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Hmm, unfortunately it just doesn't seem to have the same appeal for women as it does for some men.
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BelleduJour
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
Canada
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Oh my...multiple ones about 5am this morning, then again at 10am and here's hoping a few more before lights out tonight ;)
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And for the record, I have NEVER cheated on a boyfriend (or husband) and never will.
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That doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship. Seems like you're just better off not being together. Not every guy cheats...that's NOT normal relationship behavior at all. But to each his own, I guess...
I completely agree with slipperwhenwet. Again, what is the bloody point in being in a relationship if you're going to cheat anyway? Sounds extremely immature and irresponsible not to mention utterly classless. Is this just about getting back at ALL cheating men - just because SOME men do, does that give you the right to go out and whore yourself out too? You don't have a mind of your own? What about your boyfriend - is he the cheating kind? If not, I'd do your boyfriend a favour and cut him loose, he deserves better. If he is the cheating kind, then you clearly deserve each other - mazel tov!!
Jesus Christ, what is this world coming to...
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Well, seeing as how I'm not exactly young anymore, 'older gentlemen' tend be a little too old for my liking. My preferred age range is usually somewhere between 35-45, however, there have been a few exceptions to that rule both older and especially younger. I think it really has a lot to do with the gentleman himself.
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I've been here more times than I'd like to admit. Chemistry is HUGE and intangible not to mention difficult to understand and even harder to explain. In my experience, as long as one person is feeling more, there is never an 'easy' way to let someone down. It just plain sucks unfortunately. The only thing you can do is be as kind and gentle and honest as possible but be prepared for the worst. If a friendship is meant to be, it will be otherwise, as we say in my career, 'thank and release'. It just is what it is.
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Personally, there are a hundred reasons why I would opt for lights out sex or mood lighting sex as many of them have already been outlined above. That's not to say I haven't or don't enjoy lights on or daylight sex which can be equally as hot but at my age, I can use all the mood lighting I can get, lol! At the end of the day, we're still both getting laid so why over think it? Just relax and enjoy the ride.
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Yeah, have experimented with different temperatures as well including ice and other than teasing my nipples and perhaps my belly with ice, I'm not a HUGE fan of being cold either. BUT once in a while it's fine - I'm all for changing things up to keep things fun and fresh.
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I haven't come across anyone I know by accident BUT I have recommended Lush to a handful of men I met on dating sites after I realized what they were really after. I just figured they'd do much better on here rather than working so hard to have some fun on a legit dating site when all they really wanted was some casual, naughty cyber and/or cam fun. Live and learn my friends, lol.
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Have never had a one night stand but have come close a few times. It's just not my thing.
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Just got back from the gym and in black trackies and a hot pink t-shirt, sports bra, black panties and am about to head upstairs to the shower.
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I already have a crazy sex drive but I have noticed it amp up to new levels since I've been diligently training for my first race in July. I think it has more to do with how I feel about myself more than anything else but who knows and who really cares? I'll NEVER complain about having a high sex drive no matter what the reason 
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Nothing new to report on this one given the responses - yes I have but always prefer to clean up at some point before lights out.
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Hmm, I can't say that I've actually broken out in full method-acting BUT I have certainly indulged in some fantasies where a costume or certain attire might enhance the experience. Serious role playing where myself or my partner are 'in character' just doesn't do anything for me - I find it a bit stressful and even a tad silly actually (not sure I'd be able to stop myself from laughing) and would much prefer to just dress the part and let things unfold naturally.
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If you enter into a marriage where you vow to love, honour and protect one another before friends, family and God, you shouldn't be looking for anyone else outside of that union. Jesus Christ! If that's the case, why fucking get married in the first place? What is the bloody point in commiting to one person if you intend not to be faithful? Not everyone needs to seek out sexual satisfaction outside of their marriage so to make such a generalized statement that it takes 3 or 4 people to make a marriage work is ridiculous and immature to say the least. What happened to old fashioned values and morals? You want to play the field and throw your pussy or cock around like it's a party favour - wonderful - go crazy! To each their own. But don't use an unfulfilling marriage or an unfulfilling relationship as an excuse to do it. It's cowardly at best.
To answer your original question, I think women are just as capable of separating love from sex and it has nothing to do with marriage.
To answer your original question, I think women are just as capable of separating love from sex and it has nothing to do with marriage.
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I always tend to drip when I'm not trying but am more of a gusher when I'm looking to climax hard and wet.
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A little bit of everything - I'm most definitely NOT quiet in the bedroom!
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I've been known to do this a time or two but only if I know I can really get away with it otherwise it just isn't my style to be so brazen. And just for the record, I would never 'cup a feel' unless he was MY man.
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Well, not like blatant in-your-face naughtiness but discreet fun, ABSOLUTELY! Let's see...dressing room, movie theatre, public restroom, elevator, stairwell, car of course, hiking trail, in the ocean, pool, lots of fondling under the table in a fancy restaurant, park bench at night...hmmm...I'm sure there may be one or two more but it's late and my brain is a bit foggy now, lol. Not all encounters were full on cock-in-pussy (some were but I'll leave you to ponder which ones perhaps) but they all ended with at least one of us cumming nonetheless ;-)
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Although not something I would want or need to have served up on my menu more than occassionally, I have engaged in the golden showers / pissing while fucking thing with a past lover. The act itself definitely isn't something that on it's own turns me on or something I fantasize about but rather it has more to do with the experience of it together with my partner - if he's turned on by it, then I am and it can definitely be very exciting provided you have the right attitude.
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I'd like to think that love can blossom anywhere provided two people are honest, committed and are on the same page about what they want. Sometimes starting online works even better because you spend a great deal of time talking and therefore learning so much about the other person than you might not get around to learning as quickly if you met in person. The only issue or concern I have with meeting someone on sites like Lush is the lure that this place has. Not everyone comes here for the same reasons and everyone's level of interaction differs so as much as I'd want to trust someone I fell in love with on here, I think I'd still always wonder if they are truely done with Lush. I'd like to think I'd be enough but who the hell really knows :P
