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Buz
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 40
0 miles · Atlanta
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I am very familiar with the Third Date Rule from my single days. To most of the guys it was if you haven't got sex by the third date, it's time to move on.
What Ashleigh said above rings very familiar. I remember cooking my marinated chicken with rice pilaf a few times on either the second or third date, have a bottle of wine. Well, my living room wasn't too inviting (it was also served as the garage for my motorcycle and a kayak hung from the ceiling, not to mention the bench press and weights), my TV was in the bedroom, so that's where we ended up after dinner and the wine was finished. I don't remember watching the TV though.
I didn't go by a formula and quite often sex happened on the first or second date.
What Ashleigh said above rings very familiar. I remember cooking my marinated chicken with rice pilaf a few times on either the second or third date, have a bottle of wine. Well, my living room wasn't too inviting (it was also served as the garage for my motorcycle and a kayak hung from the ceiling, not to mention the bench press and weights), my TV was in the bedroom, so that's where we ended up after dinner and the wine was finished. I don't remember watching the TV though.
I didn't go by a formula and quite often sex happened on the first or second date.
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Quote by dpw
Do me a favour Buz, read my posts and tell me if I've got it wrong.
Did you ever go out on the "rebound" after a 3 week relationship finished or did you just go out to find another girl?
After only a three week relationship, it wouldn't have been a rebound, more of just 'who's next?' Yes, just to find another girl.
If I had been in a serious relationship, within 3 weeks of breaking up, I was still reeling, but probably rebounding with someone and probably in a state of confusion. So not capable of developing a new serious relationship.
Hope that makes sense.
For many guys rebounding is just having as much sex as possible to keep the hurt off your mind or of she's already fucking someone else, that you can do that too. Whoa be to the new people involved.
Damn, I'm sure glad I'm married and not playing those single-relationship dating games. Marriage is work as well as fulfillment, but the focus is different and really its more simple. Going on 3 years and its pretty damn good.
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Quote by Dani
Being on the rebound has nothing to do with levels of involvement. The person you choose as a rebound doesn't necessarily have to be long-term. Most people use rebounds as a distraction from the pain of ending a relationship. Some use rebounds to make the ex jealous. Others rebound quickly because they don't know how to not be in a relationship or just can't be alone even in between relationships.
I remember dealing with the rebounds and using them myself. A rather nasty situation. Rebound bf's used by the ex to hurt me, and me returning the not so kind favor. Silly immature games. I was guilty,
So be wary of that situation, play it careful, try not to get hurt.
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On a Mac, I have found putting the pic on my desktop or a folder is best. Just click the upload pic icon and scroll to the folder or find it on the desktop and select the image and upload. If its in one of my image folders on my Lush bio page I've never been able to get the image to load.
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You have to face it, a lot of Lush's lesbian profiles are straight men pretending to be women lesbians, so naturally they don't want some guy sending them a dick pic etc.
Most of the real lesbians just enjoy having friends who ARE real friends, whether male of female. Just treat them as any other friend. Treating them as a sex object when they have no interest or such, in that direction is just stupid.
Most of the real lesbians just enjoy having friends who ARE real friends, whether male of female. Just treat them as any other friend. Treating them as a sex object when they have no interest or such, in that direction is just stupid.
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First of don't go cheap, spend the money and use a highly regarded tattoo artist.
I have 4 tattoos. The upper arms (deltoids) On one arm a very cool tribal motif and the other is about something I love. I have a smaller tattoo on the side of my lower leg, means something special to me. I have a rather large tattoo on my upper middle back just below my neck that stretches behind my shoulder blades and celebrates my heritage. All of my tattoos are easily hideable with clothes if need be, especially for business reasons.
You should consider your career/line of work and whether or not visible tattoos will hurt your future income potential. If so, make sure they cover up with whatever clothing you need to wear in your career.
I have 4 tattoos. The upper arms (deltoids) On one arm a very cool tribal motif and the other is about something I love. I have a smaller tattoo on the side of my lower leg, means something special to me. I have a rather large tattoo on my upper middle back just below my neck that stretches behind my shoulder blades and celebrates my heritage. All of my tattoos are easily hideable with clothes if need be, especially for business reasons.
You should consider your career/line of work and whether or not visible tattoos will hurt your future income potential. If so, make sure they cover up with whatever clothing you need to wear in your career.
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Yes I have trimmed and shape shaved my wife.
No razor or other sharp blade is getting down there on me. I've been waxed and I use a nice safe electric trimmer/shaver. She's been wanting me to grow the pubsters out enough so she color dye them, but NO, that's not going to happen.
No razor or other sharp blade is getting down there on me. I've been waxed and I use a nice safe electric trimmer/shaver. She's been wanting me to grow the pubsters out enough so she color dye them, but NO, that's not going to happen.
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Quote by HotBttmInBriefs
Speaking of badges, I hardly ever look at that part of my profile, but for some reason I noticed today that I lost my autobiographers badge. Not sure what I did to lose it. Or maybe Buz took it.
We're rewriting your autobiography. You won't even be able to recognize yourself when we're finished.
Send a note through the Contact Us. I once had a Badge disappear, I just sent a note in and it was restored.
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Quote by PersonalAssistant
I really like the addition of the few new categories (college sex, etc) ... terrific for the authors and the readers to find just what they want with one click!
I would love to see the category "Office Sex"
Pretty please ....
In my office now!!! hehehe
I like Office Sex, it could be encompass work in general, Office/Work Sex. But yes, how many stories would fit into this category? A lot I think. Offices or work is the setting for a lot of hook ups. Intriguing, scary, take-a-chance getting caught kind. hmmmm...
