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Bunny12
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 62
United States
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Quote by dpw
I've always found that a penis is the best thing to massage the prostate and the recipient to be in a supine position. That's just my own findings not a scientific study but if there are any volunteers and someone to take notes then I'm game!
dpw I when use my strap on it definitely does the trick. I asked a bi guy I did if he liked my strap on or a real cock better he replied "They are both great but a real cock has never fucked me as long as you did" so guess I'm the energizer bunny! lol I'm sure gay guys would like the real thing better.
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Here are a few articles I found that give the basics. I think the most important thing is to pay attention to his bodies reactions and combine the prostate massage with a blow job. Adding some toys like cock rings, prostate vibrators, dildos etc. can ramp up the experience as well. I find teasing and rubbing his hole till it just sucks my finger or a toy right in then begin massaging the prostate the way to go.
Most information recommends using a come hither motion with your finger as the best massage technique which is how I start but I find just pressing into it and rubbing in a circular motion better and change it up from come hither to circular to pressing and releasing works well. When his hole begins involuntarily contracting around my finger and his prostate is puffed up and throbbing that is a sign of anal orgasms which many can occur before the final explosive ejaculation. If you are really working that prostate good he will often just ooze cum during the process which I've been told feels like a long slow orgasm. I also like to keep the blow job going after the big eruption and sometimes get second and third smaller eruptions. I want to try giving a prostate massage while doing some sounding I think that will really blow his top!
http://www.eve.com.mt/2013/07/15/how-to-give-a-mind-blowing-prostate-massage/
http://niche-men-health.blogspot.com/2009/06/how-to-give-prostate-massage.html
Most information recommends using a come hither motion with your finger as the best massage technique which is how I start but I find just pressing into it and rubbing in a circular motion better and change it up from come hither to circular to pressing and releasing works well. When his hole begins involuntarily contracting around my finger and his prostate is puffed up and throbbing that is a sign of anal orgasms which many can occur before the final explosive ejaculation. If you are really working that prostate good he will often just ooze cum during the process which I've been told feels like a long slow orgasm. I also like to keep the blow job going after the big eruption and sometimes get second and third smaller eruptions. I want to try giving a prostate massage while doing some sounding I think that will really blow his top!
http://www.eve.com.mt/2013/07/15/how-to-give-a-mind-blowing-prostate-massage/
http://niche-men-health.blogspot.com/2009/06/how-to-give-prostate-massage.html
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Quote by gunshopgirl
Hmm, never even heard of this. Now I'm curious. So Bunny dear, where would one go to find a decent tutorial?
Hmm I don't know maybe google "How to give a prostate massage" I've never really read much about it just been doing it for years. Also prostate size and depth differ greatly from man to man some more like the size of a walnut some a little smaller, some deeper or some more shallow. It is easier to find if you get them good and hard first so it's swollen. It's located about 2-3" in facing up towards his balls. Wear surgical gloves to avoid any injury from finger nails and of course lots of lube a thick gel type works best. I've written some stories and poems describing some I've given if that helps.
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Giving a prostate massage is definitely a specialized skill and having long fingers helps! lol The prostate massages I have given have all usually resulted in mind blowing orgasms for the men but unfortunately it seems there are not many women who have any clue about this practice. Most find it either gross or think there is some gay connotation there. When done properly some men can achieve many anal orgasms well before ejaculation. I totally get off on controlling a man's body in that manor and giving pleasure to the extreme!
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Here's a completely different opinion for you. She obviously loves you because she is with you not him. Think of how fantastic it would be if you both trusted each other enough to have a more open relationship so you both could explore you sexual fantasies together and sometimes with other people. What's good for the goose is good for the gander and swingers are some of the nicest people we have met. It's actually more fun when you're in a group situation with your spouse. You have to be able to view sex and love as too different things or it won't work. As long as you are suspicious and waiting for disaster, though you may have reason to be, it will eat away at you and drive you both apart. Some serious communication is needed between you two for sure to resolve anything. Good luck!
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Most will probably disagree with me but seeing that the mind is the largest sexual organ of all I'd say Lush is absolutely a porn site. Also the popularity of the category would lead me to believe that as well. I don't view porn as a negative thing so maybe that's the reason for my point of view.
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I don't mean to be harsh but as long as your messing around with married men that are sneaking around drama is all you will ever get! That's why I like swingers everything is on the table and the wife either knows or is also involved. Also online fantasy relationships tend to mostly end abruptly or badly. When you can talk to a person face to face and actually touch them it is 1000% better!
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Time to take control hon put a dildo in his hand and tell him to get to work before your lips ever touch his cock! My bf actually loves doing me with my fav glass dildo after he's done me or while I'm giving the hubby a bj. With a lot of men once they have cum their done so make sure to get yours before he gets his if he's not going to get the job done.
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Right - my response to that one would be to throw him in a maids outfit, make him clean the house and care for the kids then ass fuck him and inform him he'll be baby sitting while I go out on a date with one of my boyfriends but then that's just me.....good luck with his fantasy I'm betting that's not happening!
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I'd say you are straight with women and a submissive bi bottom with men. I know a few men like this and they lead lives of hooking up with men on the lowdown in secret and have all he same guilt and anguish ridden feelings you have. It is a hard road to go down hon....
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Some recent things that come to mind are smothering his face with titties as he was kneeling doing Christmas tree lights then being thrown over the back of a couch and vaginally fingered aggressively and cumming several times. Watching his whole body shake as he was cumming while I fucked his ass with my largest black strap on cock doggie style grabbing his hips for leverage. Then there's being fucked with a nubby glass dildo while rubbing a vibrator on my clit and cumming so hard I squirted all over.
