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BelleduJour
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
Canada
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Quote by HK4167
If he's cheating his wife now, someday he will cheat on you as well. So, don't go there.
Exactly! There is a reason for the saying 'once a cheater, always a cheater'. You can do so much better but you need to believe that for yourself. Don't get sucked into something you may not be able to handle.
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I have boobs, big ones so my go-to attire is anything that shows off my cleavage. And if I REALLY want attention, I'll opt for a fitted top that hugs my ample bosom (always tasteful, never trashy of course).
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Quote by Elling50
After a lifetime of reading erotic stories and porn in secret, I decided to tell my wife. She was hurt and felt betrayed and wondered if she was not enough for me. But it opened up communications and intimacy in a way that has wastly improved our relationship. I think you are right.
HALLELUJAH!! Finally someone that showed courage and maturity to actually C-O-M-M-U-N-I-C-A-T-E with his partner!! I can't tell you how long I've been waiting to hear someone do this. Congratulations for taking the leap and especially for how it ended up 'vastly' improving your relationship. LOVE IT!
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I have many but the ones that come to mind at the moment would be Kathy Griffin, Canadian boy Russell Peters and my absolute favourite is Brian Regan!
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I'm in LOVE with Lissie these days and just finished watching her video 'Everywhere I go' 
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Wow, wonderful see such open minded and adventurous men. Love it.
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Yes, I've had my fair share of tributes over the years and although I suppose I'm flattered in some small way, it does nothing for me.
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I would be a liar if I didn't admit to having done the botox thing a handful of times in the past. I also will admit to having been guilty of spending more time than I'd like to admit seriously contemplating and investigating various medical procedures that would reunite me with my younger self if only temporarily BUT then (thankfully) I have a moment of clarity and realize that I don't want to be one of those women who is so superficial as to think that looking younger will give me a better life all the while heading straight into bankrupsy just to keep up with the ongoing maintenance.
Having said that, as much as I have come to embrace the aging process and all that that means, it can still be challenging not to get caught up in chasing youth especially if one is single and looking to compete for a man's attention amongst an army of barbies. The key is to learn to accept who you are and find the beauty in that and if you're lucky, you'll have or find a partner that will love you just as you are.
As for my daily primping routine, I'm pretty low maintenance and only need about 30 minutes to go from bedhead to bodacious and that's exactly how I like my man to be as well.
Having said that, as much as I have come to embrace the aging process and all that that means, it can still be challenging not to get caught up in chasing youth especially if one is single and looking to compete for a man's attention amongst an army of barbies. The key is to learn to accept who you are and find the beauty in that and if you're lucky, you'll have or find a partner that will love you just as you are.
As for my daily primping routine, I'm pretty low maintenance and only need about 30 minutes to go from bedhead to bodacious and that's exactly how I like my man to be as well.
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Green smoothie tonight 
but I'll be dreaming it was a juicy cheeseburger with all the trimmings, sweet potato fries and an ice cold Corona with a wedge of lime...and maybe even a warm apple pie a-la-mode for dessert - GOD I wish! 
but I'll be dreaming it was a juicy cheeseburger with all the trimmings, sweet potato fries and an ice cold Corona with a wedge of lime...and maybe even a warm apple pie a-la-mode for dessert - GOD I wish! 
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Agreed. I am one of those women who very much appreciates a PM with some kind of introduction over any random poke or chat window request out of the blue. I think you will have better luck doing that especially with any woman with an ounce of substance. On the flip side, chat rooms are indeed a valid option (not my thing but I know it works for many on here). But as said already, respect is important and should be exercised at all times. Good luck!
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I met my ex husband on a blind date. It went so well that we became a couple that night.
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Oh my! Let's see...
It would be a mix of hand jobs and blow jobs but car, restaurant, pool, ocean, elevator, movie theatre, in the woods while hiking and park bench at night :-)
It would be a mix of hand jobs and blow jobs but car, restaurant, pool, ocean, elevator, movie theatre, in the woods while hiking and park bench at night :-)
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Being the 'good catholic girl' I tried to be very early in my life, I had an issue with having sex on Sundays. Somehow screaming "OH MY GOD!" whilst having a man between my legs just felt like blasphemy and ultimately was an express ticket straight to hell. Thankfully, I managed to get over it 
To answer your question, no, I don't do anything special for Sunday sex - I'm just grateful to have sex no matter what day of the week
To answer your question, no, I don't do anything special for Sunday sex - I'm just grateful to have sex no matter what day of the week
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You'll have to ask my man what it is that I do that turns him on 
As for what turns me on when it comes to my man, just about anything and everything
As for what turns me on when it comes to my man, just about anything and everything
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Personally, I prefer just the plain (smooth) lubricated condoms over anything with ridges, studs, swirls or whatever 
Once I know my man and I are monogomous (and tested), I'm more than thrilled to do my happy dance when we can finally throw away them Trojans once and for all!! 
Once I know my man and I are monogomous (and tested), I'm more than thrilled to do my happy dance when we can finally throw away them Trojans once and for all!! 
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Quote by Ravyn
Maturity and intellect have more to do with it than the actual age (as long as they are above the age of consent that is.)
Totally agree with Ravyn. I'm very drawn to men with strong characters which typcially comes from having a great personality, a sense of awarenes, accountability, integrity and intellectual maturity. Having a great sense of humour is also very important. If he has these qualities, regardless of age, I'm hopelessly hooked.
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Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
I disagree. Unless I see a dick print or something through their pants, I see a guy's face long before I see his dick. With that being said, my interest in terms of how he looks and who he is as a person has to be piqued long before we're ever in a position for me to see his dick. So can a guy penis size make him more attractive? If a guy looks good and has a nice cock, then that's like icing on a cake. But if a guy looks good and has a cock that leaves a little to be desired, does that take away from his overall attractiveness? I'm gonna say no.
I'm with slipperywhenwet2012 on this one as well. Penis size isn't something I notice first or zone in on upon first meeting a guy. I'm attracted first to his look but more importantly, his personality, his ability to carry a conversation, intelligence, sense of humour and his overall character LONG before I ever even think about the size of his cock. Once all of that is established, then getting to meet his penis becomes the next step. I'm just happy that he has one, that it works and that he knows how to use it - the size of it really isn't a huge concern for me.
Having been lucky (or unlucky) to have experienced less than average, average and uncomfortable sizes, if I had to make a wish upon first meeting my new man's cock for the first time, I'd be the woman who'd wish for a lovely average size penis but that's not to say I wouldn't be willing to work with whatever I got if I really liked the guy.
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Quote by blazestcyr
i would wish for my kids to be happy....to be able to support themselves & to find good partners to grow old with
oops that's three...i am greedy
Ditto! Anything and everything else would be a glorious bonus but as a parent, my child's happiness and well being always comes first.
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Oh yes, definitely a BIG fan of phone sex but its only as good as my partner. As I've mentioned a million times before in other posts, I have to feel a connection with my partner which comes with getting to know them better on all levels not just what their favourite sexual position is. When that connection has been made, any playtime including phone sex can and is off the charts awesome :-)
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Quote by jennybbaduk
The first time a man I am out with fails to treat me as anything less than a lady in public, I will walk out on him there and then. I do not only expect respect, I demand it.
AMEN! I think like most women, there is definitely something about the 'bad boy' that gets our attention. For me, I think it has more to do with him having confidence, blazing a trail of his own rather than bowing down to societal pressures and expectations more than him just being a full blown asshole for no reason. The 'bad boys' I've dated were the type of men who definitely enjoyed having a good time, including the company of women, who portrayed a hard, intimidating and aloof exterior but once you got past all the bravado, they really had a very soft gooey and tender centre - THAT can be intoxicating and that has always been the 'bad boy' type I've been attracted to.
Like jennybbaduk says, I not only expect to be respected and treated like a lady be it in public as well as in private, I demand it. Period. I feel very sad for girls today who don't value themselves enough to demand it even at their young age. I also feel even sadder that parents these days don't seem to be doing their job in raising strong, confident daughters or sons who can be a guy's guy but still know how to treat women. It's such a shame.