The best way to deal with that is just to be there. I lost my mom four years ago to cancer. She was the best friend I ever had. I couldnt say goodbye to her...and when the time came, I didnt get a chance. But from day one I was right there when she needed me. Taking care of her with the same patience and love that she showed me while I was growing up. I cant even count the number of nights I sat up with her chatting about our lives and all the fun we had....and also the nights when she was sick and needed someone there just to help her go to the bathroom.
That is the best thing you can do...treat every day like you have forever with that person and at the same time, treat it like it is your last day to have them.
They do want to be looked at. They just dont want you to know thats what they want.
Play...when I decide to come after you I will specify that it is you I am after. LOL Did you take a number when you got here?
This just proves my theory that Mother's should be allowed more "free time" whatever that means...See what happens when we are couped up in the house too long? lol
It does look interesting, though.
If you dont like the wind, surround yourself with wind chimes. That was sort of my motto...except the wind has not stopped for three days. Last night I opened the back door just to yell, SHUUUUUTTTTT UUUUUPPPPP!!! I CANT HEAR MYSELF THINK!!!! Only to have the live-in say, very calm and quiet like, Well, they are your wind chimes...
He should be out of the hospital in a few days...
Knife fight = a short lived, whirlwind of emotions....sounds like a relationship to me. Probably lasted longer than most relationships. LOL
I dont have relationship troubles. My live-in and I have an agreement, You stay out of my way and I will stay out of your way and everyone is happy. Once a week we have hallway sex (thats where you pass each other in the hallway and say f$%& you, no f$%& you...) Life is good.
Yummy ideas everyone...Just turn me into a Birdie Sunday and eat me!! LMAO
And all those people just stood there calmly and watched....I would have gotten out of the way. Wow...