Ask or suggest, but telling ain't gonna work in the long run.
I am married and this isn't something that is a problem in our relationship. But loving. touching, showing affection and verbally expressing your love goes way beyond sex. It's something that you have to do all the time. A relationship of love, a partnership that is a marriage requires fuel every day. If someone withholds any of that for any reason then the marriage/relationship will die. It takes both people constantly giving of themselves to the other in many ways. If you're not willing to do that, then your marriage/relationship will die.
If several decades from now, you want to be that old white headed couple strolling slowly through the park, holding hands, obviously with a strong bond of love, then you have to work at it. It doesn't just come to you. It's a huge commitment that gives back a huge pay off.
There is no room for being vindictive, holding grudges, being non-forgiving or aloof in a marriage. Anyone who holds back their affection to their spouse/partner is either stupid or a cruel, shallow fool.
Like an electrical spasm of incredible pleasure shooting through me like a rocket launch at Cape Canaveral.
When I'm out clubbing I'm seeing more and more of girls in the tall stay up thigh stockings and ultra short tight dresses. The dress hemline which barely covers the butt, hits right around the top band of the stay ups. I've especially noticed this over the last 6 months and it seems to be a fast growing trend. Is this porn influencing fashion?
Vince Vaughn's character Frank Semyon sure got a lot more interesting. This was a fun episode. But that shotgun 'riot shot' trick on Velcoro was a cheap tactic to hold viewers. So Velcoro is still alive. I wondered if they'd pull something like that, but I knew from last week's scene that he wasn't wearing a bullet proof vest. Still the episode was very entertaining.
Regionally and culturally, I usually write about what I know, but it is good to try and stretch your writing. There are things you can experiment with. Its also good to write about something you have to research. You can do this this with time periods, writing stories set in past decades or even further back or in the future.
Sunny, warm and breezy, perfect for a dip in the pool.
I can't think of a serious pet peeve. But I can say that I do love the word 'cumming'. When you see it in an erotic story there is no denying what it is. It is easily recognizable. Its just a word that works and is proving to be very popular in the genre.
Slang has a very important place in the language and reflects reality. The truth of what is really going on in the language of today's society. We know the English language is in a continual growth mode. Established English dictionaries add new words with each new addition.
Cum and cumming, to me is a much more sensual, sexual, erotic way of spelling that word. It sells what it means.
Are we talking about in this lifetime only?
No preference. It all depends upon how well it is written, the story concept, consistency, whether it has great dialogue, excellent action and is believable.
