessarily the case can be an uncomfortable reality check. Jealousy is just part of the dance between men and women.
I'm not sure I would call it 'regret' necessarily as I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason if only to teach us more about ourselves and help make us better BUT there were a couple of situations in my past that I wouldn't mind a do-over or a not-do-at-all.
Like many, I know all to well what a broken heart feels like and can completely empathize with you. It's fine and even healthy to spend a few moment grieving the fail of that relationship, it shows you cared about it and her BUT then it's time to buck up and move on even if you're just pretending - fake it until you make it! Deleting all her contact information is an awesome start so congratulations for having the courage to follow through on that. Moving on and getting past the hearbreak won't be easy but you will live and life goes on and love will indeed blossom once again when you're ready for it. Stay strong and please don't let this experience taint you for other relationships. Learn from it and use it to better yourself. Good luck!
Just got home from having Mexican with friends and had me a couple of Coronas with lime, YUM!
Hmm, probably the Mile High Club only because I can finally say I'm part of the 'club' BUT only if the restrooms are bigger than the ones I've been in lately - can barely fit one person in them never mind two!!
Oh my, so many things - I would love to be taller, thinner, younger, smarter, prettier, maybe a little less sensitive...shall I continue???? Oi vey!
This morning before I got out of bed.
My legs, with a cheap razor while in the bathtub.
Yes, once was harmless drunken fun where we all laughed and carried on with our evening. The second time was in a busy arena while my son was playing hockey and I came across a young man in a corner where he saw me, dropped his drawers and proceeded to masturbate! Needless to say, I screamed at him then ran to get security but by the time I could find some help, the pervert was gone. NOT harmless at all!
Stairway to Heaven always transports me back to high school and reminds me of my first love.
So refreshing to hear some men list 'my wife' as their ideal partner - congratulations on being so lucky!
The only way I would have a problem with it is if it became something that was super secretive and the porn became a replacement for me. Otherwise, I'm fine with it to a healthy degree as I certainly have my own needs that sometimes can't be met by partner for one reason or another. Having said, I have always and would always do my best to be as available to my man as I possibly can be so resorting to porn would be more of a couple thing than a solo act ;-)
I am one that gets bored pretty quickly when it comes to exercise which is why, up until this year, I've never been much of a gym girl but rather enjoyed playing sports (was a huge tomboy and jock in school) or sign up for classes either with friends or alone. Having been pretty inactive and unmotivated the last 3-4 years mainly due to feeling in the dumps about the fail of my marriage, I kind of feel like I'm starting from scratch again with getting back into shape. Realizing this and my attention span with gyms but a sincere desire to get fit, I decided to make an investment in myself for the first time and hired a personal trainer three times a week. We talked about what I wanted to get out of the training, what my goals were and then set some like running in a couple of races this summer and fall. Most of my friends are too busy with their own lives to join me so I took matters into my own hands. It hasn't been easy and I still have a long ways to go but it has kept me accountable and motivated especially when i can talk with my trainer whenever I'm struggling with staying motivated. Its been wonderful so far and I'm excited about the woman I'm reuniting with.
If you can swing it financially, I highly recommend it atleast until you gget into a routine and get comfy with working out and with yourself in terms of doing it without your buddies in toe.
