Like thesexyhun said, it is definitely a VERY hot fantasy for me! I guess I'm just not built to fuck for the sake of fucking and that's fine with me. There are SO many other fabulously naughty fantasies I've gotten to fulfil that I don't feel like I've missed out on anything.
Although I have a toy chest full of exciting and interesting choices, my tried and true is my Lelo rechargeable vibrator. LOVE IT!!! The best investment I ever made. Having said that, I do go through phases where I'll be up for some old-school masturbating and will just use my fingers. What can I say...I'm a simple girl :P
I LOVED cybering or talking dirty or whatever you want to call it BUT I only enjoyed it with men I had gotten to know over some time and friended and thus made some kind of connection. Early in my membership here, I tried the random requests to "go private" with faceless avatars and I realized pretty quickly that it wasn't for me. It just felt awkward particularly because we had no idea what turned each other on and it felt like a lot of work with very little reward. Personally, there is nothing more erotic than knowing at least a few of your partner's likes and dislikes so that when you get chatting, you know all the right buttons to push that makes for a fulfilling experience.
Of course, that's ME. I know there are many who don't care for that kind of connection and can and do chat it up nasty with anyone that pokes them. To each their own. Having said that, as much as I loved and enjoyed my online playtime, I have always and still enjoy the varied and very candid conversations with like-minded men and women that may or may not have included sex. Cybering was the least of my reasons for being here.
Again, everyone comes here for different reasons. Just because it's a sex site doesn't mean that every person here checked their morals or values or brain at the door. Many navigate this place very much like they would in real life. And just like in real life, some people are easier than others while others are a bit more discerning about what they want to experience and with whom. You just have to be honest about what it is you want and ask the questions in order to find your perfect online naughty match.
Others??? As in performing on some kind of webcast where a collection of strangers pay or sign on to watch me? No and have NO interest in doing that. Not my style. I'm no stranger to playing on cam and cumming but I've always been one to enjoy that kind of intimacy one-on-one with partners I've culled, made connections with and trusted. These days, I have only one cam partner that I enjoy "showing off to" and that's just how I like it.
I'm having a deja vu moment here...didn't you post this same question in another thread?
Nope and based on some of the porn clips I've witnessed, I'm not interested in trying any time soon.
I have had both and will say that I definitely prefer my men to be have some hair "down there" - well trimmed and groomed with shaved balls. Super sexy in my humble opinion.
Seriously? I've never heard this before. Personally, I have no issue with it at all. I mean, it's not the descriptive I might choose most of the time but it certainly is more than acceptable.
Very, very, VERY early this morning whilst having phone sex with my man resulting in multiple orgasms ;)
I can't say that I ever turned anyone down or broke up with anyone just because of the size of their cock. My ex husband, despite his stature, was/is larger than average particularly in his girth and because of that, certain positions were uncomfortable and sometimes even painful, but I stuck it out with him for 20 years.
If you care for someone, I can't imagine ending it just because of their size alone (big or small). There are so many variations to having great intercourse but it all starts with a conversation.
I think only YOU can answer this one. From what I can see based on what you've said, he's made it very clear that because of the distance, you'll "never be his girlfriend".
As for him feeling comfortable kissing and hugging you, of course he does!! He's a guy for heaven's sake!! And if you offered up your body and gave him the green light for GO, he'll be comfortable with having sex with you too. Guys, particular young guys will NEVER pass up an opportunity to get laid and will probably say and do whatever they can to get what they want.
You seem sweet and you're very young and it's clear that you're wanting more despite the distance. This is where you need to spend some time and think about the reality of your situation. You need to understand that there is a real strong possibility that IF you decide to act like his girlfriend including sleeping with him, it won't change anything between the two of you except that you now have a physical relationship without monogamy. If you're okay with that, if you think you can handle the intimacy without the exclusivity, then enjoy your time with him but remember to continue to live your life and have fun when you're not with him because he certainly will.
If you ask me, he's just another guy looking to have his cake and eat it to when it comes to you. Not unusual for young men I don't think. The writing is on the wall with this guy and he's been honest with you from the start. Don't be disillusioned into thinking that you can change his mind and therefore give all of yourself to him only to realize you're the only one giving anything. You'll end up being the only one hurt in the end. Be smart about it and remember that expectation is the root of all heartache.
Good luck sweetie.
I can't say that I've ever spent time "fantasizing" about being a prostitute in terms of it getting me or my partner off in a role-playing scenario. I think the idea of exchanging sexual favours for money kind of ruins that fantasy for me BUT that doesn't mean I haven't wondered about the profession out of pure curiosity. Particularly high priced escorts more than regular street walkers like Belle in Secret Diary of a Call Girl. I'm sure television and movies make it out to be much more glamorous than it really is so it's not something I feel I need or want in my sexual repertoire.
Apart from Skyping with my family and my man, I'll be spending Christmas alone.
Spank and then be spanked ;)
Well, I'm not sure you're being very fair in saying that Lushies don't have a sense of humour. I happen think I have a GREAT sense of humour and if I didn't think I had one before arriving here, I certainly have one now thanks to the stuff I've seen and read and heard and witnessed and experienced which has been nothing short of entertaining. You absolutely have to have a sense of humour if you have any chance of surviving on here with your dignity in tact.
Having said that, this IS a SEX site after all so YES, sex is on the brain for those of us who are members (including you) otherwise, they'd call it Facebook. And being such a sight, there are a wide variety of personalities clashing on here including profiles that get off on bullying others with dickish responses and those who seek out attention at any cost and everything in between. Seems a lot like real life if you ask me, wouldn't you agree?
I think if anything, perhaps it might behove YOU to have a sense of humour while visiting here. It makes for a much more pleasant experience that way.
I can't imagine why anyone would spend the time taking inventory of how many times they've had SEX since...well...since they started having sex. Keeping track of partners is one thing but keeping count of how many times you got busy with someone? Seems like a really odd thing to do unless you've just started having sex in which case you can count on one or two hands.
I'd be curious to see how people will respond to this thread.
I've had all of the above at one point in my life and none of them lasted forever so...
I'm with Shylass on this one and concur that there's so much more that goes into deciding on "the one" than a few words strung together to paint a picture of someone. I would venture to guess that a nice blend of all three would be the best option for any woman but for the sake of this thread, that might be classified as cheating so...I give up.
