My first flashing episode was at work when I was in college. I was 20 years old and my 30 year old (female) friend and I worked at a Go Cart/Bumper Boat kind of small amusement place on the outskirts of town. We worked for a really nice 38 year old man who treated us better than most of the teenagers that worked there.
One day, my friend and I were leaving work, most everyone was gone or the few workers that were left were inside. We were walking across the track. The boss was there moving go carts around and she said to me, Let's Flash Pete. I giggled and said, Really? And she said sure, give the guy a smile. So I yelled out Hey Pete! When he looked up, she and I lifted our shirts and bras and smiled, and I yelled Happy Birthday! as we giggled our wares shamelessly.
I don't know that I would ever have thought to do that on my own, but I was really happy to do it with my friend. And I know it brought Pete a smile.
First, understand that inducing lactation is a commitment that involves a fair amount of effort on her part. If successful, she will need to milk regularly, and that will mean a time commitment from both of you, unless she is "feeding" others besides yourself.
If it is of interest to you, like any other sexual desire, I think you should definitely broach the subject. As another individual posted, you can bring the subject up as something you've heard about and gauge her response. If she doesn't shut it down outright, I would definitely insert a comment that you find the idea sexy and again, gauge her interest by her response. I suggest using leading statements or asking questions that command a response, as in a discussion, not just a Look or a sigh.
If it were me, one of the questions I would want to know is, Are you interested in the suckling me like a Baby/being treated as a Baby thing or are you just interested in tasting the milk and connecting with me on another intimate level?
That's my 2 cents worth.
Is she comfortable being nude at home? If not, that's the first step. She is unlikely to want to be naked in an unfamiliar setting, especially with strangers around, if she is not comfortable being naked in front of you inside her own home.
Look up the website for the American Association of Nude Recreation and show her the articles written by women about their first visit to a nudist resort. That should help.
Offer to take her to some place far from your home, so she will have the comfort of anonymity and not have to worry about bumping into someone you know.
When and if she does agree, take her to a Clothing Optional resort, which will allow her to remain clothed for as long as she is comfortable, except for at the pool or hot tub, where everyone is required to be nude. Get a room at the resort where she can slowly acclimate to being nude in that setting. First, she will get nude in the room and eventually out on the deck and then off to the pool when she gets hot and has seen enough other people's naked bodies of all sizes, shapes and no shame. Most people warm up to it quickly in this type of scenario, where there is little pressure and lots of opportunity to ease into it at their own pace.
Lastly, tell her this is something you really want to do and you want to share the experience with her.
Good luck!
For me, I first recognized that a bathing suit was alluring apparel when I had my first boyfriend. Before that, although I developed a B sized chest early, it was always just friends and family and neighborhood kids, playing in the pool. We didn't have a public pool so we were always in backyard pools of people we knew well, so it was always a functional outfit.
My first boyfriend and I had been dating all winter and progressively getting more and more "familiar" with one another, when swimsuit season approached and it was time for me to go shopping for a new suit. That was the first time I sought out something sexy instead of just colorful and comfortable. I asked him what he'd like to see me in and selected suits along those lines that made me feel good and emanate a sexy look.
At 46DD now, I enjoy the obvious abundant cleavage that comes with a well-fitting suit, when I have to wear one at all (I much prefer swimming naked, whenever possible). And in my 20's, I figured out that removing the liner makes for a sexier look, especially when the suit is wet.
I should also say, I like a Dirty Old Man. There is something very erotic about giving a Dirty Old Man exactly what he wants. I don't see all older men as Dirty Old Men, I love the Gentlemen just as well, but it's fun to satiate a Dirty Old Man's desires when the opportunity arises.
When I was in my 30's I was with a man in his late 60's and it was great. I like an older gentleman. I love the confidence of his experience and his appreciation for the sex. I love to be naked and that seems to make some of the other gents quite happy. I love it when they join me, feeling carefree and ready to touch or be touched at any time.
Now that I am in my 50's, I find men in their 70's and older appealing. No, it has nothing to do with money. It's about appreciation and gentility. I love seeing a man excited about having as much access to sex as he pleases. I love hearing about his experiences and desires. With younger men, there seems to be so much Taken for Granted. But with older men, is sheer pleasure.
I like that my nipples are typically on display when the water or air is cold. I always remove the liner from my bathing suits for just that reason. Also, when I am able to swim nude, there is nothing more sensual than feeling the water caress my naked skin. I like to stand at breast high depth and feel the water lapping at my naked nipples. Mmmmm...feels so wonderful.
I have 46DDs and they are constantly "in the way" however, I am not shy about it, as I like it. I don't do it purposefully, except in crowd situations with strangers. I am always finding ways to press them up against strangers in a crowd, especially if I can "blame" it on the moving train. I always smile and love it when it appears to be appreciated. The longer I can rub my titties on someone new in public, the pokier my nipples get. As I am often braless, that makes me that much happier.
I used to respond to them and enjoy a romp with a stranger.
I especially liked the Man on Business in a Hotel Room type. I would dress in something sexy, meet him for a drink in the lobby and then go back to his room and fuck.
Once in a while I would go directly to his room or in one case, have him come to mine. I arrived with nothing but a long rain coat on, which I stripped off in the hallway when I knocked on the door so that we would find me naked and ready. I opened the door nude when I had him come to my room. Each of these was with different men and each was a fun adventure.
One of my favorites though, was responding to an ABF ad. I met him and he suckled me. I really enjoyed that, but he needed a bigger time commitment to pursue it going forward and I had to decline, regretfully.
I miss Craigslist ads, I liked being able to easily find someone in my local area that shared my interests and was readily available.
Went to a nude beach by myself. When a guy set up his blanket on the sand directly below my legs, I spread them and smiled. Moments later, he was sitting by my side chatting me up. We went into the water and fucked with anyone who was observant watching. It wasn't a good fuck but I really enjoyed the experience overall. I enjoy fucking strangers. I like fucking in public. I really get off on letting the Slut in me run wild.
I love it when they are pinched when I am braless and in public, especially as a playful surprise. I love having my nipples on display like that. Sometimes I will pinch them myself to attain that look. Not infrequencly, I find myself absentmindedly pinching them when I drive. But I most enjoy it when someone else gives them a friendly pinch, draped or otherwise.
The way you described it, would please me tremendously. Especially if followed by a wet lick or suckle. Photographing my nipples like that would also be a huge turn on.
Indulge yourself. Make safe decisions but enjoy sharing your body. Embrace the joy of sex. Be generous and explore, don't be timid. Don't be ashamed of being free with your sexual self. Let that freedom give you confidence. Experiment. Find what you like and share it.
