Taking a cue from thesexynun, I would have to say the three big "B's"; boobs, brain and my big brown eyes.
I've done the one-on-one /cam thing with partners over the years but never have I've jumped online and allowed God and country to watch me get busy with or without a partner. Not my thing but more power to you if that excites you.
It can vary depending on energy level, stress, need for sleep, if my son is home with me, if I'm ill or if my partner is with me. On average, I would say I orgasm, one way or another, about twice a day every day. If I'm particularly horny or even just bored and time permits, that number could increase significantly.
In short, to answer your question "How orgasmic are you?", I would rate myself as very orgasmic.
What did their message say? Was it confrontational or friendly? What does their profile reveal? What do you stand to lose exactly? According to your profile, your husband knows your on here despite his disapproval. Apart from your avatar which is tasteful in my opinion (if it's really you), you don't have any inappropriate or nude pictures of yourself open for just anyone to see. You write some erotica, so what? The foundation of Lush's existence was to be a venue for both amateur and more experienced writers of erotica to read and share their stories That isn't a crime. The fact that this friend/acquaintance of yours is on here too should be insurance enough. I'm not sure what it is you think you're at risk losing.
Smooch, screw and as maisiegirl already said, playful slap!
I'm game for whatever Choosiemamma wants ;)
Absolutely not. Not my thing.
I've been here only in the reverse and I went MANY more years without sex in my marriage than you so I know what I'm talking about. I understand the tug of war that occurs when you still love your partner but feel completely frustrated with the lack of intimacy, especially if it's one sided. Marriage is a give and take and there are TWO people in the relationship after all.
Unfortunately, I don't have any great advice to pass along that will fix all your problems. After YEARS of trying to desperately fix my own marriage, I finally came to the realization that I couldn't do it any more, be the only one that seemed to be fighting for our marriage and made the hard decision to end it and break up my family but that was only after having exhausted EVERY option I could think of including couple's and sex therapy.
At some point, you may have to ask yourself if this is as good as it will ever be with your wife, is it good enough? Once you ask that question, you will have to make some hard decisions. Hopefully your love will sustain things but my experience has taught me that sometimes love just isn't enough.
Good luck.
If you have to ask the question, I think you already know what the answer is.
I've been down this road before, so I understand how frustrating it can be; to love someone you're bound to but completely frustrated with the lack of sex. It's difficult to handle particularly if you've tried to talk it out with your partner and they don't see a problem and/or can't or won't work with you to improve things. I don't think anyone on here can tell you what to do or what is the "right" thing to do. That is ultimately up to you and therefore you will have to live with your choices. If you haven't shared your feelings with your current partner, I would start there. You owe it to both of you to say what's on your mind and put it all out on the table. I just caution you if you're leaning towards having an affair because it's a slippery slope. Sometimes this types of things turn out to be better in theory than reality.
Doggy style...ass in the air...head buried in the pillow...my man behind me...raw and passionate fucking...no time for tender lovemaking...nail digging into my hips...beads of sweat dripping down our bodies...dirty talk...my man's hand making contact with my ass...hard...where pain causes so much pleasure.
I'm guilty of it and will admit to enjoying it very much. As I've said in similar threads on this subject before, I'm not an exhibitionist by any means and am not into making people around me uncomfortable. However, there is something very erotic and exciting about a bit of PDA or tease that's exchanged that is known only by the two of us that makes for wildly intoxicating foreplay.
I'm a fund development officer for a national cancer charity - basically raise millions of dollars for a good cause. I'm good at what I do and I love it. I like knowing that I'm helping to make a difference.
I've deleted them for one reason or another. I guess I was part of the 3%. Good to know. 
We're all good! 
That's exactly what I did! 
BINGO! 
